The daughter began to have sex. How to accept this?

[Peter64]

Greetings to all. I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age (nowadays young people start this earlier than we started). On the other hand, I still remember how I changed her diapers, how she walked around with bows on her head... And I’m shocked. She was always modest, all about her studies, played the violin, rarely walked on the street... Not because my wife and I forbade it, on the contrary, sometimes we even forced her to walk. But she liked her hobbies more, books. She’s beautiful though. I guessed that she was dating someone (even though I couldn’t believe it), but I didn’t know that they had already gone that far.

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother. Guys, who already have adult daughters, how did you react when she entered adulthood? Were you jealous, afraid, worried?
It seemed like it was no secret that this would happen someday, but I didn’t think it would happen now. I probably wouldn’t worry so much about my son.

Sorry for the confusion, I just found out about this and am a little out of my mind.

P. S. Perverts, please crawl past this topic. I perceive my daughter only as a daughter and nothing more.

[Truwor]

You are not there, on that site. This is a site about sexual deviance. Here is everything that in life is called debauchery, vulgarity and whoreness. You’re not the only one who has a daughter, and when they all reach a certain age, they start to want to, and sooner rather than later they start fucking, and there’s nothing you can do about it, it’s nature, it’s normal. What’s so exciting about this? On the contrary, it’s a reason to be happy that everything is going according to plan. By the way, a girl at 20 already feels ashamed of herself that she is still a girl. Therefore, all girls strive to do this while still in school, or, at worst, in their first years.

[Tolkala]

Greetings to everyone. I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age (nowadays young people start this earlier than we started). On the other hand, I still remember how I changed her diapers, how she walked around with bows on her head... And I’m shocked. She was always modest, all about her studies, played the violin, rarely walked on the street... Not because my wife and I forbade it, on the contrary, sometimes we even forced her to walk. But she liked her hobbies more, books. She’s beautiful though. I guessed that she was dating someone (even though I couldn’t believe it), but I didn’t know that they had already gone that far.

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother. Guys, who already have adult daughters, how did you react when she entered adulthood? Were you jealous, afraid, worried?
It seemed like it was no secret that this would happen someday, but I didn’t think it would happen now. I probably wouldn’t worry so much about my son.

Sorry for the confusion, I just found out about this and am a little out of my mind.

P. S. Perverts, please crawl past this topic. I perceive my daughter only as a daughter and nothing more.

if you want to worry less about her, then tell her to fuck only at home. So that you can be calm. You can insure her while she fucks, so that no one interferes. Make her fuck with condoms. Buy them for her. Give them to her for fucking and demand that she report on the condoms used. By providing them to you. This way you will protect her from surprises. And you you will control the process

[Eustace]

But she liked her hobbies more, books.

Now she will try something else, but on the site, really, now we are giving you such advice, mom, don’t worry.

[Sweden125]

Greetings to everyone. I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age (nowadays young people start this earlier than we started). On the other hand, I still remember how I changed her diapers, how she walked around with bows on her head... And I’m shocked. She was always modest, all about her studies, played the violin, rarely walked on the street... Not because my wife and I forbade it, on the contrary, sometimes we even forced her to walk. But she liked her hobbies more, books. She’s beautiful though. I guessed that she was dating someone (even though I couldn’t believe it), but I didn’t know that they had already gone that far.

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother. Guys, who already have adult daughters, how did you react when she entered adulthood? Were you jealous, afraid, worried?
It seemed like it was no secret that this would happen someday, but I didn’t think it would happen now. I probably wouldn’t worry so much about my son.

Sorry for the confusion, I just found out about this and am a little out of my mind.

P. S. Perverts, please crawl past this topic. I perceive my daughter only as a daughter and nothing more.

It’s even more worth trying to talk about protection, hygiene, cotraception! If you are closer to her than she and her mother, who else but you should do all this! And why is there immediate concern about pedophilia? Moreover, a modest woman might be forced to do this!

[Eustace]

It’s even more worth trying to talk about protection, hygiene, cotraception! If you are closer to her than she and her mother, who else but you should do all this! And why is there immediate concern about pedophilia? Moreover, a shy girl might be forced to do it!

