I'm married. Bi sex happened... I don’t know what to do.

Unread post by **Lenok** » 19 Jun 2023, 05:32

Hi all. There is no one to talk to.
I am married, I have a child, everything is fine with my husband. I ended up in a hospital, a two-bed ward, a neighbor 10 years older than me, very pretty, I was very emotionally depressed, in general, without even knowing that this could happen... damn, there are tears in my eyes now... ahhh... in general, I gave her cunnilingus almost a week... A month has already passed, I can’t come to my senses, I can’t tell my husband, I’m ignoring my friends.
She had some kind of incredible energy, like a goddess, I just forgot about everything, as if I was serving her, satisfying her, giving her a massage, caring for her... and I liked it all so much...
How can I continue to live now...? ??

Unread post by **RockstarAgency** » 19 Jun 2023, 05:34

Lenok, Yes, live in peace) People live for themselves and Nothing.

Unread post by **Beluga** » 19 Jun 2023, 05:36

Lenok, Make it so that your husband doesn’t know and move on with your life.

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 19 Jun 2023, 05:43

Lenok,
just congratulate yourself on new experiences and move on with your life.
"What are we going to do with this commander, Comrade Stalin?" -"What are we going to do? We’re going to be jealous!"

Unread post by **bark** » 19 Jun 2023, 05:44

Continue licking. It’s possible for her, it’s possible for others. Can my husband have an anus?

Unread post by **Lenok** » 19 Jun 2023, 05:46

I also thought to live in peace, but damn, a month has passed, and it has only gotten worse...

My husband already guesses... How to hide those emotions?

Unread post by **Wednesday** » 19 Jun 2023, 05:49

Lenok, you have identified yourself as bisexual. So you have had experience of same-sex love. What’s the problem?

Unread post by **Lenok** » 19 Jun 2023, 05:51

There was no such experience.

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 19 Jun 2023, 07:41

Lenok: 19 Jun 2023, 05:51 There was no such experience.

Now there is, everything is learned by comparison

Didn’t the lady who disappeared from your life leave her phone number? As I understand it, you were an asset, find a younger girl, keep playing, have fun if you get it

Unread post by **romannaich** » 19 Jun 2023, 08:03

Find this lady and continue to have mutual pleasure

Unread post by **Vartislav** » 19 Jun 2023, 08:50

Psychologists say: “You now have twice as many chances to enjoy life.” If family is important, the husband should be surrounded by care and affection. But telling him is neither necessary nor advisable. An adult has the right to his own outlet, his own secret. The main thing is not to harm anyone and not to freak out in vain.

Unread post by **Let’s** » 19 Jun 2023, 09:16

Lenok: 19 Jun 2023, 05:46 The husband already guesses... How to hide those emotions?

You can try to talk with your husband about his opinion about bisexual women. And then try to legalize it. For example, if my wife told me that she wants a girl or she already has a girl and she wants her. Then I would be only happy. On the condition that from time to time or often I am present during their sex... Even on the condition that I do not touch her partner and only please my wife, I would agree. And everyone would be happy. The husband is present during lesbian caresses (many men like lesbian games) and you thoroughly enjoy the girl’s caresses. And you get at least affection from her and maybe from two.

Unread post by **German1** » 19 Jun 2023, 09:20

Lenok, Don’t worry so much. Everything is fine. Everything will be forgotten (if you want it), and then you will laugh "Why was I so worried about this??"..

Unread post by **WazzzzzzzUp** » 19 Jun 2023, 09:22

Lenok: 19 Jun 2023, 05:46 The husband already guesses... How to hide those emotions?

Just score. You are fooling yourself, this is what gives you away. Move on with your life and don’t worry, then no one will know anything. - this is one of the options.

The second option, for example, is to talk to your husband about what is bothering you. But since circumstances and people are different, perhaps this is so-so advice.

Unread post by **RockstarAgency** » 19 Jun 2023, 09:24

WazzzzzzUp: 19 Jun 2023, 09:22 Move on with your life and don’t worry, then no one will know anything. - this is one of the options.

