The girl wants to know your last name, although you don’t know it well yet

[Serg_A]

Hi all! An interesting opinion members of the forum and members of the forum. I’m dating a girl, not even a month has passed since our first meeting, and she’s already asking for my last name, because she wants me to have a last name in the phone book. Maybe this is normal, but none of the girls before her demanded this information from me. And they didn’t tell me anything about themselves; some didn’t even meet with me under their own names. I would like to hear your comments.

[The passage]

Hello everyone! An interesting opinion members of the forum and members of the forum. I’m dating a girl, not even a month has passed since our first meeting, and she’s already asking for my last name, because she wants me to have a last name in the phone book. Maybe this is normal, but none of the girls before her demanded this information from me. And they didn’t tell me anything about themselves; some didn’t even meet with me under their own names. I would like to hear your comments.

Real is not an anonymous forum. If he asks, then say so.

[Serg_A]

Hello everyone! An interesting opinion members of the forum and members of the forum. I’m dating a girl, not even a month has passed since our first meeting, and she’s already asking for my last name, because she wants me to have a last name in the phone book. Maybe this is normal, but none of the girls before her demanded this information from me. And they didn’t tell me anything about themselves; some didn’t even meet with me under their own names. I would like to hear your comments.

Real is not an anonymous forum. If he asks, then tell me.

Marinka , then tell me why the girls hid their names from me, well, in fact, I later found out that she was not Irina, but Christina? Is there anything rational in this?

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Hello everyone! An interesting opinion members of the forum and members of the forum. I’m dating a girl, not even a month has passed since our first meeting, and she’s already asking for my last name, because she wants me to have a last name in the phone book. Maybe this is normal, but none of the girls before her demanded this information from me. And they didn’t tell me anything about themselves; some didn’t even meet with me under their own names. I would like to hear your comments.

Real is not an anonymous forum. If he asks, then tell me.

Marinka , then tell me why the girls hid their names from me, well, in fact, I later found out that she was not Irina, but Christina? Is there anything rational in this?

Maybe a scammer?

[Fargal94]

This happens to girls, especially young ones)

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This happens to girls, especially to young children)

This is the first time I’ve heard this. To call someone else’s name.

[Fargal94]

This happens to girls, especially to young children)

This is the first time I’ve heard this. To call someone else’s name.

I encountered this in my youth, but now you can really run into a scammer

[Serg_A]

Real is not an anonymous forum. If he asks, then tell me.

Marinka , then tell me why the girls hid their names from me, well, in fact, I later found out that she was not Irina, but Christina? Is there anything rational in this?

Maybe a scammer?

This happens to girls, especially to minors)

There has been no fraud yet), but I don’t date minors. Although they are all younger than me.)

[Fargal94]

Marinka , then tell me why the girls hid their names from me, well, in fact, I later found out that she was not Irina, but Christina? Is there anything rational in this?

Maybe a scammer?

This happens to girls, especially to minors)

There has been no fraud yet), but I don’t date minors. Although they are all younger than me.)

I don’t date young children either, that’s the experience of youth)

[Serg_A]

I would like to know what Ksenofont, and Hooligan Kerry, as well as the opinion of others I’m also interested in the forum participants.

[Bully Carrie]

To me, this is strange. In the age of digital openness and ease of obtaining information, a surname is already too sensitive information. But it’s up to you. If you want, name it; if you don’t want, name it too, but not yours. Let the alias be

[Xenophon]

Serg_A,
I did not agree on my position with the “hooligan,” but I flippantly assume that if your last name is not Prigozhin, Fridman, etc., then I don’t find anything unusual in this desire of your girlfriend. We have become very suspicious even over trifles. It’s not for nothing that they say “keep it simple and people will be drawn to you.”

[Serg_A]

For me, this is strange. In the age of digital openness and ease of obtaining information, a surname is already too sensitive information. But it’s up to you. If you want, name it; if you don’t want, name it too, but not yours. Let the alias be

Serg_A,
I did not agree with my position with the “hooligan”, but I frivolously believe that if your last name not Prigozhin, Fridman, etc., I don’t find anything unusual in this desire of your girlfriend. We have become very suspicious even over trifles. It’s not for nothing that they say “be simpler and people will be drawn to you.”