Yes, they already told her everything along the way, it’s Dad who is floating somewhere in dreams about his shy daughter :) and it’s unlikely that they’ll force her, I think she’ll figure it out on her own., where it tastes better

[Sibiryak89]

Greetings to everyone. I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age (nowadays young people start this earlier than we started). On the other hand, I still remember how I changed her diapers, how she walked around with bows on her head... And I’m shocked. She was always modest, all about her studies, played the violin, rarely walked on the street... Not because my wife and I forbade it, on the contrary, sometimes we even forced her to walk. But she liked her hobbies more, books. She’s beautiful though. I guessed that she was dating someone (even though I couldn’t believe it), but I didn’t know that they had already gone that far.

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother. Guys, who already have adult daughters, how did you react when she entered adulthood? Were you jealous, afraid, worried?
It seemed like it was no secret that this would happen someday, but I didn’t think it would happen now. I probably wouldn’t worry so much about my son.

Sorry for the confusion, I just found out about this and am a little out of my mind.

P. S. Perverts, please crawl past this topic. I perceive my daughter only as a daughter and nothing more.

Yes, just like you, then I calmed down, talked about birth control, and definitely didn’t encourage

[slavik.meshalkin]

Greetings to everyone. I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age (nowadays young people start this earlier than we started). On the other hand, I still remember how I changed her diapers, how she walked around with bows on her head... And I’m shocked. She was always modest, all about her studies, played the violin, rarely walked on the street... Not because my wife and I forbade it, on the contrary, sometimes we even forced her to walk. But she liked her hobbies more, books. She’s beautiful though. I guessed that she was dating someone (even though I couldn’t believe it), but I didn’t know that they had already gone that far.

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother. Guys, who already have adult daughters, how did you react when she entered adulthood? Were you jealous, afraid, worried?
It seemed like it was no secret that this would happen someday, but I didn’t think it would happen now. I probably wouldn’t worry so much about my son.

Sorry for the confusion, I just found out about this and am a little out of my mind.

P. S. Perverts, please crawl past this topic. I perceive my daughter only as a daughter and nothing more.

Have you reached the age of 16 or 18? If you don’t want grandchildren, give her condoms with a hint. If they trust you, talk to her more.

[Christmas_Christmas]

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother

If you have such a relationship with your daughter... then the most important thing is to preserve this relationship... talk to her.. as Svetik125 advised you

It’s even more worth trying to talk about protection, hygiene, cotraception!

But the main thing is you have to stay with her fools... life is so arranged that a girl, especially if she has fallen in love with a guy, will listen and obey him, but not her parents... in 99% of a hundred... And you cannot do anything with her and in no way her do not convince...
seeing such "injustice" towards you on the part of your daughter... you will begin to be jealous of her... in the good sense of the word.. like a father..... and this is where you can do something stupid.... you can start shouting at her, forbidding something.... say bad things about her boyfriend (which will be very offensive to you, that even if you tell the truth about her boyfriend, then she will still won’t believe it).... in short, you’ll do a lot more wow, what is not worth doing..
Let her understand that no matter what happens, no matter what she DOES, you will always take her back, you will come to her for help and will not refuse her.. that her family, home... this is her FORTRESS that will always protect her whenever she needs help...
I will not speak for everyone, but for example for me such a position of my parents would be very important... and my parents may not even understand how much.... at a young age a girl does not yet have such friends and girlfriends who can protect her, drop everything and go to rescue her from terrible situation in which she found herself...
Let your daughter understand that you will “rush” to help her ALWAYS and at any moment, even if she does something truly terrible, but you are still on her side ..
Believe me, when she knows this, it will become much easier for her to make the right decisions and not do “stupid” things, because she knows that you are behind her, no matter what happens... Damn... a whole letter came out.... I just wrote from my personal experience and here I won’t write that I’m “kidding”, etc.

[Sweden125]

Of course, dad missed it here, but mom did too, and why not talk now? Is it early or too late? I wish it weren’t too late! We still don’t know the age! For all Vet children, 18 and 30! My son turned 18 yesterday, isn’t he my child? And tomorrow at the military registration and enlistment office you think I’ll just say, go kill

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Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother

If you have such a relationship with your daughter... then the most important thing is to preserve this relationship... talk to her.. as Svetik125 advised you

It’s even more worth trying to talk about protection, hygiene, cotraception!

