Cry from the heart

[Evgen84]

It’s boiling.... I’m lying on the balcony now smoking (((. I myself love to caress, kiss, I’ll do cunnilingus with pleasure. I went up to my wife lying on the sofa and kissed her nipple. She says "ugh, again I wet everything with my drool" This is it normal? How should I react? To understand, this happens not only after with breasts (((

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[Grace]

I went up to my wife lying on the sofa and kissed

You kissed and went away to smoke? It is not normal.

[Passenger 161]

Evgen84, you need to clarify clearly what she doesn’t like!

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

It’s boiling.... I’m lying on the balcony now smoking (((. I myself like to caress, kiss, I’ll do cunnilingus with pleasure. I went up to my wife lying on the sofa and kissed her nipple. She says " ugh again I wet everything with my drool "Is this normal? How should I react? To understand, this happens not only after with breasts (((

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I sympathize with you.. is it difficult to maintain such a close relationship when the other partner constantly shows his dissatisfaction. Does she always respond like this or are there days/nights when she is in the mood?

[Evgen84]

I went to smoke when I expressed my dissatisfaction. I won’t hide I’m a little drunk, they came from my birthday. But this is categorical, it is already included in the system. I love my wife, we have two children, mat. no problem. I wouldn’t want to look like another whiner, but I feel like I’m on the edge. And don’t worry, I haven’t raised a hand against my wife in 17 years of marriage and don’t intend to.

[Grace]

hide I’m a little drunk

I can understand her, I don’t like drunks either. If you smoked, go to bed.

[Evgen84]

under_an_umbrella, It’s not about today, it’s been going on for a long time , I just decided to share my problem today

[Grace]

this takes a long time

We won’t help you. Talk to your wife. If it was different before, then there must be a reason explaining the change in her behavior.

[Evgen84]

Yes, I understand that it’s stupid to look for solutions to problems on the forum, but there are a lot of girls here, a lot of experience, maybe I’ll pick up something useful

[Solomon]

It’s boiling.... I’m lying on the balcony now smoking (((. I myself like to caress, kiss, I’ll do cunnilingus with pleasure. I went up to my wife lying on the sofa and kissed her nipple. She says " ugh again I wet everything with my drool "Is this normal? How should I react? To understand, this happens not only after with breasts (((

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congratulations, friend, she stopped loving you. The only question is time.

[niqk]

It’s not about today, this has been going on for a long time, I just decided to share my problem today

Yes. This is problem! Usually this means: love has passed - the tomatoes have wilted... So, my friend, you need to think about everything carefully with a sober head. And then talk to her seriously. If you don’t come to an agreement, most likely your marriage will end quickly...

[Grace]

Yes, I understand that looking for solutions to problems on the forum is stupid, but there are a lot of girls here, a lot of experience, maybe I’ll pick up something useful

You know, What is self-medication? This is when Aunt Masha or Uncle Petya say that they had the same thing and they will now tell you what and how.
You will only be confused here.

[Evgen84]

I don’t want to bring it to this point, we have two children, I love my wife, but there is a big problem of dissatisfaction.

[niqk]

I don’t want to bring it to this point, we have two children, I love my wife, but there is a big problem of dissatisfaction.

So find out the reasons for her behavior. Maybe you don’t mind drinking, but your wife definitely doesn’t like it...

[Serg_A]

It’s boiling.... I’m lying on the balcony now smoking (((. I myself like to caress, kiss, I’ll do cunnilingus with pleasure. I went up to my wife lying on the sofa and kissed her nipple. She says " ugh again I wet everything with my drool "Is this normal? How should I react? To understand, this happens not only after with breasts (((

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About drool, if she talks about it, then maybe because of smoking it has a smell, but she doesn’t like it, then, when you do cunnilingus, you probably end up with a lot of drool, and many people don’t like that, and Now she generally picks on you for any drool, and in general, not everyone likes wet kisses, try to have enough moisture, but to a minimum.)

[Evgen84]

About the drool, you noticed correctly. And so I try to have as few of them as possible. But the problem is much deeper unfortunately.

