Who would you really marry? A wife over 30 with children? Or would you wait longer without children?

[Tura]

I’m sitting drinking coffee and having time. And out of nothing to do, I decided to ask a question to people who don’t know each other and are of different ages and preferences. I want to hear an opinion from the outside, maybe I’m wrong, but I think not.

I have a good friend who has lived in Holland for three years and works. For three years he has nothing, he rents an apartment and lives from paycheck to paycheck, he loves gambling and that’s why he has no money!)
He has not been married for 37 years and has never been married, he is from the Caucasus and before that, he didn’t show the women he liked to his mother)) Because one tattoo on her shoulder, the other was married.... in general, time has passed.
Yesterday I talked to him on the phone and says that it’s been a month already lives with a woman also from Russia and she is 30 years old and she has two children, girls, but the point is that they are from an African father who, by the way, was already born in Holland.
In general, he really likes her in everything and how Russian ladies who have fallen in love with a man, she quickly wants to formalize their relationship. He tells him to either get married or spend money. It’s like you’re taking advantage of me, but I need to build a serious relationship. He says I would marry her if her children were white. But the fact that the children are from a black man says this puts me in a morally awkward position among those around me. He says that the girls are smart, good and even know Russian from their mother, but he says to be their dad, I morally say I can’t do it. And the main thing is how the relatives will look!
To what I answered him, I say, you are 37 years old! Are you a little boy and are you looking at what your mom and dad say?! I’m saying that if a woman in your life provides you with moral pleasure and you all live together and everything is fine, then the fact is that you will have adopted daughters, mulattos do not play a role, it’s the same as white or mulatto, all the same, among your friends they will know that you are not theirs biological father. I say look, the woman told you correctly that she needs to build her life.

Now I want to hear your opinion, would you, at this moment of your age, marry the woman I described and with such children? Or would you look without children, or if with children, then with white skin!?

[alex503311]

It’s difficult here, but if she gives birth to a third child, from you, then it’s a different matter; if she’s against it, I’d probably find something else.
But it depends on a lot of things, relationships, etc., because if she loves, then that’s one thing, but if she’s just sleeps with him, then I would look
for another. You can try, call and say that you were fired, if she sends you, then screw her, if she says,
no problem, we will look for a new job for you together .
Again, if he loves her, then it’s good, if not, then living without love and with children from someone else is not a guarantee.

[a nymph]

yes this is a dream. heartbreak with a hot mother and 2 little mulatto girls.

[Tolkala]

nymphet, girls have African blood. Early puberty. If mom participates, then his sex life will be very active.

[Guest_15]

Now I want to hear your opinion, would you, at this moment of your age, marry the woman I described and with such children? Or would they look without children, or if with children, then with white skin!?

You are not worried about that...
Or rather, he is this guy That’s not what you’re worried about.
You need to worry not about children with dark skin color, but about the woman herself.
She, apparently, is manipulating him. Well, she probably doesn’t have any feelings for him. She just needs someone to support her. And so she uses it. Like, either get married or get the fuck out!

I think in this situation you shouldn’t marry this woman because now she’s probably making him ooh and ahh in bed. I think after marriage all this will end and she will just constantly want something from him. Do this, do that...
Well, in general, in this situation, I would not get married. And black girls are not a problem at all. The problem, in my opinion, lies with this woman.
This is definitely a marriage of convenience on her part.

[Experienced]

A woman has children after 30, this is an indicator of normality.
If they are not at this age, then something is wrong, most likely she is not for the family.
So if, due to your age, 20 Summer women don’t look at you, a divorcee with a child is an excellent option for starting a family.

[Guest_15]

divorce with a child is an excellent option for starting a family.

Why?
What is this excellent option for starting a family as you write? ? For what?
For someone to cook food for you, clean the place where you live, provide you with their pussy for regular fucking?
Because you’re kind of tired of eating dumplings and eating sandwiches. Fucked up with the fact that the place where you live needs to be regularly vacuumed, regularly washed bed linen, regularly wiped dust everywhere. And from time to time, carry out general cleaning in the kitchen or in the room.

