Will someone who starts cheating never stop, or is there a chance that the person will come to his senses?

[The passage]

Actually the question is in the title. Will someone who starts cheating never stop, or is there a chance that the person will come to his senses? What do you think or maybe you have personal experience. Tell me.

[Lizkkka616]

Actually the question is in the title. Will someone who starts cheating never stop, or is there a chance that the person will come to his senses? What do you think or maybe you have personal experience. Tell us.

My husband cheated on me 2 times in marriage and he admitted it himself.
He lacked variety in sex and looked for it from others.
Having started discussing diversity, we moved on to practice. Now everything is without betrayal, on mutual trust and without secrets from each other.

[Izumi]

I am of the opinion that if a person cheated once, he will cheat again. people don’t change

[triangle]

I think it depends on the reasons. Some fundamentally seek diversity and will continue at all costs. Others want some kind of sex that their partner refuses or is unable to do - in this case, it all depends on the partner. Still others do it while drunk...

[King Bird]

Will stop. When age, appearance or health status make themselves felt.

[RazVratnik]

Everything can change. People are designed in such a way that they are able to change their minds) And the one who is walking can become faithful and the most faithful can go on a spree)

[Tanya]

I am of the opinion that if a person cheated once, he will cheat again. people don’t change

I completely agree. It is either given to him to be a sinner or it is not given.

[|_rarely_|]

There are simply people who are predisposed to looking for additional pleasures on the side. Both genders. They always will be like that. Another thing is that at a certain moment circumstances arise that contribute to the manifestation of the inclinations of such people. For some, such circumstances are always present, for others periodically.
When I studied by correspondence, we had women from rural areas who had a blast at the sessions like it was the last time, but when they returned home, they could not afford it. After graduation, it was the girls who forever abandoned thoughts of other people’s men. We communicated and corresponded for many more years, I know. It’s not worth talking about men and so it is clear.
I believe that if a person is predisposed, he will always take advantage of the moment, regardless of the quality of sex at home. Only great stress with fear or a state of health can stop it.

[Bully Carrie]

Agree. If a man is a walker, then only age and poor health will stop him. All these fairy tales “he walked before me, but stopped at me because of unearthly love” are just fairy tales.

[Nick1979]

If a person cheats, it means he is looking for comparisons with another partner. Most likely, one betrayal will not do. After all, such people are always looking for something new. This means they will always look for someone on the side. And it’s not even about diversity in sex. Those who cheat will never change. They compare with others, and those who compare cannot be true.
Maybe I’m wrong, of course, but this is purely my opinion.

[Nick1979]

I agree. If a man is a walker, then only age and poor health will stop him. All these fairy tales "he walked before me, but stopped at me because of unearthly love" are just fairy tales.

I agree. Sometimes even health doesn’t stop some people. And the fact that with me in his bed everything is different, but he was like that before me and everything in this regard, it’s all nonsense.
Some time will pass and something better will be found. And it doesn’t even matter that she might be better in bed. For such people, the main thing is that it will be new.

[|_rarely_|]

"he walked before me, but stopped at me because of unearthly love" - these are just fairy tales.

nOr excessive self-confidence. Or self-hypnosis.

And it doesn’t even matter that maybe she’ll be better in bed. For such people, the main thing is that she will be new.

There is an old Russian proverb: “there is always a spoonful of honey added to someone else’s wife” (you can do without the word “wife”)

[Grass]

If he cheats, it means something is missing in the family.

[Nick1979]

If he cheats, it means something is missing in the family.

This is what I think, this is the stupidest excuse. If you are a man, you should somehow try to solve problems, and not immediately run to the side.

[WazzzzzzzUp]

If you are a man

And if you are a woman?

[Serg_A]

All these fairy tales

Well, what if a man used to have an old, grumpy wife, and he married a young and beautiful one. Then why should he run to the side?

[Nick1979]

And if you are a woman?

A woman can also somehow openly talk to her husband, if, of course, she really loves him. If something is wrong, it’s better to talk about it, I think so, and not run to someone else.

