Is jealousy selfishness or dictatorship?

[Ted_2023]

I’m not jealous, if a woman speaks openly, she probably won’t mind, but everything happens behind a closed door and the partner finds out over time and begins to put psychological pressure on you. For you, is this despotism or selfishness of the partner?

[niqk]

I’m not jealous, if a woman openly says it, she probably won’t mind, but everything happens behind a closed door and the partner finds out over time and begins to psychologically pressure, for you is this despotism or selfishness of the partner?

What is the connection between jealousy, despotism and selfishness? These states can exist either singly or
and in any combination...

[The passage]

I just got a message from a bot that the moderator removed, so I wrote it like this

Jealous people are insecure.

[niqk]

Well, the wife’s infringed sense of ownership plays an even bigger role here...

[A tinkerer]

Jealousy has two components - selfishness and self-doubt.

[G.e.org.ii]

A bitch in boots, the daughter put on her mother’s boots,
The pressure opened the time, the door partner, the jealous psychologist, the woman will not say

[orange@]

I think everyone is jealous, some more, some less. I don’t think that jealousy = lack of confidence. Nobody wants to be deceived.

[tenzor]

I wonder how jealousy changes with age?

[Axler]

Many people write that “jealousy is a lack of self-confidence,” but there are as many opinions as there are people. Personally, I adhere to another, which is based on the very definition of "jealousy" (take it from the wiki):

Jealousy is a negatively colored feeling in a relationship, which occurs when there is a lack of attention, love, respect or sympathy from a loved one while someone else receives it from him.

And you know, I I don’t see the connection in “self-doubt” and when your loved one does not pay attention to you and/or does not care about you, but cares about his, say, colleague.
Imagine that your partner doesn’t cook for you at all, but at the same time gets up an hour earlier to make a lunch box for his colleague.
Or, let’s say, your partner refuses to spend leisure time with you (say, on a day off), and at the same time going out to have fun with friends.

As for me, jealousy is more than appropriate in such cases (though it is worth saying then that such a relationship " not for everyone" or go to hell, but that’s a completely different conversation)

[A tinkerer]

"They’re going to hell," definitely. You’ve been "out of the loop" for a long time, my dear.

[The passage]

Many people write that"jealousy is a lack of self-confidence", but how many people - so many opinions. Personally, I adhere to another, which is based on the very definition of "jealousy" (take it from the wiki):

Jealousy is a negatively colored feeling in a relationship, which occurs when there is a lack of attention, love, respect or sympathy from a loved one while someone else receives it from him.

And you know, I I don’t see the connection in “self-doubt” and when your loved one does not pay attention to you and/or does not care about you, but cares about his, say, colleague.
Imagine that your partner doesn’t cook for you at all, but at the same time gets up an hour earlier to make a lunch box for his colleague.
Or, let’s say, your partner refuses to spend leisure time with you (say, on a day off), and at the same time going out to have fun with friends.

As for me, jealousy is more than appropriate in such cases (though it is worth saying then that such a relationship " they’re not for everyone or go to hell, but that’s a completely different conversation)

Google how psychologists evaluate the feeling of jealousy.

[niqk]

Marinka, how are you with feelings of jealousy? .

[The passage]

Marinka, what about you feelings of jealousy?..

I am very jealous. Just tough

[Fernando]

Jealousy also comes in different forms
With different stages. Therefore, it is not so easy to answer this question. After all, everything depends on specific people, with a specific situation and specific jealousy.
But in short, jealousy can be either appropriate and normal
It may not be normal or acceptable.

[niqk]

Marinka, and How are you with feelings of jealousy?..

I am very jealous. Just tin

No, tin does not suit you... You are soft, white and fluffy!

[Axler]

"They’re going to hell," definitely. You’ve been "out of the loop" for a long time, my dear.

What do I have to do with it? This is an example in the discussion of the topic, and not a projection of my life

Google how psychologists evaluate feelings of jealousy.

Can you be more specific about what you mean? If we consider jealousy from the point of view of psychology, then it’s not just "Google it", there are entire dissertations on this topic

[The passage]

Marinka, how are you with feelings of jealousy?..

I am very jealous. Just tin

No, tin does not suit you... You are soft, white and fluffy!

When I turn gray, perhaps I will be white and soft. Although probably not in this life

[niqk]

Marinka, no need to guess the future. Especially not in this life...

[The passage]

"They’re going to hell," definitely. You’ve been "out of the loop" for a long time, my dear.

What do I have to do with it? This is an example in the discussion of the topic, and not a projection of my life

Google how psychologists evaluate feelings of jealousy.

Can you be more specific about what you mean? If we look at jealousy from the point of view of psychology, then it’s not just "Google it", there are entire dissertations on this topic

You google it and you will see.

[BUGOR]

I’m talking to one woman, her husband is completely checking everything where she was where she went why she went
it’s like calling him an egoist or doesn’t trust her

[Ulof]

Jealousy is a result of an inferiority complex imho

[6996]

why are you making a fuss? Jealousy is an evolutionary mechanism that should ensure the preservation of the genes of a particular organism. For men: If your partner has sex only with you, then the children will be from you. Gene transfer will take place. For women: If a man is only with you, then he will invest more energy in your offspring, and there is a greater chance that they will survive.
And then they rave: "Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, complexes...."

[Lada R]

why are you making snot? Jealousy is an evolutionary mechanism that should ensure the preservation of the genes of a particular organism. For men: If your partner has sex only with you, then the children will be from you. Gene transfer will take place. For women: If a man is only with you, then he will put more effort into your offspring, and there is a greater chance that they will survive.
And then they rave: "Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, complexes...."

and if you and your man are not going to have children?

[6996]

why are you making a fuss? Jealousy is an evolutionary mechanism that should ensure the preservation of the genes of a particular organism. For men: If your partner has sex only with you, then the children will be from you. Gene transfer will take place. For women: If a man is only with you, then he will put more effort into your offspring, and there is a greater chance that they will survive.
And then they rave: "Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, complexes...."

and if you and your man are not going to have children?

Yes, it doesn’t matter. This is what is biologically inherent in us. And it will work. As an example of childfree. What, as soon as a person comes to such a decision, eggs or sperm will not form?