Well, I’m generally silent about regular sex. If cooking and cleaning are still somehow subject to some kind of logic and systematization and you just have to not be lazy, then with this fucking sex there’s nothing incomprehensible at all. And sometimes it’s easier to really jerk off and move on with your life. Because this living pussy requires so much effort, ingenuity and resourcefulness that sometimes that sex is not worth it, how many resources are spent on it.

Isn’t that why these webcam chats and other sites with porn videos. I came in, looked, got excited, jerked off and moved on with my life.
But this is, so to speak, just a pass-through option. And everything would be fine if not for friends and colleagues. After all, it’s important to you what people say. And it doesn’t matter what they say about you behind your back. And in the company, men talk about how they fucked someone on the weekend. And someone talks about how they fucked someone in a group. Or how, in general, somewhere at the dacha everyone got drunk and fucked with each other.

And you’re the only one silently, kind of smiling meaningfully, saying that I’m not a mistake either, but I don’t like talking about it on people. But in reality, all these stories make you sad and you feel like a loser. Everyone around you fucks someone and gives it to everyone. And just like the last sucker, you jerk off to your laptop. And then the idea is born to make some divorced woman happy.

Everything seems to fit - she will be grateful to you and will appreciate you. Because she should have already given up living alone without a man - well, like, without sex, and without help in the house, and on her salary alone. And of course, she will take upon herself the solution to all your problems described above - with sex, with cleaning and cooking.

So I want to disappoint those who think so. Because doing this just for the sake of sex, cleaning and cooking, from my point of view, is not worth it. And it’s only worth it if you and this woman like each other. And it doesn’t matter whether she’s divorced or not. Does she have a child or not? The important thing is that you like each other. And then it’s probably really worth moving in together and living together. Maybe even not to get married to begin with, so that it would be easier to build relationships.

Because sometimes it happens that people would be happy to run away. But how can they imagine how they will have to cut down this property knot and everyone becomes sick from thinking about how to cut down the living space. And if you don’t nag, then how and where to live further?

Well, if you are tired of living without sex and tired of cooking and cleaning, then I want to convey to your mind that it will be cheaper to hire an aunt who will come come to you twice a week and will clean and cook. And you will come home in the evening and everything will be tidied up and everything will be clean. And in the kitchen there will be warm cutlets covered with a towel. Everything will be washed and put in its place. There will be purchased products in the refrigerator. And a note on the table. And it will cost you less than marrying a divorcee for the sake of cooking and cleaning.

Well, as for sex, first take care of yourself. Join the gym, lose weight. Think about your hairstyle, wardrobe. And when you get yourself in order, go somewhere in the evening to a bar and sit at the counter. And believe me, you will definitely meet a woman there who came to the bar for the same thing you did - that is, for one-time sex. And you don’t need to take her to your home. It’s too much. There are hotels where you can rent a room for the night. It will be clean and tidy there. Pay for the room before 12 noon the next day. And you will fuck and sleep with this girl of yours.

[artm. lecher]

Tura, The main thing is to marry a woman with experience in sex and without complexes. And if she has two more daughters, especially mulatto ones... that’s super.

nymphet, the girls have African blood. Early puberty. If the mother participates, then his sex life will be very active.

[Drandulet264043]

Having two other people’s children is not easy, especially since they will always understand that he is not their father, it’s better to look for my opinion

[maxim.maximovich]

For example, many mothers are not against being satisfied by their father’s son or daughter. At one time I dated a neighbor, she is divorced, she has a daughter, we didn’t bathe in the bathroom and didn’t have sex, after a while she taught her how to give a blowjob on me together, they did it to me... but she didn’t want my husband.. I would like to I would like to find someone with a daughter or someone who is not against the father sleeping with his daughter...