[Grace]

the problem is much deeper unfortunately

I read that you have a mistress. Don’t you think that the problem may be that you are cheating on your wife? Shame on you?

[Serg_A]

About the drool, I noticed correctly. And so I try to have as few of them as possible. But the problem is much deeper, unfortunately.

Didn’t you notice her cooling towards sex?

[government38]

connect role-playing games and give free rein to her fantasies, then the problems will come to light, but in general it’s better to learn to dose sex and affection and not run like a dog with its tail between its legs during the first heat, a woman sometimes begins to devalue you and your emotions.

[Evgen84]

under_an_umbrella, yes, we have a mistress, we meet extremely rarely, once every 2 months somewhere. I thought a lot about this, of course it’s a shame, but with my mistress we can realize any fantasies and desires, which brings an unforgettable experience. With my wife, sex is limited to the classics, not a step left or right (. And to understand, at the beginning of a sexual relationship there were various experiments, but over time they faded away completely. Blowjob became something of a reward

[Gudgeon]

Evgen84, are you married to me or something?

it’s hard to maintain a close relationship when the other partner constantly shows his dissatisfaction

You have no idea how....

I read that you have a mistress. Don’t you think that the problem may be that you are cheating on your wife? Aren’t you ashamed?

Have you ever thought that this is a consequence and not a cause? For example, I have never cheated on mine, but I never condemn, because I know. that both partners are always to blame for cheating.

[Grace]

yes, there is a mistress

Your marriage has cracked. If you do nothing, it will only get worse. You should decide what you want, how you see your future. If you want to save your marriage, then you need to start a dialogue. Just refrain from making complaints and insults.
If you don’t need marriage, then talk about divorce.

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Have you ever thought that this is a consequence and not a cause?

Such a thought may come only for a weak man. The habit of making excuses and justifying your bad actions.

because I know. that both partners are always to blame for cheating

How do you know this? Have you studied this topic professionally or just dreamed about it?

[Evgen84]

Your marriage has cracked. If you do nothing, it will only get worse. You should decide what you want, how you see your future. If you want to save your marriage, then you need to start a dialogue. Just refrain from making complaints and insults.
If you don’t need marriage, then talk about divorce.

The fact of the matter is that I’m not getting a divorce I want, I love both my children and my wife. The whole problem is only in the bedroom, where there is no mutual understanding and desire, and the mistress seems to be the same lost soul like me. Her intimate relationship with her husband has faded away and now we give each other pleasure that our FAVORITE halves cannot give (((

[government38]

at a minimum, you need to admit to your wife that there was cheating, otherwise everything will come down to nerves, baldness, impotence, gradual emotional burnout will occur, if you forgive, then stipulate no infidelity, but also stipulate about sex, they say, a lot is not enough, people are adults, this is the only way to save the relationship, the scandal will shake up the chemistry in sex and relationships, the rest is half measures...

[Gudgeon]

under_an_umbrella, I know, because falling apart relationships are always falling apart on both sides. A man will not go to the left if everything is good in the family - he has no reason to. The woman too, by the way. Any betrayal has a reason, and it is the partners’ dissatisfaction with each other. The only exceptions are random one-time events that stand out from the statistics. If it has become a system, if there are multiple meetings, something is wrong at home. But from your post it is already clear that you are a fan of shifting responsibility for any failures to men. This position is familiar to me, but it is boring, one-sided and limited. I noticed your bile, but I will ignore it.

[Grace]

The fact of the matter is that I don’t want to get a divorce, I love both my children and my wife. The whole problem is only in the bedroom

You are an adult and I will not write here that cheating is disgusting. You understand this perfectly well even without me.
Will you answer me the question, why did you post this topic? You have a lost soul to solve your problems in the bedroom, what more do you need?

A man will not go to the left if everything is good in the family

Are you serious now? Read threads about polygamy. There, men justify their trips to the left with instincts. A pig will find dirt without problems in the family. There is only one problem - my husband is a male.

