Should a dad control his daughter's intimate life?

[Amateur22]

Do you think a father should take part in his daughter’s intimate life? For example, to control her virginity so that she doesn’t lose it before the right time and the hymen is in place. Or advise you to be careful with regards to such practices as oral and anal, so that you don’t practice them with just anyone. Or have a different attitude towards this and suggest how to do it all correctly.

Have you girls encountered control from your father? Did he find out when you were no longer girls? How old was he and how did he react? Does he know about your practices such as blowjobs and anal? How does he react to this? Does he know how many sexual partners you have?

[The passage]

I myself have never encountered such control and I try not to torment my children with excessive attention, but rather encourage independence.

[Let’s]

Well, when she is already quite old for such topics, then of course we need to talk (namely, talk) that we need to at least protect ourselves and not sleep well with everyone who suggests (figuratively speaking). Explain the consequences of sex without a condom, which can be not only pregnancy but also illness. But I think it’s too much to control. My personal opinion.

[hello. I don’t hear]

If you live alone with your daughter, you probably should.
So let the mother decide these issues.

[Tolkala]

MY DAUGHTER AND I HAVE A TRUSTED RELATIONSHIP IN SEXUAL MATTERS.

[Valentine-74]

In our family, from an early age, a daughter trusts my wife and me with all her secrets. I’m a little shy, but my wife and I are like best friends. My wife, naturally, immediately shares everything with me and my daughter knows about it. Even when I was at school and was friends with one boy, my wife and I consulted and realizing that sooner or later sex would happen between them, my wife told her daughter about it and did not say that it was impossible. The daughter had nothing with that boy, but later she began to be friends with another, older than her, with whom she was already friends as an adult. When the first sex happened, the wife knew even the day before. My wife told me that our daughter was no longer a girl the same day it all happened. Then my daughter was not yet 16. The next day, my wife and I went into her room together in the morning and kissed her and congratulated her in turn, without even mentioning the reason.
It is clear that few families are like ours, but with us everything is fine. The daughter is already married. I didn’t marry the person with whom I had sex for the first time, but everything is really good with them, they have two small children with a year and a half age difference.

[Let’s]

It is clear that in rare families

I had a stepdaughter in my first marriage. Or rather, she still exists, the marriage no longer exists. We always had such a relationship with her that she did not hide anything from me. I knew about all her boys. She still discusses her suitors with me, although she is already 27. But she quite openly shares with me, advises, tells. Of course, we discuss not only this topic, but everything in general. We correspond every day, although that marriage has been gone for 13 years.

[Tolkala]

On all matters of sex, my daughter consults only with me. I even cover her from her mother when she is fucking at home, so that her mother does not find them.

[hello. I don’t hear]

In our family, from an early age, a daughter trusts my wife and me with all her secrets. I’m a little shy, but my wife and I are like best friends. My wife, naturally, immediately shares everything with me and my daughter knows about it. Even when I was at school and was friends with one boy, my wife and I consulted and realizing that sooner or later sex would happen between them, my wife told her daughter about it and did not say that it was impossible. The daughter had nothing with that boy, but later she began to be friends with another, older than her, with whom she was already friends as an adult. When the first sex happened, the wife knew even the day before. My wife told me that our daughter was no longer a girl the same day it all happened. Then my daughter was not yet 16. The next day, my wife and I went into her room together in the morning and kissed her and congratulated her in turn, without even mentioning the reason.
It is clear that few families are like ours, but with us everything is fine. The daughter is already married. I didn’t marry the person with whom I had first sex, but everything is really good with them, they have two small children with a year and a half age difference.

I don’t understand people like that daughters who tell everything.
Who, how and where with a boyfriend or husband.

[Morpheus]

I tried to control my daughter until she was 20 years old in almost everything, especially in the intimate sphere. I didn’t want my favorite flower to be picked prematurely by some crazy person. I don’t know exactly with whom she lost her virginity; my wife and I separated when she was 14, but I continued to maintain a good, trusting relationship with her, and no matter how hard I tried to protect her from early sexual life, it is possible that her first sex occurred in 18-19 years old, although maybe later with the guy he lives with now. Since her birth, I have been waiting for her to get older and persuade her to have sex. In the end, there was intimacy, but not full-fledged, and after I separated from my wife, it completely died out on her initiative (she never really wanted this relationship with me ). But I still love her and I just want her madly... but she doesn’t want to. Constant control on my part led to frequent conflicts between her and me, but in any case, this strict control helped her avoid early mistakes in relationships and not go to bed from the age of 15, like some. Therefore, I think that the relationship with your daughter should be trusting, but there must also be control! And conversations about the need to protect themselves during sex and not sleep with anyone in vain should become an axiom for her.

[Rooss]

The most correct thing is not control, but education and personal example. If she is 13-16, then in many ways it’s too late to raise her. Plus, the role of the mother is primary here, especially in matters of raising correct female behavior. Men better not interfere.

[Amateur22]

All the same, it will probably be awkward for dad to know that she’s a great sucker and craves big cocks, or that she’s a very good blowjob giver and loves it when they blow it on her face and mouth

[Tolkala]

Young guys who don’t have children yet write their opinions here.

[Keep the change for yourself]

For example, control her virginity so that she doesn’t lose it before the right time and the hymen is in place.

nonsense.

Question veiled specifically under your fantasies and it’s immediately obvious that you don’t have children, or you’ve never taken part in their upbringing.
Those who have children usually ask other questions, and not about how to communicate with your daughter about oral and anal

[Merit]

And I would like him to control me, personally check mine, and make me a woman himself, but alas, I was too late.

[Alexb]

And I would like him to control, personally check mine, and he would make me a woman, but alas, I’m too late.

And how do you see daddy’s control? What should he ask or say or do?

[Merit]

I wrote for dad to fuck me. I dreamed of it as a child.

[Ded]

Merit, It’s probably every dad’s dream to have such a daughter, that without coercion she wants her beloved daddy! And if someone has already managed to do this! They are the happiest people!

[Alexb]

I wrote for dad to fuck me. I dreamed of it as a child.

I am interested in your opinion, your advice, how he should have shown himself, what should he have asked you?

[Merit]

How can I show it if I spread my naked legs in front of him? But I didn’t see anything except a slap on the ass.

[Ricardomom]

Well, if dad doesn’t care, then what kind of father is he? Everything in moderation, do not dictate on an ongoing basis

[Arianna]

I would never talk about this with my father. Maximum if it’s about protection, the rest is absolutely none of his business

[Unicum228]

Daddy needs to fuck daughter