Excellent option.

Unread post by **Scromnaga** » 19 Jun 2023, 09:27

WazzzzzzUp: 19 Jun 2023, 09:22 Move on with your life and don’t worry, then no one will know anything. - this is one of the options

As I understand it, this is the case when you want them to find out. For TS it was first experience[/url] same-sex love, and she has already identified herself as bisexual.
Apparently I liked it.

Unread post by **aryamari** » 19 Jun 2023, 09:44

Lenok, What options are there?

Unread post by **niqk** » 19 Jun 2023, 09:47

Scromnaja, so, if you didn’t like it, then I wasn’t worried... she wanted it!!!

Unread post by **Fan** » 19 Jun 2023, 10:10

Lenok, What’s the problem? Did you enjoy it? Enjoy!

Unread post by **Meleon** » 19 Jun 2023, 10:17

Live as a family, your husband doesn’t need to know yet. You can sometimes date a lady for a change. It is possible on the other hand, so that dependence does not appear. If you want to involve your husband in your pranks, gently push him towards this. Everything is in your hands, enjoy)

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 19 Jun 2023, 11:07

In my experience, a man is rarely jealous of his beloved woman - of other women. On the contrary, he may even like it: the woman he loves reveals a different sexual side.

Unread post by **Lost** » 19 Jun 2023, 12:21

Well, this doesn’t make me think that TS changed her orientation in a month or became BI. The main thing is not to get hung up if it’s not pleasant, stop beating yourself up and continue to live a full family life!

Unread post by **Lenok** » 20 Jun 2023, 02:33

Thanks to everyone who responded.
I naturally have my friend’s phone number. I even wrote and called her, but she answered coldly, without interest. I understand her, we were there alone, and at home we were family.
I was not an asset, as someone wrote, probably the opposite is correct.

I put myself in position, because it really sunk into my soul...

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 20 Jun 2023, 02:38

Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 02:33 Thanks to everyone who responded.
I naturally have my friend’s phone number. I even wrote and called her, but she answered coldly, without interest. I understand her, we were there alone, and at home we were family.
I was not an asset, as someone wrote, probably the other way around is correct.

I put myself in position, because it really sunk into my soul...

Active, who licks, passive gets pleasure, as I understand it, you gave her cunnilingus and you like it, it’s easier for you to find than who is passive

, try it.

Unread post by **King Bird** » 20 Jun 2023, 03:44

Hooligan Carrie: 19 Jun 2023, 11:07 In my experience, a man is rarely jealous of his beloved woman - of other women. On the contrary, he might even like it: the woman he loves reveals a different sexual side.

Well, I was just about to write about the same thing. Some also sometimes provoke their wives into same-sex pranks.

Unread post by **Danafil** » 20 Jun 2023, 04:02

What is your problem for everyone, specifically? What are you worried about? Nothing terrible happened, quite the contrary)

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 20 Jun 2023, 04:24

King Zogu: 20 Jun 2023, 03:44 Some people even provoke their wives into same-sex pranks.

Eh...then that’s different)

Unread post by **Lenok** » 20 Jun 2023, 04:46

Damn... and no one understands me here...

Unread post by **RealMax** » 20 Jun 2023, 04:48

Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 02:33 Thanks to everyone who responded.
I naturally have my friend’s phone number. I even wrote and called her, but she answered coldly, without interest. I understand her, we were there alone, and at home we were family.
I was not an asset, as someone wrote, probably the other way around is correct.

I put myself in position, because it really sunk into my soul...

it is difficult to enter the same water twice. We go there every day, in this BI))) but it’s not always possible to repeat it in the same colors in other circumstances

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Hooligan Carrie: 19 Jun 2023, 11:07 In my experience, a man is rarely jealous of his beloved woman - of other women. On the contrary, he may even like it: the woman he loves reveals a different sexual side.

Lenok: Damn... and no one understands me here...

everyone understands everything perfectly. The question is that this forum is not intended to resolve any issues. Here people come to be aroused by their own fantasies. I tried to find like-minded people, unfortunately without success.