[Arianna]

Gudgeon,
Unfortunately, life shows that assholes simply exist, and many people cheat for no reason
I met a man who lived for a year with two women in turn, half the week with one, half with the other, he said that he was just going to his home. I would like to know what these two girls were guilty of.

[Gudgeon]

assholes just exist

Yes, where would we be without them.

I would like to know what these two girls were guilty of

Nothing, we ran into an asshole. I knew people like that. But you must admit there are not many of them. Well, as a percentage.

Read the topics about polygamy.

These topics are bullshit. I know this, you know this, why would I discuss this? I am of the opinion that cheating is bad. Either end the relationship and go do whatever you want, or get better here. But I cannot deny the fact that many do not have the strength for either one or the other. That’s why I don’t judge others. They have their own reasons. Sometimes we don’t understand them, but they exist.

Only one problem - my husband is a male.

I’ll tell you one secret about men... They are lazy. A man will not make unnecessary movements without a reason. "males" who fuck everything that moves - there are actually very few of them. The majority of men will get sex where it is available, and even if the quality has deteriorated, but will not go left until a critical mass of dissatisfaction is exceeded. In short, you need to thoroughly fuck a guy so that he goes to spend his energy and money on a permanent mistress. Well, as I said, there are individual cadres - they don’t give a fuck, they don’t see the difference between who and where to fuck... They are few, but they exist.

[Serg_A]

Has the thought occurred to you that this is a consequence and not a cause? For example, I have never cheated on mine, but I never condemn, because I know. that both partners are always to blame for cheating

Both are not always to blame, it’s not my wife’s fault that she doesn’t like cunnilingus, it’s her natural feature. And I have to run to the side for this.

[Grace]

I’ll tell you one secret about men

You still haven’t answered my question, where did you get this information from? Have you studied this issue professionally or are you an armchair expert?

[Serg_A]

The whole problem is only in the bedroom, where there is no mutual understanding and desire

Test her for female sex hormones, also for thyroid hormones, maybe there is a problem there.

[Grace]

maybe there is a problem there.

The main problem is that they do not communicate about sex. He gets offended and leaves to smoke, runs to his mistress, but cannot talk.

[Let’s]

I understand the author because I have the same situation myself. Talked 100500 times. In words one thing, in deeds another. As a result, he gave up and stopped bothering about sex, stopped taking the initiative and pestering. Probably tired of getting rejected in 99% of offers. Now if she pesters you, there is sex, if not, well, x with him. Stopped being offended. There is no mistress. I go for porn or sex stories when I want sex. Is it good? Of course not. But making a tragedy out of this is not my character. And yes, every pretty girl on the subway or in the hall (especially in the hall) is viewed from the side “how would I fuck her?” But I don’t want to get a divorce, because our relationship is good and we don’t fight, we don’t quarrel and we’re always together, it’s just that we have problems with sex. I don’t need a lover for a relationship. But if by chance a woman turns up who doesn’t need a relationship, but only sex (there was such a thing in my life when I was young), I’m afraid I won’t be able to resist.

[government38]

the wife smells betrayal, she may not voice it, but in fact, endorphins or something else, but she changes her behavior and emotions, perhaps she senses the genetics of a foreign female on her male and the excitement disappears, subtle matter...
in general I haven’t yet met women who don’t like cunnilingus, maybe it’s the biomaterial that remains on your lips after hiking

[Gudgeon]

under_an_umbrella, I answered, Marinka, but you missed the answer past the eyes:

I noticed your bile, but I will ignore it.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

it’s hard to maintain a close relationship when the other partner constantly shows his dissatisfaction

You can’t imagine how....

I can imagine, I was in the place of such a wife, but the ex himself destroyed everything, with his own hands.. really sex he had it all the same with me, but I just didn’t want it.

After the divorce, a year later I met my loved one and was surprised to notice that you can want him all the time and have sex at will, with a thirst to merge with him.

It is of course difficult to understand here... we don’t hear the other side, but at least the author does not rape his wife.. this is already a plus for karma. He loves his wife, children, provides for his family... I envy... I have never had such happiness.

