It seems my husband doesn't want me anymore...

Unread post by **Anonymous** » 25 Dec 2022, 12:54

I am 38. My husband and I have been together for 7 years. After the birth of a child (4.5 years ago), our sex life changed.
The husband is satisfied with sex from the side and from above. All! And my unreal sexuality woke up. I want everything and even more! I persuade him to fuck me doggy style (he doesn’t like this position), I almost forcibly give him a blowjob (he is indifferent to him, according to his words), I persuade him to anal sex (me in the anal), he has never done it..
tried talk to him carefully, without pressure or push, playfully, tenderly... I said that I wanted his dick in my mouth, that I wanted to give him a blowjob... and he told me, well, do it if you want, but I don’t care about him..

She said that I really love doggy style, that I will cum 100%, every time I beg, he agrees reluctantly, showing it with all his appearance and 2 minutes no more..
5 years he hasn’t touched my breasts, doesn’t touch, doesn’t kiss... doesn’t do Cooney... Somehow experimenting in sex, ugh, I don’t expect that from him anymore... My husband says that I satisfy him, that his sex with me satisfies me.
I recently realized that my youth is passing, that I will never be the same as I am now... and that until the end of my days I will not be fucked the way I want... thoughts about cheating.. I don’t want to cheat.. I’m crying.. I don’t know what to do.

Unread post by **Heroine** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:00

My wife and I went through such a period a year ago. Everything is great now. Write in a personal message and I’ll share my experience.

Unread post by **Six** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:02

This may be trivial, but what if he is driven by stereotypes that a woman ceases to be a sexual object after giving birth? Didn’t he have anyone? Has anything changed in you physically after giving birth? Did you have a Caesarean section or did you give birth naturally?

Unread post by **Nikname** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:07

Stop being active at all. Turn on inaccessible mode. Add some bitchiness, dress sexier, and don’t let anyone get close to you, find reasons not to let them. Let him run after you again and get you.

Unread post by **VKrisov** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:11

If sex was like this before, it’s not what has changed. You are the one who perked up)

Unread post by **Anonymous** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:16

VKrisov: 25 Dec 2022, 13:11 If sex was like this before, then it’s not him who has changed. You are the one who perked up)

I have always loved sex and could not connect my life with such a boring man. There were positions, there was passion, he kissed me all over...
Apparently the passion just went away (like me) and high-quality long sex went away. Only for him it’s normal, but I can’t do that..

Unread post by **Sahaha** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:18

Throw him your erotic photos to get him excited.
Try to go somewhere together. Relax, talk.

Unread post by **VKrisov** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:20

Anonymous: 25 Dec 2022, 13:16 Only this is normal for him, but I can’t do that

Then we need to stir him up. So that the blood plays.

Unread post by **romance book** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:26

Heroonheroine: 25 Dec 2022, 13:00 My wife and I went through such a period a year ago. Everything is great now. Write in a personal message

and if briefly, how did you resolve the situation?

For me, this is how you can give advice to the author so that my husband read this forum, erotic fantasies will appear.
The second point is to take care of his health, so that he has more energy, proper nutrition, sports

Unread post by **Anonymous** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:35

VKrisov: 25 Dec 2022, 13:20 Then you need to stir him up. So that the blood plays.

Here is an example, today’s sex..
He got out of the shower and lay down. I came, started to undress naked... I said, I want you badly, right now... He took off his bathrobe and lay down. I started greedily giving him a blowjob, moaning, and he didn’t even fucking look at me, turned away, closed his eyes (((..I sat on top..managed to snatch one opportunity before he got tired..started to ask him to fuck me doggy style, he he began to insist that he didn’t want to, I persuaded him somehow... 2 minutes and he kicked on his side ((((and I almost cry. I say, darling, come on, he says that he doesn’t like this position, that he it’s uncomfortable.. I suggest standing up differently, finding a comfortable position, but he didn’t find one. So we ended up on his side.. of course I couldn’t finish (((

Unread post by **Heroine** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:38

I stopped masturbating, began to solve the problem of cumming quickly, began to reconnect with my wife and learn a lot of new things about her

Unread post by **VKrisov** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:42

We must try to start a conversation. To find out what’s wrong. And then we can overcome it all together. You won’t be able to give ready-made advice here.

Unread post by **Anonymous** » 25 Dec 2022, 13:58

VKrisov: 25 Dec 2022, 13:42 We must try to start a conversation. To find out what’s wrong

I’m trying. It’s not that simple. This is not easy for me... and I don’t want to offend him and left him even more behind. It’s time to find the right words and intonation...