Here are opinions that are well-reasoned, but opposite. Ksenofont, I’m sure that my last name is completely uninteresting kind of special services, but for any mercantile interests, a woman might ask?
Hooligan Carrie, knowing the last name , is it possible to manipulate a person in any way?

[Xenophon]

Serg_A,
If you again If you are not related to the above-mentioned persons, then what kind of mercantile interest can there be in you? I can’t even guess. Well, Petrov, you have an apartment, a car and a country house. And what can this knowledge give?

[Bully Carrie]

knowing the last name, can you manipulate a person in any way?

It depends on what kind of manipulation you are afraid of. Knowing the last name, you can find a person in any lists of clients, employees, students.... on the same social networks. It is very rare, vanishingly rare, that a person does not leave his digital trace. Remember, a couple of years ago, someone leaked the personal data of clients of Wildbury, Delivery Club and someone else? Some used these databases to find their exes and where they live, I saw that my niece was ordering food that she couldn’t (she didn’t give it to her mother), and someone else could have found something else. I’m generally silent about social networks: the system of circles (friends, friends of friends of friends) works flawlessly, and it just seems like “nothing like that.”...
Sorry, but this is not the same girl, with "debt" for a hundred mowers?)

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And what can this knowledge give?

apartment address, calling his wife, blackmailing Serge. We broke up/quarreled - a signal to the traffic police at the registration number of the vehicle "fled from the scene of an accident".

[Serg_A]

Sorry, but this is not the same girl, with the “debt” of a hundred mowers?)

It’s her . There were already hints at other amounts, but smaller.

[Bully Carrie]

And what can this knowledge give?

inform the tax office, create hype/srach/hate-bully on social networks, maybe not 100,500 friends a person has, but even with half a hundred friends on social networks it can be very unpleasant.

[Serg_A]

Hooligan Carrie, I finally understand why this is me worries (question about my last name): she lied to me twice, even three, once about the fact that she had a debt of several hundred thousand rubles, the second time that her car suddenly broke down, well there already, only several tens of thousands , and the third time is that she would like to marry me...

[-AlexNova-]

I always hide my last name so as not to cause damage! Info 100%

[Serg_A]

I always hide my last name so as not to cause damage! Info 100%

Well, yes, suddenly the last name goes bad

[Keep the change for yourself]

Hooligan Carrie, I finally understand , why does this bother me (the question about my last name): she lied to me twice, even three, once about the fact that she had a debt of several hundred thousand rubles, the second time that her car suddenly broke down, well there already, in total only a few tens of thousands, and the third time is that she would like to marry me...

Well, judging by the facts that have come to light, probably finding a man for her is not for relationships, but to solve her pressing problems. You shouldn’t contact her at all.

And your last name is your brand. I’m never embarrassed by my last name, and when someone writes my number into their phone, I always say my last name. So what?

[Serg_A]

judging by the facts that have come to light, probably finding a man for her is not for a relationship, but for solving her pressing problems. You shouldn’t get involved with her at all

Well, I’m not going to solve her financial problems. And she really gets high from sex with me and I like it, so we can still date, but the fact that, as you say, she’s not interested in relationships, I don’t need them either, I’m just meeting her for sex and that’s all)) ).

[Serg_A]

When someone writes my number into their phone, I always say my last name. What’s wrong with that?

And if this someone managed to lie to you several times in order to solve his financial problems at your expense?

[Keep the change for yourself]

And she really gets high from sex with me and I like it

Maybe she pleases your vanity))) this is also a kind of manipulation.

When someone writes my number into the phone, I always say my last name. What’s wrong with that?

And if this someone managed to lie to you several times in order to solve his financial problems at your expense?

It doesn’t matter, why hide your last name . But I don’t find myself in situations like yours, because I don’t make acquaintances for the sake of sex and relationships, only work contacts.

[bark]

Maybe she pleases your vanity))) this is also a kind of manipulation.

Don’t stop a guy from being a sexual giant. . It’s okay that the girl cheated several times, but in sex everything is fair.

[SeRg !$!]

Now we are all exposed more than ever and you can practically find all the information.
If you are dating in person)... then the fear of giving your last name is not clear to me personally...

[Beluga]

Real is not an anonymous forum. If he asks, then tell me.

Marinka , then tell me why the girls hid their names from me, well, in fact, I later found out that she was not Irina, but Christina? Is there anything rational in this?

Maybe a scammer?

Even for sure