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

at a minimum you need to admit to your wife that there was cheating

A complete fool... Why??

[Gudgeon]

true, he had sex with me anyway, but I just didn’t want it.

I sympathize. This is probably even worse. Essentially it is violence. This is disgusting

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We don’t hear the other side

That’s the whole point... And always like that. The situation is always described from one point.

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I didn’t have such happiness.

But now I have ? Now have you found your piece of heaven? This should somehow compensate for the past!

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A complete fool... Why??

Well, probably to make it more painful. After all, nothing can be corrected, but it is possible to do even more harm. Why not, right?

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I didn’t have such happiness.

But now it is? Now have you found your piece of heaven? This should somehow compensate for the past!

There are some nuances... we won’t have quiet family happiness anyway. And of course I get a buzz... not without it)

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

I’ll tell you one secret about men... They are lazy. A man will not make unnecessary movements without a reason.

It’s true, "terrorist fuckers" are not the majority. I will say more, and they are not all pathological, sometimes in periods.

[Cujoi]

Dumb advice "just remember where it all began in life. The first meeting, the first bouquet of flowers, walks around the city, when you reach the end you need to remember the beginning of this path and then a new path will appear. A person chooses his own destiny. Well, sometimes you have to stick kick your pride in the ass and admit your mistakes It’s not better to remember where you started, so the right thing to do is

[etc]

You are an adult and I will not write here that cheating is disgusting. You understand this perfectly well without me.

Funny).

[Tanya]

There are some nuances... we won’t have quiet family happiness anyway. And so I get a thrill, of course... not without it)

Nuances!
This is absolutely accurate and they depend on a number of circumstances. Something like profession, environment, level of income, location, mood and much more.

[RealMax]

You are an adult and I will not write here that cheating is disgusting. You understand this perfectly well even without me.

Funny).

someone is very offended me greatly). But here, as in treason, if a person is offended, the one who was offended is also to blame. So there is a sin.

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

Well, probably to make it more painful. After all, nothing can be corrected, but it is possible to do even more harm. Why not, right?

Parting is not always painful for both. If he is suffering, then he will pick at his own sore.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

We have our own nuances... we won’t have quiet family happiness anyway. And so I get a thrill, of course... not without it)

Nuances!
This is absolutely accurate and they depend on a number of circumstances. Something like profession, environment, level of income, location, mood and much more.

no.. it’s not about the environment and wealth. I’m purple about this. There are real obstacles, like the big age difference, and the fact that we are in a long-distance relationship.

[etc]

someone offended her very much). But here, as in treason, if a person is offended, the one who was offended is also to blame. So there is a sin

But it seems to me that we (men and women) understand each other poorly due to biological differences and tasks.
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On the other hand, who knows what will happen, if we don’t restrain our biology with morality....

[Serg_A]

There are real obstacles, like a big age difference, and the fact that we have a long-distance relationship

If this is Virt, then the images that you create for each other often do not correspond to reality. I always had to put on the image that a woman wants me to see. And then, when I said that I wasn’t really like that, they refused to believe me.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

There are real obstacles, like a big age difference, and the fact that we have a long-distance relationship

If this is Virt, then the images that you create for each other often do not correspond to reality. I always had to put on the image that a woman wants me to see. And then, when I said that I’m really not like that, they refused to believe.

no, this is not virtual, we see each other in real life. I don’t understand anything about virtual reality, I don’t see any point in it. I need to feel a person, hold his hand, hug him, see his eyes, smile. Wirth doesn’t insert at all.. this is some kind of castrated love.

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

It seems to me that we (men and women) understand each other poorly due to biological differences and tasks.

This is specially designed, if you haven’t already guessed :-D Go learn your lessons, after a couple of girls you’ll get there.

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castrated is some kind of love.

Deviation with voyeurism, cultivated on purpose. Today we were talking about laziness, this is exactly what it’s about - you don’t even have to go to the hole in the wall of a woman’s shower.))