But the main thing is you have to stay with her fools... life is so arranged that a girl, especially if she has fallen in love with a guy, will listen and obey him, but not her parents... in 99% of a hundred... And you cannot do anything with her and in no way her do not convince...
seeing such "injustice" towards you on the part of your daughter... you will begin to be jealous of her... in the good sense of the word.. like a father..... and this is where you can do something stupid... you can start yelling at her, forbidding her... saying bad things about her boyfriend (what will be most offensive to you is that even if you tell the truth about her boyfriend, you don’t care about her won’t believe it).... in short, you’ll do a lot more wow, what to do it’s not worth it..
Let her understand that no matter what happens, no matter what she DOES, you will always take her back, come to her aid and you won’t give up on her.. that her family, home... this is her FORTRESS that will always protect her whenever she needs help...
I won’t speak for everyone, but for example, this is the position for me my parents would be very important... and my parents may not even understand how.... at a young age, a girl does not yet have such friends and girlfriends who can protect her, drop everything and go at 2 o’clock in the morning to save her from the terrible situation in which she found herself...
Let your daughter know that you " rush to rescue her ALWAYS and at any moment, even if she does something truly terrible, but you are still on her side..
Believe me, when she knows this it will become much easier for her and she will make the right decisions and not to do "stupid" things, because she knows that you are behind her, no matter what happens...
Damn... a whole letter came out... I just wrote from my personal experience and here I won’t write anymore that I’m “joking,” etc.

This is very wise! You can’t prohibit and encourage, you need to guide, advise! Moreover, there is contact! And in no case should we scold, because we were all young

[Eustace]

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother

If you have such a relationship with your daughter... then the most important thing is to preserve this relationship... talk to her.. as Svetik125 advised you

It’s even more worth trying to talk about protection, hygiene, cotraception!

But the main thing is you have to stay with her fools... life is so arranged that a girl, especially if she has fallen in love with a guy, will listen and obey him, but not her parents... in 99% of a hundred... And you cannot do anything with her and in no way her do not convince...
seeing such "injustice" towards you on the part of your daughter... you will begin to be jealous of her... in the good sense of the word.. like a father..... and this is where you can do something stupid.... you can start shouting at her, forbidding something.... say bad things about her boyfriend (which will be very offensive to you, that even if you tell the truth about her boyfriend, then she will still won’t believe it).... in short, you’ll do a lot more wow, what is not worth doing..
Let her understand that no matter what happens, no matter what she DOES, you will always take her back, you will come to her for help and will not refuse her.. that her family, home... this is her FORTRESS that will always protect her whenever she needs help...
I will not speak for everyone, but for example for me such a position of my parents would be very important... and my parents may not even understand how.... at a young age, a girl does not yet have such friends and girlfriends who can protect her, drop everything and go at 2 o’clock in the morning to save her from the terrible situation in which she found herself...
Let your daughter know that you " rush to rescue her ALWAYS and at any moment, even if she does something truly terrible, but you are still on her side..
Believe me, when she knows this it will become much easier for her and she will make the right decisions and not to do "stupid" things, because she knows that you are behind her, no matter what happens...
Damn... a whole letter came out... I just wrote from my personal experience and here I won’t write anymore that I’m “kidding”, etc.

as usual, a whole story, Umochka

[Christmas_Christmas]

This is very wise! You can’t prohibit and encourage, you need to guide, advise! Moreover, there is contact! And in no case should you scold, because we were all young

That’s what my parents... and literally saved me from even greater trouble that I could have gotten myself into

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as usual, a whole story, Umochka

as I always say in such cases.... damn hint.. got it)))

[Venus]

Greetings to everyone. I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age (nowadays young people start this earlier than we started). On the other hand, I still remember how I changed her diapers, how she walked around with bows on her head... And I’m shocked. She was always modest, all about her studies, played the violin, rarely walked on the street... Not because my wife and I forbade it, on the contrary, sometimes we even forced her to walk. But she liked her hobbies more, books. She’s beautiful though. I guessed that she was dating someone (even though I couldn’t believe it), but I didn’t know that they had already gone that far.

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? She is closer to me than to her mother. Guys, who already have adult daughters, how did you react when she entered adulthood? Were you jealous, afraid, worried?
It seemed like it was no secret that this would happen someday, but I didn’t think it would happen now. I probably wouldn’t worry so much about my son.

Sorry for the confusion, I just found out about this and am a little out of my mind.

P. S. Perverts, please crawl past this topic. I perceive my daughter only as a daughter and nothing more.

Can I ask you how you actually found out? If someone told you this, then perhaps this is just someone’s speculation. Well, of course, there is no point in worrying about this if you did not prepare her for tonsure into a monastery. Ah, it’s worth talking in any case. About sexual hygiene, prevention of premature pregnancy and STDs.
Even if she doesn’t have sex now, and you were misled, then in any case, sooner or later she will come to this. So it’s worth talking.

