Flowers and compliments to women before and after sex?

[Bully Carrie]

Let me throw in a little hetero-vanilla)
Girls, how important is it for you to hear compliments from men, read affectionate messages, receive flowers? Real compliments, not "I was blown away" and "Oh, what a pussy - show me closer," but really beautiful, worthy words?
Is this a necessary element of a relationship for you, or can you skip this move? Or just a waste of time?
Men, do you like to give women flowers, say beautiful words and do your best to make a woman feel like a queen? As part of a sexual perspective or after sex?
Or - do you think that this is unnecessary?

[Ogest]

not "yabvdul" and "oh what a pussy - show me closer

Now this is the highest manifestation of vanilla.

[The passage]

I love lilies))) And for some reason men think that everyone loves roses.
That’s what I wrote, just in case)))
I also love compliments)))

[Lisa24]

I don’t like cut flowers, they’re dead, I feel sorry for them. So flowers are good in a flower bed. Compliments are another thing, they’re nice especially from a loved one and if they’re not cloying like syrup. Then it’s a plus for karma and self-esteem. And this is important in a relationship)

[The passage]

I don’t like cut flowers, they’re dead, I feel sorry for them. So flowers are good in a flower bed. Compliments are another thing, they’re nice especially from a loved one and if they’re not cloying like syrup. Then it’s a plus for karma and self-esteem. And this is important in relationships )

Everything around us is dead. Furniture, clothes, food in the refrigerator.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I love all these musi-pusi, tenderness, kind words, gentle hugs, kisses, compliments of course, flowers. I spent so much time, the best time!.. on one freak from whom there was absolutely nothing, no care or affection, and for some reason I thought that this was how it should be..

[Solomon]

I love all these musi-pusi, tenderness, kind words, gentle hugs, kisses, compliments, of course, flowers. I spent so much time, the best time!.. wasted on one freak from whom there was absolutely nothing, no care or affection, and for some reason I thought that this was how it should be..

classics of the genre

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I love lilies))) And for some reason men think that everyone loves roses.
That’s what I wrote, just in case)))
I love compliments too)))

gave chrysanthemums and peonies and at the very least roses yes

[Bully Carrie]

I love lilies)))

And I generally love all flowers. And by the way, I myself perfectly know how to grow roses and all sorts of other beautiful flowers. BUT! That moment when a man appears in your house / at a table with restique / or even in the subway in the center of the room - with a bouquet, and hands it to you, and waits for a reaction, and you accept this bouquet, intuitively tilting your face into the middle of the bouquet - mmmmmm, I don’t know, it’s such a thrill! Isn’t it?)

[Lisa24]

Everything around us is dead. Furniture, clothes, food in the refrigerator.

you listed recycled inert things that are already dead. the plant is initially alive and is cut off; it dies gradually, online. It’s unpleasant for me to watch this withering. That’s why I don’t like cut flowers.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I love all these musi-pusi, tenderness, kind words, gentle hugs, kisses, compliments, of course, flowers. I spent so much time, the best time!.. wasted on one freak from whom there was absolutely nothing, no care or affection, and for some reason I thought that this was how it should be..

classics of the genre

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I love lilies))) And for some reason men think that everyone loves roses.
That’s what I wrote, just in case)))
I love compliments too)))

gave chrysanthemums and peonies and to the extreme roses, I don’t understand why the chuckle?

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[Bully Carrie]

that’s why I don’t like cut flowers.

I have a friend who says the same thing) So I’m used to and respect this view.
But technically, flowers die anyway. More precisely, they die off: both in the vase and in the flowerbed. Now I have five peony bushes that are actively dropping their petals: they are dying. Tomorrow I will go out with a pruning shears and still cut off the ugly “bald” pedicels: the flowering is over, the peony flowers are finished. If I immediately cut flowers into a bouquet and gave it to a girl I liked, then in general it would be the same with them. Only there would be more joy from the bouquet))

[The passage]

Everything around us is dead. Furniture, clothes, food in the refrigerator.

you listed recycled inert things that are already dead. the plant is initially alive and is cut off; it dies gradually, online. I hate to see this wilting. That’s why I don’t like cut flowers.

If you plant carrots or potatoes in the ground, they will most likely grow. And the cucumber was originally alive, and the zucchini and banana. We do not observe the withering of flowers, but admire their beauty. They will also wither in the flowerbed. If you watch them there.
I’m not trying to convince you otherwise. If you don’t like flowers, then you don’t like them, but there’s no point in feeling sorry for them. Their lifespan is short-lived in any case. Regardless of whether they are in the flowerbed or in your home, on the table, in a vase.

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that’s why I don’t like cut flowers.