[WazzzzzzzUp]

talk frankly

It’s a pity that people often shy away from solving problems in this way.

[Nick1979]

talk frankly

It’s a pity that people often shy away from solving problems in this way.

I agree. Why is almost everyone afraid of this? But running to the left is not scary for many.
But everything is very simple, because if we talk frankly, we will have to solve some problems, and together, make concessions and everything in this regard. Therefore, they often choose a simple solution, either to the left or to disperse. Just not to solve problems and avoid difficulties

[Nick1979]

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Well, what if before a man had an old, grumpy wife, and he married a young and beautiful woman. Then why should he run to the side?

No reason, until the new beautiful and young one turns into the same grumpy one.

[Bully Carrie]

Well, what if a man previously had an old, grumpy wife

Why did he marry the old one in the first place? It doesn’t happen like that! More often than not, the first one is okay, and the second one, and the mistresses are all entirely good, sweet women.

[Nick1979]

Well, what if a man used to have an old, grumpy wife

Why did he marry the old one in the first place? It doesn’t happen like that! More often than not, the first one is okay, and the second one, and the mistresses are all entirely good, sweet women.

When a man loves a woman, then everything is fine with them. And she will never be old and grumpy for him. And if she became like this, then this is the merit of her man.
By and large, everything else is excuses and justifications.

[WazzzzzzzUp]

Why did he marry the old one in the first place?

People are generally strange creatures. They don’t know what they want. They always create some kind of crap, and then they themselves cannot answer the questions of why and why.

[Bully Carrie]

And if she became like this, then this is the merit of her man.
By and large, everything else is excuses and justifications.

I think tango is danced together: if something goes wrong, it is the merit of both.

[Serg_A]

Why did he marry the old one in the first place? It doesn’t happen!

Hooligan Carrie, just for fun, go to any dating site, there you will see such old grimz, so they are all marriageable brides!

[Bully Carrie]

You will see such old grimz, so they are all marriageable brides!

Wait) You also mentioned a grumpy wife. Are they all grumpy?)))

[Nick1979]

And if she became like this, then this is the merit of her man.
By and large, everything else is excuses and justifications.

I believe that tango is danced by two people: if something went wrong, it is the merit of both.

And most importantly, if something began to appear -problems, then don’t be afraid to admit it to each other. And try to solve them together.

[Bully Carrie]

And most importantly, if some problems begin to appear, then do not be afraid to admit it to each other. And try to solve them together.

This is in an ideal world.
In fact, not everyone is ready and not everyone wants to talk. It’s just “you can’t order your heart,” just “I fell in love/I fell in love, what should I do now?”, and this person won’t want to talk about anything. This is reality.

[Nick1979]

And most importantly, if some problems begin to appear, then do not be afraid to admit it to each other. And try to solve them together.

This is in an ideal world.
In fact, not everyone is ready and not everyone wants to talk. It’s just “you can’t order your heart,” it’s just “I fell in love, what should I do now?”, and this person won’t want to talk about anything. This is reality.

I agree. Although it’s a shame that this almost never happens in real life.
And also excuses like, well, I stumbled, which doesn’t happen to anyone. And a bunch of all sorts of banality

[Bully Carrie]

banality

And relationships in general are full of banality, nothing new.

[Serg_A]

When a man loves a woman, then everything is fine with them

And if he doesn’t love her, then everything is bad with them !

[Bully Carrie]

And if he doesn’t love her, then everything is bad for them

You can’t argue! Especially if he doesn’t love her, but she continues to love him. So what should we do then?

[Serg_A]

Well, what if a man used to have an old, grumpy wife

Well, what did he do in the first place? married the old one? It doesn’t happen like that! More often than not, the first one is okay, and the second one, and the mistresses are all entirely good, sweet women.

When a man loves a woman, then everything is fine with them. And she will never be old and grumpy for him. And if she became like this, then this is the merit of her man.
By and large, everything else is excuses and justifications.

Love is a carrot !
Well, the guy married a young, beautiful bitch, and she gradually turned into an old bitch

[Nick1979]

You can’t argue! Especially if he doesn’t love her, but she continues to love him. What to do then?

