The guy is 29 years old and a virgin. Is it normal or not anymore?

[barbas567]

Turned 29 but never been in a relationship. Can I give up on my intimate life or not yet? I’m just not overly confident in myself, and girls don’t like him like that, even though he has average looks.

[Venus]

I turned 29 years old, but have never been in a relationship. Can I give up on my intimate life or not yet? I’m just not overly confident in myself, and girls don’t like them, even though they have average looks.

And, did you want a relationship? Have you invited girls on dates?

[Shalun70]

barabas567,
You are late, of course. .. but I think everything will work out for you... I wonder how you relieved stress? After all, nature is not so easy to deceive. not everyone succeeds.

[barbas567]

Strecoza, I want. I invited you a couple of times. But there was always one meeting and that was it. Then I tried in SZ, but there several times the restaurant workers (a girl among them) wanted to scam me with unreasonable prices. Lucky. But I was completely desperate

[Venus]

Strecoza, I want. I invited you a couple of times. But there was always one meeting and that was it. Then I tried in SZ, but there several times the restaurant workers (a girl among them) wanted to scam me with unreasonable prices. Lucky. But I was completely desperate

You are 29, and have you been asked out on dates a couple of times? Dates rarely take place in restaurants, very rarely. Well, at least for the majority.

[Dmitry Dmitrievich]

Find a guy, at least you’ll lose your virginity) and the experience will be good))

[barbas567]

Strecoza, we agreed to take a walk, she changed the place and time. We met, we didn’t even walk for 2 minutes and pulled us into the restaurant. In response to any misunderstandings on my part, she almost began to be rude. He offered something else. I didn’t agree. He started to leave, and she disappeared immediately
Shalun70 , as everyone and as usual
Dmitry Dmitrievich, I don’t like guys at all

[Venus]

Strecoza, we agreed to take a walk, it’s the place and the time changed. We met, we didn’t even walk for 2 minutes and pulled us into the restaurant. In response to any misunderstandings on my part, she almost began to be rude. He offered something else. I didn’t agree. He started to leave, and she disappeared immediately
Shalun70 , as everyone else and as usual
I don’t like guys at all

Do you have any plans for a family in general? Do you want children?

[barbas567]

Strecoza, there is, but I know that desire is not enough . And this, to be honest, not right away. Like we met and got married. Maybe I will disappoint someone, but it will be too late and they will curse me

[Venus]

Strecoza, yes, but I know that desire alone is not enough. And this, to be honest, not right away. Like we met and got married. Maybe I will disappoint someone, but it will be too late and they will curse me

If you don’t try, you won’t know. It’s just that if a girl feels serious about her, it won’t matter virgin you, timid, modest, and if there is no serious relationship, then it’s easier with the arrogant and impudent. I mean if you just sleep for once.
You need to decide. Do you want a family or not.
If you don’t want a family, then you need to become confident. Maybe not inside, but at least from the outside.

[barbas567]

Strecoza, Honestly, I don’t even want to.. . But immediately the family too... Okay, I understand, thank you It’s really very difficult to be sure.

[Venus]

Strecoza, Honestly, for once I don’t want to... But immediately family too... Okay, I understand, thank you It’s really very difficult to be sure

n You are acting quite confident here.

[Shalun70]

Strecoza, there is, but I know that desire alone is not enough. And this, to be honest, not right away. Like we met and got married. Maybe I will disappoint someone, but it will be too late and they will curse me

There is a saying... Whoever eats a girl for dinner will love her in the evening... After all, you don’t have a permanent girlfriend and family yet... save some money and take the lady out... show that she is not indifferent to you... that you are caring and worried about her... the ice will move...

[barbas567]

Strecoza, Thank you, but there is no visual component here and it is given significant time to formulate your thoughts into an adequate (at least, as it seems to me) sentence. It’s worse in life)
I’d like to find someone else who would treat me normally

[Pilgrim]

And, did you want a relationship? Did you invite girls on dates?

But what about the proverb - The bitch won’t want it, the dog won’t jump up. It’s okay, the time will come and he will be fucked...

[Venus]

And, did you want a relationship? Did you invite girls on dates?

But what about the proverb - The bitch won’t want to, the male won’t jump up...

))) To want, you must at least know about the existence of this man)))

[Shalun70]

What about the proverb - The bitch won’t want to, the dog won’t jump up. It’s okay, the time will come and he will be fucked...

