7-14 minutes is not so little

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 7-14 minutes is not so little

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I want ordinary conservative sex. I’m old-fashioned, I’m OLD for all these butt plugs and shibari.

I don’t want to be smothered with a pillow: “Now let’s try something, if anything, knock on the back.”
After this incident, I clearly realized that I really want to live.
Strangle it a little, it’s not forbidden, but with your hand, and not with a feather dust collection, which will later be regarded as a murder weapon if you play too much.

I don’t want people to spit in my mouth: “Now you pick it up and spit it back at me.”
Be glad that you didn’t have a gag reflex.

My leg cramps when you, having seen enough of a mess, try to prolong sexual intercourse for an incredible amount of time (7-14 minutes is normal, this is not so little).
I don’t want to lie and looking at the ceiling, thinking over the menu for the next day, dreaming that you will finally come.

I don’t need toys for stimulation, I need a partner who knows what foreplay is and knows how to find erogenous zones.

Once they even insulted me when I said that I didn’t like BDSM, as if I were a leper.
Okay, at least they didn’t spit in my mouth again.

Now my partner and I have agreed that at least the first time will be classic. How many chances are there that sexual intercourse will continue to be in the classical style?
Although, maybe once will be enough for both of us...


I don’t author, but the opinion was interesting.))
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Alexei42: 03 Jul 2023, 22:27 I’m not the author, but the opinion was interesting.))
I fully support, everything needs a limit, and "perversions" for that matter should somehow grow gradually...

about spitting in the mouth - what is that anyway?
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It seems to me that there is quite a lot of classic sex, but not many of those who practice it sit on this forum, there are more and more people here with vast imaginations, I think you and your partner will succeed, discuss what is possible, what is not and enjoy each other
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I have 1 run up to 7 minutes, and the second run is more than 14 minutes.
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Well, it’s written smartly and competently, but when I read it, at first I smiled and then I felt sorry for the woman who wrote it. It’s a pity because it looks like she got her partner unconsciously. Lying down and looking at the ceiling, thinking through the menu, waiting for him to cum? why the hell does she live with him and generally give to him? then, of course, something indigestible related to sex will come to mind. She doesn’t get satisfaction, unhappy woman *x)
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14 minutes is twice as long as 7. They don’t write like that. It would be more logical to write 7-8 or 14-15.
I also don’t like it for too long, but 7 minutes is not enough.
I wasn’t smothered with a pillow or smothered with anything at all, and I wouldn’t have allowed it, and of course no one spat on me. Although there were quite a few partners. And, the vast majority preferred vanilla sex.
If you don’t think about it, the starting post looks like a cry from the heart, but if you think about it, it looks like a woman chooses her partners on a BDSM resource. And not where real BDSM people hang out, but those who have seen enough porn. Moreover, the porn is low-grade.
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Marinka, how many minutes is normal for you 😉😎?
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Rasputnik: 05 Jul 2023, 04:43 Marinka, how many minutes for you normal 😉😎?
If we talk directly about the ideal, then 20 minutes at a time or two for 10)) But from 3 minutes to 30 are quite suitable. I don’t want to go any longer, I won’t feel anything any faster.
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Marinka, is it faster than 3 minutes?) 🤔
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Marinka,
You know, I think so that 7 minutes can be rattled off like a Singer sewing machine, and 30 minutes can be done gently like a seamstress and the effect will be completely different.
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Rasputnik: 05 Jul 2023, 04:49 Marinka, but sometimes it’s faster than 3 minutes ?) 🤔
I’ll open it for you secret, or maybe it’s not a secret for you. How long did I have sex? The average coitus was probably 5 minutes or so. Well, sometimes they started and ended almost simultaneously. I can’t even say how long it will take, but it probably won’t even last a minute, and it’s good if you recover quickly for the second round. Oh, then he finished in five seconds and Bobby died.

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igor.stepochkin: 05 Jul 2023, 04:54 Marinka ,
You know, I think that 7 minutes can be rattled off like a Singer sewing machine, but 30 minutes can be done gently like a seamstress and the effect will be completely different.
This is a matter of taste. Some people like it this way, some like it like that.
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Marinka,
I absolutely agree with you ! You just need to feel your partner when you need to shorten the time so that she doesn’t have to invent a menu, and when to cost and extend the time so that there are no misunderstandings.
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igor.stepochkin: 05 Jul 2023, 05:05 Marinka,
I absolutely agree with you! You just need to feel your partner when you need to shorten the time so that she doesn’t have to invent a menu, and when to wait and extend the time so that there are no misunderstandings.
Be patient I can’t when my partner is waiting for me or trying to adapt to me. Nothing good comes of it, neither for me nor for him. It is difficult to feel another person, perhaps even impossible. Well, knowing what you like and what you don’t like, using it is necessary and useful)))
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