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Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 04:46 Damn... and here no one understands me...

and then, what mechanism of understanding do you need? so that someone from the forum would say, don’t worry Lenok, here’s my phone number, let’s play? It won’t work))) For specialized dating sites you need. Or go to a sexologist, turn off desire until your own sex.

Unread post by **Wednesday** » 20 Jun 2023, 04:57

Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 04:46 Damn... and no one understands me here...

You are overacting now.

Unread post by **RealMax** » 20 Jun 2023, 04:59

Wednesday: 20 Jun 2023, 04:57
Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 04:46 Damn... and no one understands me here...
You are overacting now.

which was required to be proven)))

Unread post by **Let’s** » 20 Jun 2023, 05:18

As I understand it, the author developed some semblance of feelings for this woman over these two weeks. So she struggles with this. And he can’t say. It took two weeks. And that woman is cold now. So he thinks about how to deal with feelings and not with the fact that there was same-sex sex.

Unread post by **Lenok** » 20 Jun 2023, 05:44

I don’t understand why I’m overplaying?
I myself don’t know what I want to hear, I simply don’t have anyone to tell it to, but it’s bursting with PPC.

Unread post by **We fall asleep** » 20 Jun 2023, 05:46

I would be glad if my wife had a girl. I get turned on.

Unread post by **Katia** » 20 Jun 2023, 05:59

Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 04:46 Damn... and no one understands me here...

I understand you. Just the thought makes me feel ashamed, I scold myself for it, but I can’t do anything with myself. The desire to try with a woman never goes away. My advice: if a telephone conversation does not give you any answers, try to meet with her, talk, tell her about your experiences and decide together what to do next.

Unread post by **Lenok** » 20 Jun 2023, 06:04

Unfortunately, I can’t arrange a meeting, I tried to tell her, she, in short, damn it, apparently blocked me... I can’t get any calls on WhatsApp. Who am I kidding, it turns out she just played like with a kitten and that’s it... get out...

Unread post by **Katia** » 20 Jun 2023, 06:10

Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 06:04 Unfortunately, I can’t arrange a meeting, I tried to tell her, she, in short, damn it, apparently blocked it... neither the calls on WhatsApp nor the calls reach me. Who am I kidding, it turns out she just played like with a kitten and that’s it... get out...

Or maybe for her, like for you, it was first experience and she is just like and you are now worried and don’t know what to do next. Give her time, I think soon she will want to meet with you and discuss everything.

Unread post by **Scromnaga** » 20 Jun 2023, 06:10

Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 06:04 Unfortunately, I can’t arrange a meeting, I tried to tell her, she, in short, damn it, apparently blocked it... neither the calls on WhatsApp nor the calls reach me. Who am I kidding, it turns out she just played like with a kitten and that’s it... get out...

Why were you in the hospital? What did you and she treat?

Unread post by **Lenok** » 20 Jun 2023, 06:16

No, I’m not her first, that’s 100%, she knew everything and knew what she wanted.

Hematology department. As you asked, it just clicked for me, what if she’s here)?

Unread post by **RealMax** » 20 Jun 2023, 06:18

Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 06:16 No, I’m not her first, this is 100%, she knew everything and knew what she wanted.

Hematology department. As you asked, it just clicked for me, what if she’s here)?

don’t overplay it!!!)))

Unread post by **Katia** » 20 Jun 2023, 06:21

Lenok: 20 Jun 2023, 06:16 As you asked, it just clicked with me, what if she’s here)?

Did this thought scare you or make you happy? But what if you really imagine that she is here and express to her everything that has accumulated in you, maybe it will become easier for you.

Unread post by **Lenok** » 20 Jun 2023, 06:23

I was more pleased.
What do you mean don’t overplay?

Unread post by **Let’s** » 20 Jun 2023, 07:27

The likelihood that she is here is extremely low. If you added it to an emergency, then all you have to do is leave the situation. Maybe time will pass and she will write to you herself. But I wouldn’t hope too much. Perhaps for her it was a type of "resort romance". Try to leave it as a pleasant memory. As a new and pleasant experience, not as someone taking advantage of you. You had a good time these two weeks. When you go on vacation, do you enjoy it? . And don’t think that you were used to satisfy your needs by taking money for housing on a three-way street.. That’s how it is here - look at it from the other side. You had a lot of pleasant moments.