[Eustace]

as I always say in such cases....damn hint..got it)))

What a hint, I am slowly and imperceptibly becoming a Fan your creativity!!!!

That’s what my parents did... and literally saved me from even greater trouble

I want a story! !!!!!!!!!!!!

[Christmas_Christmas]

I want a story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

damn it’s easy... I have those "stories" like a beggar.... . ok... I won’t continue further.. "why"... otherwise I’ll spam the person’s topic again now.

[Eustace]

it’s easy damn it.. I have those "stories" like a beggar..... okay... I won’t continue further.. "what"... otherwise now I’ll spam the person’s topic again n

Keep going!!!! what did the Olds stumble into at one time and what did they save from? I want to read

[Andrey Lukashov]

Greetings to everyone. I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age (nowadays young people start this earlier than we started). On the other hand, I still remember how I changed her diapers, how she walked around with bows on her head... And I’m shocked. She was always modest, all about her studies, played the violin, rarely walked on the street... Not because my wife and I forbade it, on the contrary, sometimes we even forced her to walk. But she liked her hobbies more, books. She’s beautiful though. I guessed that she was dating someone (even though I couldn’t believe it), but I didn’t know that they had already gone that far.

Is it worth talking to her? What should I say or advise? She is closer to me than to her mother. Guys, who already have adult daughters, how did you react when she entered adulthood? Were you jealous, afraid, worried?
It seemed like it was no secret that this would happen someday, but I didn’t think it would happen now. I probably wouldn’t be so worried about my son.

Sorry for the confusion, I just found out about this and am a little out of my mind.

P. S. Perverts, please crawl past this topic. I perceive my daughter only as a daughter and nothing more.

You are asking on the wrong forum :) Now they will write to you here that you yourself will want to deceive her :)

[Eustace]

You’re asking on the wrong forum :) Now they’ll write to you here that you’ll want to blow it yourself :)

in the Christmas tree

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Most likely the topic is a copy-paste from another similar forum or from women... there is no point in discussing it.

[Eustace]

Most likely the topic is a copy-paste from another similar forum or from women.. there is no point in discussing.

where does the info come from?

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Most likely the topic is a copy-paste from another similar forum or from women.. there is no point in discussing.

where does the Info come from?

there are many such topics here and they have common features and the author usually has 1 message, he is interested in the topic does not show.

[Gudgeon]

I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age

It is not clear what kind of “appropriate” this is, but let’s say it is necessary. Then just accept and understand that she is also a person and has the right to develop and have her own life, and should not "hang" at an age convenient for your psyche.

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? ?

Of course it’s worth it. And what exactly will the women of the forum recommend? =1702171308 user_id=1163] if you want to worry less about her, then tell her to fuck only at home.

[Zhora Kuni]

And if I were you, I would pull her up to the balls myself :) Otherwise, you won’t know whether she knows how to fuck or not :) If she fucks badly, you can improve your practical skills :)

[Tolkala]

I found out that my daughter started having sex. On the one hand, she has already reached the appropriate age

It is not clear what kind of “appropriate” this is, but let’s say it is necessary. Then just accept and understand that she is also a person and has the right to develop and have her own life, and should not "hang" at an age convenient for your psyche.

Is it worth talking to her about this, giving her some advice? ?

Of course it’s worth it. And what exactly will the women of the forum recommend? =1702171308 user_id=1163] if you want to worry less about her, then tell her to fuck only at home.

You can insure her ,while she fucks

Make her fuck with condoms

But first of all remember that you should not talk to your daughter about sex in the terminology "fuck". Otherwise, your authority will slide very quickly.

[Gudgeon]

and if a daughter uses these terms, then she needs to be re-educated?

If a daughter discusses sex with her father in such terms... Then the father was a dick Re-educating a person who is already having sex will not work. I had to re-educate myself when my daughter was a couple of years old. Then it would never have occurred to her to speak such a language with her father. Well, yes, this is my opinion. For some, it may be normal to talk to children on the mat at home, and for children to talk to their parents. H.z.

[Andrey Lukashov]

And if I were you, I would pull her up to the balls myself :) Otherwise, you won’t know whether she knows how to fuck or not :) If she fucks badly, you can improve your practical skills

Good advice, but this is not our method

[slavik.meshalkin]

Most likely the topic is a copy-paste from another similar forum or from women.. there is no point in discussing.

The daughter there doesn’t want to tell her mother that these days have begun. Dad will know about this too