A woman does not accept any toys

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My friend refuses to use any toys during sex. Moreover, I regularly offer to buy it, but she doesn’t want it. He says: “I like the dick better.” At the same time, fisting is acceptable, she likes it. Has anyone encountered this problem and managed to solve it somehow?
I understand that it’s unlikely, you can’t force someone to love something, but suddenly...
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This is cool, why are there toys? And fingers, if there is a living penis, nothing can replace it. Go ahead, friend, and fuck her in all holes. Mine doesn’t even accept fingers(
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6996: 02 Feb 2023, 06:20 doesn’t want to. He says: “I like the dick better.”
Most likely it’s a complex. "Good girls don’t jerk off," "Good girls don’t need toys"... Alas, erasing this from your head if it’s already driven into it is unrealistic. Yes mine is the same. I gave toys - they are collecting dust. I thought maybe he was shy, he was using it on the sly... He made some kind of “markers” - no, he doesn’t even take it.
But the fact that fisting is yes, but toys are not - this is sooo strange. Try to buy it yourself and bring it to bed. Maybe there’s something like “if a man does this to me, then it’s normal, but self-satisfaction with a toy is shameful.”
In girls’ heads sometimes such cockroaches run around about sex... you’re amazed. Yes, and for men too, like "prostate massage is gay".. :pardon:
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many men would only be happy))) Some people are jealous of their penis, and without spending money on toys, the budget will be stronger :D
I don’t remember women who refused at least an anal plug with interesting ornament. At least once. Can I give it as a gift on February 14th? As if by chance. Of course, with another gift together, not just a cork :D
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Gudgeon: 02 Feb 2023, 07:36
6996: 02 Feb 2023, 06:20 doesn’t want to. He says: “I like the dick better.”
Most likely it’s a complex. "Good girls don’t jerk off," "Good girls don’t need toys"... Alas, erasing this from your head if it’s already driven into it is unrealistic. Yes mine is the same. I gave toys - they are collecting dust. I thought maybe he was shy, he was using it on the sly... He made some kind of “markers” - no, he doesn’t even take it.
But the fact that fisting is yes, but toys are not - this is sooo strange. Try to buy it yourself and bring it to bed. Maybe there’s something like “if a man does this to me, then it’s normal, but self-satisfaction with a toy is shameful.”
In girls’ heads sometimes such cockroaches run around about sex... you’re amazed. Yes, and for men too, like "prostate massage is gay".. :pardon:
Yes, she is even in process when the head does not work well, and then refuses the means at hand (cucumber, banana). The toad is choking me to buy something that I won’t have to use (
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Gudgeon: 02 Feb 2023, 07:36 Most likely these are complexes. "Good girls don’t jerk off," "Good girls don’t need toys"... Alas, erasing this from your head if it’s already driven into it is unrealistic. Yes mine is the same. I gave toys - they are collecting dust. I thought maybe he was shy and was quietly using... What kind of "markers" did he make - no, he doesn’t even take it.
My wife, too, somehow doesn’t very fond of toys...
I bought a couple of toys for variety. Moreover, when she finds out that I bought a toy for her, she herself wants to try it and in the process it is clear that she likes it, and she herself talks about it... But for some reason then these toys, used for their intended purpose once or twice, “lie gathering dust." :unknown:
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6996, the toad will have to be strangled. And there are good toys on Alika - for a couple of thousand you can easily choose something worthy. (if you think that in sex shops it’s not the same alik, then you’re wrong, it’s 90% the same, but twice as expensive).
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You can’t force it, but if you want a toy, you need to buy it and somehow carefully offer it. When there is a toy and she knows it, the likelihood of talking is higher. And if she feels good without a toy, then come from the side and see what you want to try with a toy. This is how I operate, mine is just easier to be neutral towards toys, of course.
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Gudgeon: 03 Feb 2023, 00:44 6996, the toad will have to be strangled. And there are good toys on Alika - for a couple of thousand you can easily choose something worthy. (if you think that in sex shops it’s not the same alik, then in vain, it’s 90% the same, but twice as expensive).
I have just such illusions no :wink:

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Winsly: 03 Feb 2023, 00:59 You can’t force it, but if you want a toy, you need to buy it and somehow carefully offer it. When there is a toy and she knows it, the likelihood of talking is higher. And if she feels good without a toy, then come from the side and see what you want to try with a toy. This is how I act, it’s easier for me to just have a neutral attitude towards toys, of course
Perhaps something will change with the toy, but so far she won’t even listen to them wants.
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It was about the same, I refused. I bought a vibrating egg. Not much right away, but where the joke, where the pressure, they began to use it. I advise you to start with the phallus, and with something neutral. Vibrating egg, massager, etc.
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Try and buy a clitoral vibrator. They are even sold in pharmacies. It’s better not to write such things on Ali Express, it may turn out to be smelly and then just throw it in the trash.
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Marinka: 03 Feb 2023, 06:04 Try and buy a clitoral vibrator. They are even sold in pharmacies. It’s better not to write out such things on Ali Express, it may turn out to be smelly and then just throw it in the trash.
That’s exactly what I’m thinking about. It can be combined with regular sex, maybe he won’t refuse it.
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6996: 02 Feb 2023, 06:20 My friend refuses to use any toys during sex. Moreover, I regularly offer to buy it, but she doesn’t want it. He says: “I like the dick better.” At the same time, fisting is acceptable, she likes it. Maybe someone has encountered such a problem and managed to somehow solve it?
I understand that it’s unlikely, you can’t force someone to love something, but suddenly...
Since she is your friend... it means you haven’t been together for long... well, as long as you get her 1000%... why toys? If they are not needed... we draw a logical conclusion... you want to play... Why are you blaming your friend? Buy yourself an Igoice...maybe it will join in the process...? Sorry for the preiata...
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Shalun70: 06 Feb 2023, 04:05
6996: 02 Feb 2023, 06:20 My friend refuses to use any toys during sex. Moreover, I regularly offer to buy it, but she doesn’t want it. He says: “I like the dick better.” At the same time, fisting is acceptable, she likes it. Maybe someone has encountered such a problem and managed to somehow solve it?
I understand that it’s unlikely, you can’t force someone to love something, but suddenly...
Since she is your friend... it means you haven’t been together for long... well, as long as you get her 1000%... why toys? If they are not needed... we draw a logical conclusion... you want to play... Why are you blaming your friend? Buy yourself an Igoice...maybe it will join in the process...? Sorry for the preiata...
Funny conclusions. In general, we have been together for 7.5 years. And she also wants variety, we have fun in every way. But there is no toy.
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6996: 06 Feb 2023, 04:42 Funny conclusions. In general, we have been together for 7.5 years. And she also wants variety, we have fun in every way. But there are no toys.
Forgive me once again for being direct, maybe I’m prying where I shouldn’t, but... in my understanding, people who have lived 5 years and above... or legitimize the relationship... or run away with.... Well then, his moment... I believe it will probably not be pleasant for you to hear... but I will say... this can help you... If you both want variety... but she doesn’t want a toy I admit that your variety ends with toys... and she’s hinting to you about a family friend... alive... But... remember... buy a toy... she’ll try and still end up... her family friend .... before you do... think about it?
Well and 3... be brave... without asking permission... just buy and give... women like decisive MACHO
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