I have I have a friend who says exactly the same thing) So I’m used to and respect this view.
But technically, flowers die anyway. More precisely, they die off: both in the vase and in the flowerbed. Now I have five peony bushes that are actively dropping their petals: they are dying. Tomorrow I will go out with a pruning shears and still cut off the ugly “bald” pedicels: the flowering is over, the peony flowers are finished. If I had immediately cut flowers into a bouquet and given it to his girlfriend, whom I liked, then in general it would have been the same with them. Only there would be more joy from the bouquet))

And, my peonies have already faded.

[Lisa24]

I have a friend who says exactly the same thing) So I’m used to and respect this view.
But technically, flowers die anyway. More precisely, they die off: both in the vase and in the flowerbed. Now I have five peony bushes that are actively dropping their petals: they are dying. Tomorrow I will go out with a pruning shears and still cut off the ugly “bald” pedicels: the flowering is over, the peony flowers are finished. If I had immediately cut flowers into a bouquet and given it to his girlfriend, whom I liked, then in general it would have been the same with them. Only there would be more joy from the bouquet))

perhaps this is true, but I already have a strong association and it’s difficult to get rid of it. This does not mean that I’m crying over with every gifted flower, or I rush to read sermons to those who give flowers) it’s just that my MCH knows that I don’t like this and gives me stones) I accept them willingly and they make me happy no less than someone else’s bouquet of flowers.

[Bully Carrie]

gave chrysanthemums and peonies and, at the very least, roses

Yes, even forget-me-nots! Important attention, kmk

[Bully Carrie]

me

oh, that’s interesting about the stones! Precious, semi? Which ones?

[Lisa24]

If you plant carrots or potatoes in the ground, they will most likely grow. And the cucumber was originally alive, and the zucchini and banana. We do not observe the withering of flowers, but admire their beauty. They will also wither in the flowerbed. If you observe them there.
I will not convince you otherwise. If you don’t like flowers, then you don’t like them, but there’s no point in feeling sorry for them. Their lifespan is short-lived in any case. Regardless of whether they are in the flowerbed or in your home, on the table, in a vase

I have never planted anything and have not gone so deeply into philosophy about the flowering cycle of plants) I have an association with cut plants and I don’t see the point in fighting it. And I can admire the flowers from the window)) let them not live and die in my home))

[Bully Carrie]

my peonies have already faded

somehow everything blooms later than average: there is forest all around and not enough sun.

[The passage]

If you plant carrots or potatoes in the ground, they will most likely grow. And the cucumber was originally alive, and the zucchini and banana. We do not observe the withering of flowers, but admire their beauty. They will also wither in the flowerbed. If you observe them there.
I will not convince you otherwise. If you don’t like flowers, then you don’t like them, but there’s no point in feeling sorry for them. Their lifespan is short-lived in any case. Regardless of whether they are in the flowerbed or in your home, on the table, in a vase

I have never planted anything and have not gone so deeply into philosophy about the flowering cycle of plants) I have an association with cut plants and I don’t see the point in fighting it. And I can admire the flowers from the window)) let them live and die not in my home))

Where does this association come from? Have you seen flower beds with wilted flowers? Or haven’t you seen how flowers last in a vase for two weeks or more and don’t fade?
You should have just written that you don’t like flowers, but love stones. Oh, you wrote that they are dead. That’s why I wrote to you that everything around you is dead.

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My peonies have already faded

somehow everything blooms later for me than average: there is forest all around and not enough sun.

My peonies bloomed two weeks ago. Perhaps your variety is different.

[Lisa24]

ooh, that’s interesting about the stones! Precious, semi? Which?

including. You will be surprised but I also have the most ordinary unusual ones) I specially bought a table for them that is transparent, hollow inside so that they can be seen was)

[Bully Carrie]

let them not live and die at my place))

Yes, the idea is clear, it’s just aesthetically difficult for you to look at wilted flowers in a vase)

[Bully Carrie]

I didn’t understand why the laugh?

I also wondered why suddenly the neighing smiley

[Lisa24]

Where does this association come from? .

from somewhere deep in my reflexes

Have you seen a flower bed with withered flowers? Or haven’t you seen how flowers last in a vase for two weeks or more and don’t wither?

saw so what? The main thing is that there is no such thing in my house

You just should have written that you don’t like flowers, but love stones. Oh, you wrote that they are dead. That’s why I wrote to you that everything around you is dead

I wrote that I don’t like cut flowers)) right in the very first sentence. But your comparison is incorrect and I explained why, but we’re already repeating ourselves, it’s boring

[The passage]

let them not live and die at my place))

Yes, the idea is clear, it’s just aesthetically difficult for you to look at on wilted flowers in a vase)

Listen, I understand you are very tactful. But she peels the potatoes, and she probably cries too, and when she throws them into boiling water, she generally sobs with burning tears. Well, a man came up with something for himself. Let be. There is no need to support this.
She is not a child. Ava with a bottle.