This happens very often, unfortunately. And the worst thing is that the woman begins to blame herself for this. And men also try to blame their wives for everything.

[Serg_A]

And if he doesn’t love her, then everything is bad for them

You can’t argue! Especially if he doesn’t love her, but she continues to love him. What should I do then?

Do you think I know?
I can only recommend that the guy keep a human face, if he has one. And if not, then everything is definitely bad.

[Bully Carrie]

the woman begins to blame herself for this. And men also try to blame their wives for everything.

This is gaslighting and manipulation. Many live without regaining consciousness at all.

[Serg_A]

You can’t argue! Especially if he doesn’t love her, but she continues to love him. What to do then?

This happens very often, unfortunately. And the worst thing is that the woman begins to blame herself for this. And men also try to blame their wives for everything.

I personally don’t blame anyone.

[Bully Carrie]

I personally do not blame anyone.

No one doubts you: you, apparently, are knowledgeable in matters of relationships and act consciously.

[Bully Carrie]

By the way, I also try not to blame anyone. I’m simply stating a fact: only the grave can correct a walker. Well, or a decrease in potency.

[Nick1979]

I personally don’t blame anyone.

I’m not talking about you specifically. But just in general. Based on the relationships of your friends and acquaintances.

[Bully Carrie]

Based on the relationships of your friends and acquaintances.

Yes, this is, unfortunately, a popular topic. Is your husband a walker? Samadura is guilty. Is your wife walking? Samfool, you fuck badly.

[Nick1979]

Based on the relationships of your friends and acquaintances.

Yes, this is, unfortunately, a popular topic. Is your husband a walker? Samadura is guilty. Is your wife walking? Samfool, you fuck badly.

That’s what I’m talking about. And the reason for money also has a strong influence. With your loved one, heaven and in a hut, and then the phrase look at your friend’s new car. Oh, my friend’s husband gave her a new fur coat. And so on

[Bully Carrie]

beloved paradise and in a hut, and then the phrase look at your friend, there’s a new car. Oh, my friend’s husband gave her a new fur coat. And so on

How does this relate to treason? I’m not getting it right now. If you don’t have a fur coat, did you go left? Or what?)

[Nick1979]

beloved paradise in the hut, and then the phrase look at your friend’s new car. Oh, my friend’s husband gave her a new fur coat. And so on

How does this relate to treason? I’m not getting it right now. If you don’t have a fur coat, did you go left? Or what?)

And there are women who go to the left for gifts that their husband cannot provide.
I meant it

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I’m not saying that everyone is like this, but unfortunately this is not a rare occurrence

[Bully Carrie]

And there are women who go to the left for gifts that their husband cannot provide.
I meant this

I see. For me, this is such a report from another planet that I didn’t even understand. And then I realized! I even remembered a similar story from friends. But there the wife just upped and left.

[Nick1979]

And there are women who go to the left for gifts that their husband cannot provide.
I meant this

I see. For me, this is such a report from another planet that I didn’t even understand. And then I realized! I even remembered a similar story from friends. But there the wife just up and left.

You’re just different. I say not everyone is like that
But for me this is a very familiar situation.

[Bully Carrie]

And for me this is a very familiar situation.

I sincerely wish everyone not to be in such a situation. Because well, this is completely trash. I think.

[Nick1979]

And for me this is a very familiar situation.

I sincerely wish everyone not to be in such a situation. Because well, this is completely trash. It seems to me.

I agree. I wish everyone the same.
Although I will repeat your words. Ideal relationships only exist in an ideal world. Alas, our world is not like that.

[Alexssss]

Whoever starts cheating will never stop

I agree with you. Almost) Once I tried .... and it went away. Some kind of sporting interest appeared. There was always a constant the girl is on the side. So I also cheated on her.. And now I’ve been living with my 4th wife for five years... I don’t even think about cheating on her. I love her

[AlexTDV]

Yes, my friend easily got married and went left and right, we often visited girlfriends together, and then he had a child and he stopped, he said that family is more important to him than it is possible to put on the side, well done he)