[Field]

You need to worry not about children with dark skin color, but about the woman herself.
She, apparently, is manipulating him. Well, she probably doesn’t have any feelings for him. She just needs someone to support her. And so she uses it. Like, either get married or get the fuck out!

I fully support Ivan’s opinion.
It’s better to let her go on all fours.

[Sibiryak89]

I got married, she has two children, her son got married, her daughter is finishing school, what are the problems?))) My wife is a good housewife, a caring mother, the rest of the emotions. I agree with Ivan, it’s pity that the girls are mulatto and she’s unhappy... It will also make him not entirely happy, she wants to win him like a challenge prize. And you have to love.

[Guest_15]

I got married, she has two children, her son got married, her daughter is finishing school, what are the problems?))) My wife is a good housewife, a caring mother, lots of emotions. I agree with Ivan, it’s pity that the girls are mulatto and she’s unhappy... It will also make him not entirely happy, she wants to win him like a challenge prize. But you have to love.

Sometimes people get sick of bachelor life. When we got IKEA stores, after some time someone noticed that it was better not to go to IKEA stores alone. The store is long, usually built in the form of a labyrinth, and there are only couples everywhere around. And now you are alone without a partner. Moreover, the store was built and planned very democratically. Everything is possible there. Well, almost everything. Well, maybe you can’t sit down and shit on the floor.
But almost everything else is possible. You can lie on all the beds and sofas there. Sit on all the chairs and chairs. Touch everything and even, if necessary, move it to another place in the hall. Well, for example, you want to see how a nightstand will look next to a particular bed.

At one time it was forbidden to take photographs there because half of the IKEA rooms are built in the form of ready-made, well-thought-out interiors. So that this or that piece of furniture can be seen how it can play in this or that composition or with this or that object. Well, apparently IKEA thought that someone could steal these interiors and then reproduce them somewhere in advertising or somewhere else. But then reason prevailed and this ban was abandoned. And now at IKEA you can shoot anything and any way you want. For which I thank them very much.

And around you, people are enthusiastically busy selecting home interiors. And this IKEA has a lot of interesting offers that from the outside it looks like letting a hungry fatfish into a buffet room.
And they say that single people of both sexes become depressed after visiting (or even during visiting) IKEA. Like, people around here are happy with each other and I’m the only one like the last loser.
And like, life is crap.

But I think that life is even worse if you live with a person who loves you does not love. And who lives with you only because he needs something from you. I have met couples in my life where a woman is married to a man who is far from the ideal man she would like. And where is this woman constantly searching? And if a prince appears on the horizon and calls her to his happy future, she will not hesitate to leave this worthless man of hers.

And so I think that it is better not to be such a man. And it’s better to live alone and still try to find your happiness, because that’s where your soul mate goes. And you just haven’t met yet.
And I think it’s worth continuing the search for the rest of your life.
But what you definitely shouldn’t do is live with that person who doesn’t love you.

[I’m leaving]

Well, Ivan is in his repertoire, with hidden Ikea advertising. How much did you pay? Love is a subtle and slippery concept of feelings that can be combined with other feelings. This is how people live, maybe without love, but mutual respect, oh yes, in the modern world, in most cases, they live for mutually beneficial relationships, in which everyone is happy and complements each other.

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And in the old days they generally married for profit, and even now in some countries and regions of our vast countries where they observe the customs of their ancestors and non-Christians, this is still practiced.

[Sibiryak89]

I got married, she has two children, her son got married, her daughter is finishing school, what are the problems?))) My wife is a good housewife, a caring mother, so much emotion. I agree with Ivan, it’s pity that the girls are mulatto and she’s unhappy... It will also make him not entirely happy, she wants to win him like a challenge prize. But you have to love.

