Couple, over 30, together 15 years, children. We love each other, but there is no longer such...

Unread post by **Anonymous** » 21 Nov 2019, 05:32

Couple, over 30, together 15 years, children. We love each other, but there is no such passion anymore. We talked and decided to try sex on the side to rekindle the old passion. Besides, my wife before me was a virgin. She doesn’t seem to mind, and she’s a little doubtful. The same applies to mzhm. How do you think? Worth a try? Or will there be problems in the future? Has anyone encountered this situation?

Unread post by **North** » 26 Oct 2020, 07:36

Guys, the main thing for you is... to choose the most suitable person! Everything depends on this
And maybe you’ll meet a couple...? And you will... "change"
It’s not easy to find

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Oct 2020, 07:57

Actually, it’s more difficult than finding a husband/wife!...

Unread post by **Michael** » 18 Jan 2021, 14:24

Guys, you can try, but you both must be ready to accept a new relationship. And it’s great arousing. I know it from myself. Where do you live (general address only)? If in Moscow or nearby, I can help you meet with lovers of such relationships, it will be interesting, I guarantee it.

Unread post by **Marianna** » 01 Feb 2021, 03:12

How old are you

Unread post by **Tanushka** » 22 Feb 2021, 04:20

Oh, girls - boys! The main thing is that you then, after these same sex-sluts on the side, accept each other with new passion, and not with disgust. I have no experience in this, I can’t advise in short, but I would start to diversify my intimate life, preferably in the format of mzhm, zhmzh or mzh-mf. At least everything and everyone is in sight in this case and you can create a general communication scenario, and not everyone on their own. I don’t know, think carefully first, so as not to completely fall apart later.

Unread post by **Tolkala** » 23 Apr 2021, 00:18

Anonymous, you have children. You can try with them .And at home. And new sensations. A frequent occurrence.

Unread post by **vit123** » 29 Apr 2021, 13:18

Anonymous, My wife and I had an mzhm with our good acquaintances But I will say that everything happened spontaneously. So if you spend a long time preparing for this format. then some of you will simply burn out the desire.

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Tolqala: ↑23 Apr 2021, 00:18 Anonymous, you have children. You can try it with them. And at home. And new sensations. A frequent occurrence.

Maybe it’s not worth it with children yet.? Moreover, it is not known how the children themselves will react to this. Try with a simple mzhm format. and how it goes.

Unread post by **Field** » 10 Dec 2021, 11:12

Tolqala: ↑23 Apr 2021, 00:18 you have children. You can try with them.

Quite a controversial proposal...

Tolqala:23 Apr 2021, 00:18 A common occurrence.

To be honest, in real life I have only met someone like this once.
But maybe I’m just talking to the “wrong people”...
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Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 06 Jun 2022, 03:23

Anonymous,

I had the same experience with my ex-wife. In the end they got divorced. I don’t want to go through such an experience with my second wife anymore. Well, there was no such desire for a second wife either.

Unread post by **Looking for** » 04 Sep 2022, 23:42

Anonymous,
It’s interesting that did they succeed?
Did they get together or run away.....

Unread post by **Gudgeon** » 05 Sep 2022, 06:19

Vlad6969: ↑06 Jun 2022, 03:23 I had such an experience with my ex-wife. As a result, they got divorced.

I just thought that this would be the end, and here is real confirmation of this! I think all this “let’s try sex on the side” is beautiful on the forum pages, but in reality, it will cause hidden resentment, comparisons and alienation. If we’re going to try something in such a situation, then new rules between the spouses, and not on the side, or a meeting of mzhm/fmzh at the extreme (although this is also a solution to family problems). In general, parties and group sex are not a cure for the problem of cooling in bed; problems will only increase.

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 05 Sep 2022, 18:04

Gudgeon,

I don’t want to have such an experience with my second wife, when you know what it can lead to. Moreover, it did not happen immediately, but after 12 years.

Unread post by **Johnny depp** » 05 Sep 2022, 18:44

Vlad6969, please explain why this will lead to divorce? You both agreed and went for it, and you knew what awaited you, at what point did you realize that MFM would ruin everything?

I admit that I am also against MFM, but at the same time I don’t believe that it can destroy someone’s marriage or relationship,

Well, what’s wrong with that? We invited an anonymous person and had a good time :) remains as a memory

Unread post by **Coffee** » 05 Sep 2022, 20:03

Very carefully, talking through every doubt and thought with my wife. If everything is in order in the family, then everything can be fine and will only add love and confidence

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 06 Sep 2022, 05:54

Jonny depp,
I didn’t write that this would lead to your divorce. I wrote about my experience. Why did it happen? And I’m tired of hearing daily reproaches about this MFM from my ex-wife (she wasn’t an ex yet).
And this did not lead to divorce immediately, after 12 years after that. I was married to my ex-wife for 18 years. So, try it, but keep in mind that these experiments may come back to haunt you many years later. And once again I inform you that this is my experience. For others it may be different.

Unread post by **Looking for** » 06 Sep 2022, 06:18

Anonymous,
And whose initiative was such a decision?

Unread post by **Troy** » 07 Sep 2022, 08:14

Anonymous: ↑21 Nov 2019, 05:32 We love each other, but there is no such passion anymore.

Well, if you want to bury your relationship, then try...what does such passion mean in your opinion? It’s just interesting to know what do people mean when they say that they had such a passion? The most important thing is your union. and your love. let someone else into this, a fourth, destroy it with your own hands. and you can return the passion yourself, that’s what you’ve been given libido, lust and everything else

Unread post by **compulsory** » 28 Apr 2024, 15:46

Anonymous: ↑21 Nov 2019, 05:32 Couple, over 30, together for 15 years, children. We love each other, but there is no such passion anymore. We talked and decided to try sex on the side to rekindle the old passion. Besides, my wife before me was a virgin. She doesn’t seem to mind, and she’s a little doubtful. The same applies to mzhm. How do you think? Worth a try? Or will there be problems in the future? Has anyone encountered this situation?

I would not recommend trying it on the side. you can destroy what you have been building all these years.

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