I’ll say this to a lover of the animal world... What should she want? Maybe you need to interest her so that she wants to. Sorry, but you have to be able to present yourself in such a way that the bitch simply cannot refuse...

[Pilgrim]

))) To want, you need to at least know about the existence of this man)))

I will say this to a lover of the animal world... Why should she want to? Maybe you need to interest her so that she wants to. Sorry, but you have to be able to present yourself so that the bitch simply cannot refuse...

Do you really think that it is you who take the Woman, and not she who takes you, it’s like in that joke, she herself will slowly descend into the valley and fuck the whole herd...

Sent after 5 minutes :

))) To want, you need to at least know about the existence of this man)))

Believe my life experience, if a female wants a male, she herself, without any signs from him, flies off everything to take possession of him...

[Vanzo]

I want to. I invited you a couple of times. But there was always one meeting and that was it. Then I tried in SZ, but there several times the restaurant workers (a girl among them) wanted to scam me with unreasonable prices. Lucky. But he was completely desperate

only asked him out a couple of times? on the contrary, you need to go on dates as often as possible, then loyalty will come and you will gain experience in communicating with the opposite sex.

[Shalun70]

Do you really think that it is you who take the Woman, and not she who takes you, it’s like in that joke, she herself will slowly descend into the valley and fuck the whole herd...

It happens in different ways... and we take it and they take us... the main thing here is to interest the lady... whether in submission to you or to look like prime game for her hunting. In order to have a full, interesting and happy life, you need to try both options...

[barbas567]

Vanzo, well, yes. Probably few people are simply interested. Like, I’m very bad at making acquaintances, any kind; it’s difficult to have conversations with strangers and others. What to talk about, how to talk, immediately an unprecedented number of questions with a terrifying fixation on certain moments without the opportunity to give a couple of minutes to understand the current situation, with the further emergence of greater uncertainty, which has a very detrimental effect on further communication or acquaintance. This does not allow you to open up fully and therefore I think everything ends on stupid notes, when I don’t know what’s next or don’t know what reaction the interlocutor is expecting. Yes, I myself understand that I have messed up so much and done wrong that it has been tormenting me for several days. And it takes incredible efforts of will in the future to try again and again. But it goes sideways. That’s why I met so few girls

[Shalun70]

barabas567,
No need to be afraid of questions since you came for advice. Everything here is relatively anonymous, even if your interlocutor is not an IT specialist. It’s unlikely that someone will ever find you out. Also listen to advice that does not contradict you. After all, you are already halfway through solving your problems... You know the reasons. Set them aside and begin life with white hair and according to your own rights.

[Whike]

Well, if it’s hard to meet people in real life, then first you can try chatting online. The only thing is you need to definitely find a resource where there are real people (preferably paid). The good thing about the network is that it gives you time to think about the answer and relaxes you due to the absence of live communication. You can quickly understand whether you and a person have mutual understanding and common interests. Is he interested in you and is he ready to meet you in person? And then, having this virtual basis under your feet, move on to meetings in real life. My friend and I are 90 - they stirred things up like that - they put an ad in the newspaper, saying two nice guys, we want to meet each other, and so on. It all started with letters, then telephones (landlines, there were no mobile phones yet) and in the end real meetings. It turned out differently, someone came , some didn’t, some liked us, others liked us. There were smart and funny and stupid and scary. All kinds. I even met a friend of one girl for almost six months. But the main thing is the invaluable experience of communication that we took away from there. This includes correspondence (it’s clear how a person writes) and telephone communication and live conversation.

[Pilgrim]

It happens in different ways... and we take it and they take us... the main thing here is to interest the lady... or in subordination to you, or to look like a priority game for her hunting. In a full-fledged interesting and happy life, try both options...

I agree. and we take and they take us, to interest the lady, ... they are all selfish, and do only what is interesting to them, and if you are interested in them, then involuntarily you accept their rules of the game, and they use this all their lives ... An exception, you can freely punch each of them in the face, since your physical strength is much greater than theirs, but this is an extreme that excludes Harmony...

[Tamerlane]

I turned 29 years old, but have never been in a relationship. Can I give up on my intimate life or not yet? I’m just not overly confident in myself, and girls don’t like him like that, even though he has average looks.

After this post you already understand that there’s nothing left to discuss.

[BeachBunny]

I’m just overly unsure of myself, and girls don’t like him like that, even though he has average looks.