Sometimes people get sick of bachelor life. When we got IKEA stores, after some time someone noticed that it was better not to go to IKEA stores alone. The store is long, usually built in the form of a labyrinth, and there are only couples everywhere around. And now you are alone without a partner. Moreover, the store was built and planned very democratically. Everything is possible there. Well, almost everything. Well, maybe you can’t sit down and shit on the floor.
But almost everything else is possible. You can lie on all the beds and sofas there. Sit on all the chairs and chairs. Touch everything and even, if necessary, move it to another place in the hall. Well, for example, you want to see how a nightstand will look next to a particular bed.

At one time it was forbidden to take photographs there because half of the IKEA rooms are built in the form of ready-made, well-thought-out interiors. So that this or that piece of furniture can be seen how it can play in this or that composition or with this or that object. Well, apparently IKEA thought that someone could steal these interiors and then reproduce them somewhere in advertising or somewhere else. But then reason prevailed and this ban was abandoned. And now at IKEA you can shoot anything and any way you want. For which I thank them very much.

And around you, people are enthusiastically busy selecting home interiors. And this IKEA has a lot of interesting offers that from the outside it looks like letting a hungry fatfish into a buffet room.
And they say that single people of both sexes become depressed after visiting (or even during visiting) IKEA. Like, people around here are happy with each other and I’m the only one like the last loser.
And like, life is crap.

But I think that life is even worse if you live with a person who loves you does not love. And who lives with you only because he needs something from you. I have met couples in my life where a woman is married to a man who is far from the ideal man she would like. And where is this woman constantly searching? And if a prince appears on the horizon and calls her to his happy future, she will not hesitate to leave this worthless man of hers.

And so I think that it is better not to be such a man. And it’s better to live alone and still try to find your happiness, because that’s where your soul mate goes. And you just haven’t met yet.
And I think it’s worth continuing the search for the rest of your life.
But what you definitely shouldn’t do is live with that person who doesn’t love you.

Well, yes, that’s how it was before this wife, there were 2, and then I met her purely by chance and said, “You’ll be my wife and you became my wife,” and he took her away and got married, although she said, you can live without registration, in my understanding, this is not a family, when 3 family members have different last names, a hostel...
Any position has the right to exist, but when they put pressure on you, they demand something and at the same time they talk about love, they were walking through the forest, this is a household prostitute...

[Nandandaar]

Was married twice. Two children, two grandchildren so far... Marrying for the third time and raising children? Nope, flight. It’s time to babysit the grandchildren. But you can get married, but for the sake of living together.

[Vladtsst]

I am after a divorce from my first wife at 45 years old. I found a foreign woman of Asian origin. She was 35 years old at that time. She was not married. Never had children. Now we have two children of our own. And I already have an adult child from my first marriage. A woman is primarily focused on children. This must be understood before marrying a woman with children. And the real dad can be activated at any moment. So the question is very serious.

[Alexis97]

At the age of 29 there was a child from her first marriage, after 1.5 years a common one was born and it was normal.

[Bead41e]

As one very smart man once told me: choose as your wife the one who is worthy of you, and not the one of whom you are worthy.

[Big with small]

Omar Khayyam said: “It’s better to live alone than with just anyone.” So I’d rather never marry than marry a woman with children.

[Gunter]

one very smart man: choose as your wife the one who deserves you, and not the one you deserve.

it’s like going to a super market and I chose the one I liked))

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I would never rather than marry a woman with children.

I read the stories here and I think they are from this forum there may be a queue to marry a woman with children, if you read what many people write here on the forum)))

[My things]

with or without a child, what difference does it make, if you fall in love, get married, have more children

[DoRN]

For example, many mothers are not against being satisfied by their father’s son or daughter. At one time I dated a neighbor, she is divorced, she has a daughter, we didn’t bathe in the bathroom and didn’t have sex, after a while she taught her how to give a blowjob on me together, they did it to me... but she didn’t want my husband.. I would like to I would like to find someone with a daughter or someone who doesn’t mind the father sleeping with his daughter...

Except maybe in this format))

[Shalun70]

I’m probably a fool... I would marry the one I love... age and having children would not matter....