Unread post by **libertine** » 20 Jun 2023, 07:36

Lenok: 19 Jun 2023, 05:32 Hello everyone. There is no one to talk to.
I am married, I have a child, everything is fine with my husband. I ended up in a hospital, a two-bed ward, a neighbor 10 years older than me, very pretty, I was very emotionally depressed, in general, without even knowing that this could happen... damn, there are tears in my eyes now... ahhh... in general, I gave her cunnilingus almost a week... A month has already passed, I can’t come to my senses, I can’t tell my husband, I’m ignoring my friends.
She had some kind of incredible energy, like a goddess, I just forgot about everything, as if I was serving her, satisfying her, giving her a massage, caring for her... and I liked it all so much...
How can I continue to live now...? ??

Don’t worry! As they say: "What is not done is all for the better!" Look from the other side - maybe you will suggest to your husband to engage in FFM? And he will agree in any way, and you will be satisfied!

Unread post by **Lisa24** » 20 Jun 2023, 08:04

Lenok: 19 Jun 2023, 05:46 I also thought to live in peace, but damn, a month has passed, and it has only gotten worse...

My husband already guesses... How to hide those emotions?

Do you mean worse? you write something without specifics. worse because you’re ashamed? worse because you want that aunt? worse because you just want the aunt? worse because you can’t tell your husband? what’s worse?
no need to hide your emotions. Why are you Did you get married? So what? why the hell is there such a husband to whom you can’t say anything? I went and said May Love, I met my aunt at the hospital and I liked to obey. Let’s play tavern owner

that’s it. husband of the family saved remorse evaporated in the tavern brave heart

Unread post by **Marion** » 20 Jun 2023, 08:12

Debauchee: 20 Jun 2023, 07:36 Look from the other side - maybe you will suggest to your husband to engage in FFM? And he will agree in any way, and you will be happy!

This actually surprises me - as soon as the girl is bi, it must be FFM... WELL WHAT THE HECK? It’s not at all necessary for a bi girl to like threesomes, rarely does anyone like it, and there’s no need to follow the lead of male dreamers.

Unread post by **Let’s** » 20 Jun 2023, 08:40

Marion: 20 Jun 2023, 08:12 WHAT THE HELL?

Well, because she is married, this is the first and second thing - she cannot cope with her emotions to such an extent that her husband may already suspect . In such a situation, it is better to open up. If he can’t control himself and hide the connection. And her husband won’t think that she cheated on him with her girlfriend. If the husband suspects it, it will be a relationship with some doctor, nurse or male patient. Which will most likely be worse than if he finds out that it was a woman... And then according to the scenario, usually, probably in 80% of cases, the husband accepts this but wants to either see it or participate. There are not many husbands who are willing to simply give their wife over for sex without his participation.. (I don’t take cuckolds into account). But this is my personal opinion and I do not claim to be the truth.

Unread post by **bark** » 20 Jun 2023, 09:01

Somehow the topic has slipped from “oh, I’m ashamed to look my husband in the eye” to “my mistress doesn’t answer me, I’m suffering”

Unread post by **Lenok** » 21 Jun 2023, 01:37

99% of the time my husband won’t understand this, I know him.
I don’t want MFM and other girls are somehow not attractive to me.
In general, I am grateful for the comments, I really understand that one particular person has sunk into my soul. I just thought there was some way to switch or forget... so I wrote here.

Unread post by **Let’s** » 21 Jun 2023, 02:09

Lenok: 21 Jun 2023, 01:37 I just thought there was some way to switch or forget... so I wrote here.

There is only one way - communication with others. As active as possible (I don’t mean relationships on the side) - friends, loved ones, relatives... Walks, trips. Otherwise you are unlikely to be distracted. The more you are alone, as you wrote that you ignore your friends, the more you will be driven.