Girls like different ones. Not all girls like confident, let alone arrogant guys, especially if we talk about very young guys, under 25, and the fact that you rate your appearance as average doesn’t mean anything at all.
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Your story about how you were almost scammed partly suggests that you are driven by your attractive appearance and, let’s say, are not able to soberly assess your real chances and prospects. Tell me, did you seriously not have any suspicions when, with your problems with the opposite sex, a pretty or even beautiful girl in the North West suddenly became interested in you and showed a steady interest? In large cities there have long been scammers who are looking for people like you, in the northwestern part there are well-groomed young ladies who quickly get acquainted and offer to meet, then they drag the poor fellow to a “restaurant”, and there it can be different. There are girls who work in conjunction with cafes and restaurants and sit on the payroll.

[Vert]

Here I think it’s worth looking for a serious relationship. Then there will be sex. If you’re just looking for sex, then you can still be a virgin at 69 .
As for dating sites, yes, there are a lot of scammers. Try searching in social networks in groups. In VK, for example.

[Oleg Milov]

As long as the desire is there, it’s never too late

[barbas567]

BeachBunny, here the girl really wasn’t beautiful and even to me not pretty at all, a lot of extra kilos (I apologize if I offend anyone), a lot of plaster and not very good facial features, to be honest. I never counted on beauties. Initially we agreed to just take a walk! What kind of sustainable interest is there?)) It was she who changed everything immediately upon meeting. We chatted a little online. Then you can’t really trust anyone at all.
Well, maybe I really am a true freak for some representatives. Although in reality such a thought arises more and more often. It’s like there’s nothing much you can do to help here then. This is not something that can be corrected; the facial features are already given that way. And the figure, well, seems athletic, but that doesn’t mean much.
Vert, I don’t know, I wasn’t just looking for satisfaction. It wasn’t like that was the goal. I was looking for an ordinary relationship, like a walk, a movie, etc., and then it will work out or not. But you’re probably right
Oleg Milov , Thank you))

[Aion2012Dead]

To each his own.
If this bothers you, then it’s not too late to change something.
I’m 33 and I’m also a virgin, but
it doesn’t bother me anymore, I just gave up.
Even the idea of ​​prostitutes doesn’t interest me at all.

[Sorcerer]

Aion2012Dead, are you starting a virgin club? It’s already on YouTube, join it.
Not smart advice, as this will later affect your health, both physical and psychological.

[Aion2012Dead]

Sorcerer,

are you starting a club of virgins? It’s already on YouTube, join it.

Well, why should I?
I’m not worried about it.
Rather, I just use it at the right moments, like here.

[Kalyaev]

Normal, but it may hurt)
Both physically and psychologically)

[Shy Baby]

I turned 29 years old, but have never been in a relationship. Can I give up on my intimate life or not yet? I’m just not overly confident in myself, and girls don’t like him like that, even though he has average looks.

Of course it’s NORMAL. Purity is NOT a VICE!
...,My fantastic dream was: to get married as a virgin and for my husband to have me first and last.

[in Peru]

The main thing is how comfortable you are. If you didn’t want sex, you want it only with the one with whom you plan to start a family, then that’s fine. If this is not very important to you, then you need to decide somehow. The Internet may well be the answer. Depending on your views on this, an option is a prostitute. I was, one might say, a virgin, I had sex with one girl 2 times and that’s it... Then after 4 years I got tired of no sex and sometimes started picking up prostitutes until I met my love. So here the option is 50/50.

Actually, now I understand that I was in vain worrying about the lack of sex. But some girls may be very surprised that at 29 years old a virgin. So, listen first of all to yourself and your member

[Center]

I have a complete fiasco with women, so I lived to be 30+, but I never felt kisses, hugs, sex. And I really want to please a woman in bed and feel it all myself.

[Val De Marne]

Nothing special. There are millions of them. Just today I called up a former work colleague, who, by the way, had never been in a relationship with a single girl until he was 28 or 29 years old. In his thirties, he went to live in another country and there it was as if he had broken free, turning into a real sex maniac. Now he changes girls like gloves and now in all its glory another question arises - which one to choose to start a family. What difference does it make what age?

[Uzername]

I’m 30 and I’m also a virgin, but I seem to have a craze or something wrong with my head, I’m scared to death of contracting an STD, and I have a complex about my appearance, a lot of fears.