[Didudo]

RSP is still an option. Consider yourself signed up for hard labor. He will try his best to work and support her and the children, but when he has no strength left, they will send her to hell. Then again he will be alone without money and without health)))

[The passage]

RSP is another option. Consider yourself signed up for hard labor. He will try his best to work and support her and the children, but he won’t have any strength left. will send. Then again you will be alone without money and without health)))

Families always have children. Someone gave birth to you.

[Alex366]

I waited without children, well, at 50 years old it’s possible with one child.

[The passage]

I waited without children, well, at the age of 50 you can have one child.

At the age of 50, as a rule, everyone’s children are already adults. Already grandchildren.

[Alex366]

So at 50), before this time you can find someone without children, no one likes other people’s children, there are those who treat them well, of course. You can take it when you already have your own children, this is a very difficult topic, anything can happen.

[Timuryai]

If you love a woman, you will love her children too.

[Veronica]

No one needs a woman with children.

[Winsly]

I took it with my child. Over 30, almost everyone already has children. My question was different: take the child with me or stay alone.

[hello. I don’t hear]

No one needs a woman with children.

Many live with divorced women.

[Vladtsst]

Winsly,

My wife was 35 when we got married. She had no children. But, she is a foreigner. It is quite common for them to get married in adulthood. In her country, a woman with a child can get married. But age difference will be 25 - 35 years old. Younger men don’t need it.

[Winsly]

Vlad6969, yes, this is some kind of pain in the ass with children without children are still the same. But what can you do, children are children. But it’s better if someone is looking for a couple without children. Because not all children accept well. My daughter received her well, very much indeed. But I know couples where the children are simply aggressive towards their mother’s choice.

[Vladtsst]

Winsly,

It’s just that for women, children come first. And the husband is on the second or further. If the children are common, then there is an attitude towards the husband as the father of her children. I wouldn’t be able to invest money in someone else’s family. And in my case, even if there is a disagreement between us, then my investment is not lost. They are invested in MY children.

[Winsly]

It’s just that for women, children come first. And the husband is on the second or further. If the children are common, then there is an attitude towards the husband as the father of her children. I wouldn’t be able to invest money in someone else’s family. And in my case, even if there is a disagreement between us, then my investment is not lost. They are invested in MY children.

I know women, including my wife’s friends, who don’t care about their children. That’s why it varies. And relationships are ideally described accurately, but sometimes things don’t work out that way. There are also different things about investing in someone else’s family. Only her child turns out to be someone else’s, but my wallet doesn’t suffer much. But if she had two children or more requests, then yes. Therefore, you should think carefully before taking on such responsibility.

[Vladtsst]

Winsly,

My wife is a foreigner and we live in her homeland. There are different customs there than in Russia. I described the attitude towards children in her country. Of course, there are exceptions here too, but very rarely. And regarding investments: here a foreigner does not have the right to purchase land and private houses. Maximum: apartments in a condo. So, there is no jointly acquired property here, as in Russia. Everything is according to the law. Well, or him, if he is local and his wife is foreign.

[Winsly]

Vlad6969, okay. It’s bad that it’s so strict somehow

[Vladtsst]

Winsly,

Everything is fine, the country protects its citizens. That’s why I wouldn’t take someone else’s child. So, even if you break up, then everything you’ve earned in your entire life will remain at least for your children, and God knows who.

[40 per day]

I’M 40 MARRIED NO CHILDREN ONLY HERE NOW THE DIFFERENT PROBLEM IS THAT IT’S NOT ME BUT THE FEMALE GENDER IS GLORIOUS THAT GIVE ALL THE RICH A DECENT WAY OF LIFE I DO NOT DRINK I DO NOT SMOKE I WORK A SIMPLE WORKER AND MEN LIKE THIS ARE NOW A VIRGIN SHEK IS NOT INTERESTED FOR CREATING A FAMILY AND BIRTH CHILD