How to get rid of bad feelings after losing tactile virginity?

Unread post by **sveta1989** » 23 Mar 2022, 05:26

I lost my virginity with a vibrator, but I didn’t have sex with a guy, but something small began to move in my vagina and was causing pain, I couldn’t stand the long wait for a female gynecologist by appointment and went to see a male gynecologist because there was unbearable pain in my vagina from the movements of something incomprehensible, gynecologist the man didn’t find anything and couldn’t help, and after this visit I have very unpleasant feelings in my soul, since the male gynecologist was my first man who touched my vagina and I really didn’t like this man, I know that it’s my own fault because I didn’t wait when it was his turn it would reach the woman’s gynecologist, plus I was scared of severe pain in the vagina, but I didn’t think that with a male gynecologist everything would be so bad, now after this appointment I don’t want to think about sex with someone I like and I don’t want to try sex with a guy I like how the feelings are dulled and there is also an unpleasant feeling in the soul, how to get rid of these feelings? What are your opinions?

Unread post by **sevener** » 23 Mar 2022, 07:35

Did you lose your virginity with a vibrator at 33? If so, then everything is really very bad.
As for the situation, the main thing is not to dwell on it, the first man who touched you was probably an obstetrician, and then your parents touched you while they washed you, dressed you, etc., so don’t bother about a sexual examination It’s definitely not worth it.
Also, if the pain continues, you can go to any gynecologist again. If you have psychological concerns, then a good psychologist is best. You can write in a personal message, I’ll give you advice.

Unread post by **Bro** » 23 Mar 2022, 07:53

sveta1989, spring has finally come :bel_flag:
Someone has started to experience an exacerbation)

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 23 Mar 2022, 07:57

sveta1989: 23 Mar 2022, 05:26 I lost my virginity with a vibrator, but I didn’t have sex with a guy, but something small began to move in my vagina and was causing pain, I couldn’t stand the long wait for a female gynecologist for an appointment and went to see a male gynecologist because the movements of something incomprehensible in my vagina were unbearable it hurt, the male gynecologist couldn’t find anything and couldn’t help, and after this visit I have very unpleasant feelings in my soul, since the male gynecologist was my first man who touched my vagina and I really didn’t like this man, I know that it’s my own fault because I didn’t I waited until it was the woman’s turn to see the gynecologist, plus I was scared by the severe pain in the vagina, but I didn’t think that with a male gynecologist everything would be so bad, now after this appointment I don’t even want to think about sex with someone I like and try sex with a guy I like I don’t want to because my feelings are dulled and I also have an unpleasant feeling in my soul, how can I get rid of these feelings? What are your opinions?

Suggestion nothing more, have a drink with your friends , take a break... And the guys will come

Unread post by **sveta1989** » 23 Mar 2022, 08:57

Maybe this situation can be treated with good sex with the guy you like, of course? If someone like me has good sex, then the problem with the male gynecologist will go away and be forgotten, only the first sex that you like with someone you like?

Unread post by **lanaaas341** » 02 Sep 2022, 02:34

Most likely the hymen remained untorn; I also had the same problem.

Unread post by **Slon_mt** » 03 Sep 2022, 05:30

It’s better to go to the doctor, they’re unlikely to give you any advice, maybe they’ll find a doctor

Unread post by **Cat Matroskin.** » 15 Nov 2022, 05:41

There is a high probability that an area of the vaginal mucosa has become inflamed. It then swells and feels like there is something extra in the middle. Naturally there is also pain. You can do this with a penis, and even more so with a vibrator. After this, 7-10 days of abstinence are necessary. Something similar happened in my family. Nimesulide is great at relieving such inflammations, but ruins the stomach.
Try to find a guy. Must be previously married (experienced). And the complexes will disappear.
The advice is not from the bay, but from a certified psychologist. Family experience 23 years.

Unread post by **shumsky** » 15 Nov 2022, 05:45

and again virgin sveta1989

33 years old, and still a virgin