Unread post by **Wot_ja** » 25 Dec 2022, 14:06

Anonymous: 25 Dec 2022, 13:35
VKrisov: 25 Dec 2022, 13:20 Then you need to stir him up. So that the blood plays.
Here is an example, today’s sex..
He got out of the shower and lay down. I came, started to undress naked... I said, I want you badly, right now... He took off his bathrobe and lay down. I started greedily giving him a blowjob, moaning, and he didn’t even fucking look at me, turned away, closed his eyes (((..I sat on top..managed to snatch one opportunity before he got tired..started to ask him to fuck me doggy style, he he began to insist that he didn’t want to, I persuaded him somehow... 2 minutes and he kicked on his side ((((and I almost cry. I say, darling, come on, he says that he doesn’t like this position, that he it’s uncomfortable.. I suggest standing up differently, finding a comfortable position, but he didn’t find one. So we ended up on his side.. of course I couldn’t finish (((

stupid, such happiness is nearby, but maybe he has something in his soul, find out, otherwise it will be bad for you all in the future

Unread post by **VKrisov** » 25 Dec 2022, 14:11

Anonymous: 25 Dec 2022, 13:58I’m trying

We need to approach this delicately.

Unread post by **Timas0** » 25 Dec 2022, 14:37

make it so that he catches you when you jerk off, it will help. I tried this myself when I wasn’t really attracted to my wife, and also let me fuck her where she wouldn’t let me.
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Unread post by **N@TyPaL** » 25 Dec 2022, 15:00

really a bad call. It is possible that he is fucking a more interesting object on the side, and there is no longer enough desire for the boring and accessible option of his wife. If it doesn’t change and there are no problems with erections, then it may still be fixable

25 Dec 2022, 15:13

He’s mad about fat. Tell him that you are leaving for another man, that’s all. And they told you correctly above: Don’t run after him and beg for sex, behave boldly and inaccessibly, take care of yourself, sign up for a gym, shake your ass, get yourself a bunch of young, beautiful fans, even if you don’t want to sleep with them. .male attention will give you strength and energy.

Unread post by **Denach** » 29 Dec 2022, 15:23

Here, in general, you need to know the situation in more detail, and not just about the fact that he just did something to the side and then through force, and you still remain dissatisfied with all this!
You need to know who is busy! Maybe his job is so energy-intensive that he is exhausted physically and mentally, and because of this, there’s no time to devour everything and go to bed!
And perhaps he actually cheats!
Also about you! Maybe you don’t work and you have nowhere to put your energy! And if you work, maybe this work is easier or you treat it more softly and don’t let it pass through you. So I’m more mentally and physically charged!
And about the overflow of thoughts about sex. Really take care of yourself as people write, go to fitness, take up yoga, dancing, etc. or some other hobby, but in general, it’s cooler to start cooking new dishes, so to speak, doing something in the kitchen) After all, as they say, a man’s path lies through his stomach) Well, in general, redirect your energy to others channel!
Yes, and really, when you can even slightly control yourself, I’m very sorry for this expression, try to make him sexually hungry for you, as they wrote earlier!
I apologize in advance if I offended you!

Unread post by **Cowboy2** » 13 Jan 2024, 08:34

Anonymous: 25 Dec 2022, 13:35 , example, today’s sex..
He got out of the shower and lay down. I came, started to undress naked... I said, I want you badly, right now... He took off his bathrobe and lay down. I started greedily giving him a blowjob, moaning, and he didn’t even fucking look at me, turned away, closed his eyes (((..I sat on top..managed to snatch one opportunity before he got tired..started to ask him to fuck me doggy style, he he began to insist that he didn’t want to, I persuaded him somehow... 2 minutes and he kicked on his side ((((and I almost cry. I say, darling, come on, he says that he doesn’t like this position, that he it’s uncomfortable.. I suggest standing up differently, finding a comfortable position, but he didn’t find one. So we ended up on his side.. of course I couldn’t finish (((

It’s already been two years since this post, something has clearly decided. But I suspect that you have found a lover, since no one will tolerate SUCH ignorance and disrespect for a wife...

Unread post by **FEDOT FF** » 13 Jan 2024, 09:51

so maybe you’re very creepy and fucking you isn’t fun at all

Unread post by **Shalun 2010** » 28 Apr 2024, 02:48

Every family has difficulties. There is a solution for each case.
The above was suggestion become unavailable. This is one solution.
Flirting with men is a different solution.
Arrangement of FFM is another solution.
Arrangement of FFM continuation of FFM.
It is possible that the husband likes another woman.
Try these options and see what your husband reacts and how.