Love and sex are different concepts for a woman???

[Truwor]

My wife says that she loves me, her husband, very much. However, our relationship has developed in such a way that she and I have a permanent friend-lover, a man older than us. I am jealous and furious, but I agree to this because I see that his wife is happy with him. She claims that love and sex are different things for her, where sex is like a vital necessity, how to eat, how to sleep, how to go to the bathroom and toilet. She loves me and she also feels good with me, and I feel it, but she also needs to be with our friend, because he has some power over her and she cannot refuse him anything. I understand her, because before being with his wife, he asks my permission, and I, too, cannot refuse him anything and allow them even what my wife refuses me, for example anal sex or his orgasm in her mouth. Is sex really the most important thing for a woman, more important than love? I want to understand.

[Lerunchik]

My wife says that she loves me, her husband, very much. However, our relationship has developed in such a way that she and I have a permanent friend-lover, a man older than us. I am jealous and furious, but I agree to this because I see that his wife is happy with him. She claims that love and sex - for her there are different things, where sex is a vital necessity, how to eat, how to sleep, how to go to the bathroom and toilet. She loves me and she also feels good with me, and I feel it, but she also needs to be with our friend, because he has some power over her and she cannot refuse him anything. I understand her, because before being with his wife, he asks my permission, and I, too, cannot refuse him anything and allow them even what my wife refuses me, for example anal sex or his orgasm in her mouth. Is sex really the most important thing for a woman, more important than love? I would like to understand.

I don’t want to upset you, but it seems your wife has no love for you. This is, of course, my personal opinion, but I believe that being able to give up your whims for the sake of your loved one is the most important thing in love. Surely you love her if you are willing to endure it. And not only does she not love you, but she also hides behind beautiful words. She is comfortable with you, she is satisfied with your softness and pliability. And to forbid you what she allows her lover is generally the height of cynicism.
And another question: why do you call your wife’s lover your friend? Did she decide that?
And by the way: is he married? Don’t want to share your wife out of friendship? At least we could talk about an open relationship. And so... excuse me, but it turns out to be some kind of under-cuckolding))

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

My wife says that she loves me, her husband, very much. However, our relationship has developed in such a way that she and I have a permanent friend-lover, a man older than us. I am jealous and furious, but I agree to this because I see that his wife is happy with him. She claims that love and sex - for her there are different things, where sex is a vital necessity, how to eat, how to sleep, how to go to the bathroom and toilet. She loves me and she also feels good with me, and I feel it, but she also needs to be with our friend, because he has some power over her and she cannot refuse him anything. I understand her, because before being with his wife, he asks my permission, and I, too, cannot refuse him anything and allow them even what my wife refuses me, for example anal sex or his orgasm in her mouth. Is sex really the most important thing for a woman, more important than love? I would like to understand.

you expressed it incorrectly... for your wife, sex and love are incompatible things, but for other women everything is different.
I agree with Leroy, that she doesn’t love you, but simply uses you for her own selfish purposes.

[Wanderer]

Yes, yes. There are two words, and two concepts. And they are still different. Not the same at all.
- Ass!...
- Ew, Vovocha! You can’t say that! There is no such word!
- How is it not? There is an ass, but no words???