[Bully Carrie]

In general, that’s what needed to be proven, although I didn’t want to. Women like beautiful signs of attention, but men don’t care.
Reminds me of the joke about lieutenant Rzhevsky. Even two.

[Bully Carrie]

Marinka, Thank you)) I’m telling you, I have I have a beloved friend who says exactly the same thing. So I’ve already grown zen in this place and don’t worry)))

[The passage]

Marinka , Thank you)) I’m telling you, I have a beloved friend who says exactly the same thing. So I’ve already grown Zen in this place and don’t worry)))

And, I have a vegan friend. He doesn’t eat meat because animals are killed. I understand this perfectly well, but when she comes to visit, she says that I have troupes in the refrigerator. And they do it so convincingly, for themselves. And when I tell her about the troupes of vegetables in her refrigerator, she doesn’t hear.
Well, people have such natures. Well, there are points, so be it. Just don’t talk about corpses. Our whole life passes among carrion. And we kill ourselves. Flies, cockroaches, mosquitoes.
It’s just that when they focus on dead animals or flowers, they reproach us. They are good, we are bad.

[Bully Carrie]

Marinka,
Well, when they harass , this is so-so, of course. It’s just that, with rare exceptions, shaming doesn’t affect me at all, I don’t even notice it often.
I have friends who are vegetarians and vegans, but I don’t think anything about corpses))

[Lisa24]

But she peels the potatoes, and she probably cries too, and when she throws them into boiling water, she generally sobs with burning tears. Well, a man came up with something for himself. Let be. There is no need to support this.
She is not a child. Ava with a bottle.

why should I attribute actions and emotions that you came up with in your head? Give an example that is incomparable? You can’t compare the potato you eat and the flower you eat you cut it only to admire it) it’s like comparing a cow and a cat)) they’re both meat, roughly speaking.
If I get my hands on a flower that I want to eat, I’ll cut it without a twinge of conscience and use it. But with cut flowers I won’t start admiring the same thing as potatoes)) I hope I’m making myself clear?

They just focus on dead animals or flowersthey reproach us. They are good, we are bad.

there is no need to project your grievances onto a stranger) you are not right in a single statement about me. A few posts above I wrote that I don’t cry or weep over cut flowers and I don’t engage in moral fag. These are exclusively my tastes that I don’t impose on anyone, but I have the right to them just like you yourself.

[The passage]

But she peels the potatoes, and she probably cries too, and when she throws them into boiling water, she generally sobs with burning tears. Well, a man came up with something for himself. Let be. There is no need to support this.
She is not a child. Ava with a bottle.

why should I attribute actions and emotions that you came up with in your head? Give an example that is incomparable? You can’t compare the potato you eat and the flower you eat you cut it only to admire it) it’s like comparing a cow and a cat)) they’re both meat, roughly speaking.
If I get my hands on a flower that I want to eat, I’ll cut it without a twinge of conscience and use it. But with cut flowers I won’t start admiring the same thing as potatoes)) I hope I’m making myself clear?

They just focus on dead animals or flowersthey reproach us. They are good, we are bad.

there is no need to project your grievances onto a stranger) you are not right in a single statement about me. A few posts above I wrote that I don’t cry or weep over cut flowers and I don’t engage in moral fag. These are exclusively my tastes that I don’t impose on anyone, but I have the right to them just like you personally

Sounds very rational. Do you actually have a wardrobe just to stay warm, or do you also have something for beauty? Well, what about your stones, aren’t they just for beauty? Flowers cannot be eaten, but they decorate the interior.
Just write next time that you don’t like flowers and that’s it.
And then there is literally zero logic in your explanation, if you look at it more closely.
We are having a dialogue with you. Everyone justified their point of view. I succeeded, but you didn’t.

[Bully Carrie]

Now this is the highest manifestation of vanilla.

So the question was about beautiful compliments, and not that’s all))

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

In general, that’s what needed to be proven, although I didn’t want to. Women like beautiful signs of attention, but men don’t care.
Reminds me of the joke about lieutenant Rzhevsky. Even two.

maybe they are just sleeping) they will write here during the day.. although they can ignore the topic of course.. there are no naked tits/pussies here, not interesting

[Wool]

I love lilies))) And for some reason men think that everyone loves roses.

Marinochka, where should I give you a gift, you have PM closed?
As for roses, I’ll assume that this is the most “masculine” flower fighting for freedom and hurting the offender.
That’s why it even knights calmly used them in their coats of arms.
In other words, when a man gives a rose, he gives a piece of himself
With all sorts of vanilla lilies and daisies this is not the case, there are others feelings)

[Tanya]

Flowers! Very good, but not very often!?
And I also like it when I hear -"I had a good time, thank you!"

[Sibiryak89]

I always show signs of attention to the ladies, and give flowers to my loved ones, I was brought up this way by the example of my relatives, I saw how pleased the ladies were, I try to make them at least a little pleasant. I don’t tolerate rudeness towards women (so that’s another topic)
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[Wool]

Real compliments, not "I fucked up" and "Oh what a pussy - show me closer", but really beautiful worthy words?

The world is becoming tougher, it’s not comme il faut to show feelings, so “yabvdul” is now really a compliment, albeit unfortunately
I’ll tell you for myself - sometimes, in order not to be “vanilla,” you have to use barbed compliments like the famous Kuravlyov’s “Look at yourself in the mirror!”

[Likaaaaa]

I better fuck again best compliment

[Tanya]

I better fuck again best compliment

n If you are strong enough.

[Rabbit]

I’ll throw in a little hetero-vanilla)
Girls, how important is it for you to hear compliments from men, read affectionate messages, receive flowers? Real compliments, not "I was blown away" and "Oh, what a pussy - show me closer," but really beautiful, worthy words?
Is this a necessary element of a relationship for you, or can you skip this move? Or just a waste of time?
Men, do you like to give women flowers, say beautiful words and do your best to make a woman feel like a queen? As part of a sexual perspective or after sex?
Or - do you think that this is unnecessary?

I tried, I gave, but she needed someone who wiped his feet on her, you are strange female creatures.

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I love all these musi-pusi, tenderness, kind words, gentle hugs, kisses, compliments, of course, flowers. I spent so much time, the best time!.. wasted on one freak from whom there was absolutely nothing, no care or affection, and for some reason I thought that this was how it should be..

If you like this, then you are a wonderful girl)

[Tanya]

I tried, I gave, but she needed someone who would wipe his feet on her, you women are strange creatures.

Did you offend?

[Rabbit]

I tried, I gave, but she needed someone who wiped his feet on her, strange you are women creatures.

Did I offend you?

No, I’m not touchy, I myself I felt pleasant emotions when I did it, but I wanted to understand the logic))

[Loco]

Kunikolai, the logic is that women adore cattle and alpha males and are given to them even for free. But with quiet, modest people, they behave completely differently

[Touch-a-Love]

Of course I like it. And, in my opinion, most women will agree with me that this is a very pleasant sign of attention. Flowers before sex can still be regarded as a banal sign of attention. And flowers after sex are already something more than just a routine compliment.

[Alice]

I really love flowers, compliments, holding hands while walking, hugs. Any tactile contact and expressions of tenderness. My husband is very affectionate and gentle.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Real compliments, not “I fucked up” and “Oh, what a pussy - show me closer,” but really beautiful, worthy words?

The world is becoming tougher, it’s not comme il faut to show feelings, so “yabvdul” is now really a compliment, albeit unfortunately
I’ll tell you for myself - sometimes, in order not to be “vanilla,” you have to use barbed compliments like the famous Kuravlyov’s “Look at yourself in the mirror!”

where does he become tough?.. and what does the world around him have to do with it when talking about relationships in a particular couple. You need to listen to each other and please each other, and not stubbornly follow your own line, which does not coincide with the views of your partner at all and this destroys the relationship.

[Ignatius]

My girls love it when people give them flowers! My wife and daughter grow them at the dacha, a lot of them! In our established swing company, it is customary to give women tender and warm compliments! Flowers are a very common attribute at our meetings. We are not only swingers, but also best friends, several married couples have appeared on the basis of swing meetings

[Bully Carrie]

that women adore rednecks and alpha males

you wrote bullshit, sorry. I don’t like rednecks or alpha males. Am I not a woman?)))))

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The husband is very affectionate and gentle.

Well, great

[Bully Carrie]

The world is getting tougher, it’s not comme il faut to show feelings,

Yes, it’s not getting tougher, on the contrary! And people have become lazier and more indifferent, not only to others, but also to themselves.

[Bully Carrie]

I give flowers to my loved ones, I was brought up this way by the example of my relatives,

That’s a healthy approach, bravo!

[AlexTDV]

Of course I like it, women need to be given signs of attention, unfortunately, due to work and lack of time, it is not always possible to do this regularly))
In general, many men do not pay attention to this aspect of relationships, on March 8, 3 roses are seedy and perfume They’ll give you a gift for a thousand, and that’s all for BD, enough for a whole year)) especially these people vomit on Valentine’s Day, you have to spend your hard-earned pennies on a gift))

[Bully Carrie]

And I also like it when I hear “I had a good time, thank you!”

That’s not enough for a compliment, no?