​How to learn to admit your mistakes?

[Guest]

Every person has had situations in his life when he committed rash acts, said something that should not have been said or, on the contrary, did not do what was necessary do. And if one of us, having done something wrong, begins to blame himself and engage in self-flagellation, then the other denies this and attributes responsibility for the situation to someone else.

Have you had a fight with your loved one? He himself is to blame, because you came home from work irritated after a difficult day at work, and therefore he fell under the hot hand. Problems at work? The boss, who clearly doesn’t like you, is to blame. Many people see their acquaintances in the described portrait, but few admit their mistakes. Not many are willing to take responsibility for their actions. This is where the problem arises, if a person is not able to admit his mistakes, then he will not be able to work through her experience. Until he is able to learn from his mistakes, he will make them again and again.[/b]
But even if a person does not consciously admit his mistakes, deep down he knows that he did something wrong. There is another option when a person does not blame anyone for anything, but at the same time he himself does not think about how he ended up in this situation, he tries to forget about everything as quickly as possible.
I have developed several recommendations, especially for the latter type of people and those who are prone to self-flagellation.
1. To begin with, it is worth recognizing the fact that mistakes are an integral part of human life. Mistakes serve as lessons for us. Everyone learned to walk and everyone fell, and when they learned to run, they broke their knees. And accepting the fact that our personality is grown on our own mistakes, try to accept yourself as you are. It is the unevenness of our personality that makes us ourselves. Pride prevents us from accepting mistakes. We are afraid of looking weaker. But mistakes do not make us weak; on the contrary, accepting them speaks of a mature approach to solving problems.
2. Then take a closer look at specific events in your life. If you are reading this article, then most likely, in addition to casual interest, You are haunted by some event from the past that prevents you from living in peace. Perhaps this event has repeated itself a second time, and now you are trying to find a way out of this vicious circle.
Describe the situation to yourself, write it down. What exactly went wrong? If this happened a second time, what and where exactly did it happen? If you find it difficult to figure it out on your own, ask a loved one for an opinion person: mother, partner, friend. If the problem is in the relationship, discuss it with your partner.An attempt at conversation may lead to the understanding that you are not ready to take criticism constructively and in the heat of angry outbursts you make mistakes. It’s difficult, but you need to understand that you yourself are ruining your relationships.
3. And most importantly, no matter what you do, you must understand that you need to move on with your life. Didn’t you notice in time that your pet was sick? It’s sad, I probably should have been more careful. But you are not a veterinarian, and you did not know what was wrong with him. Accept and forgive yourself. This experience can save the life of another animal.
You didn’t stop your friend, he got behind the wheel drunk and got into an accident? You cannot be held responsible for the actions of adults. You could have done something. It’s a sad experience. And next time you will safely hide the keys and prevent this situation from happening again. Mistakes can be terrible, and no one wants to live with them. But when you run away from them, think about whether you would like to experience this a second time.
Today I decided to touch on this topic because few people know how to forgive themselves. Now I am addressing people who were close to me, and you, dear subscribers, will find it useful to read this: “Learn to forgive yourself for your mistakes, even if the consequences hit your life! You may regret it, but it was your decision! And you don’t need the burden of guilt either! Take mistakes as a lesson that life has given you!"

[Alyosha]

damn, I’m tired of reading a similar article on this forum, can you answer more succinctly what you’re worried about?

[Amateur]

yes, if you forget about your recommendations, and the guy performs oral sex (including anilingus) then you can always settle and atone for yourself in front of a woman (I licked my ass more than 10 times for 30 minutes each because I cheated once with her friend (but really Licked 3 friends for a bet, bet for a bet

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in a relationship, I think giving an orgasm to a lady orally is like atonement (my tongue is calloused and my mouth hurts for 3 days, and my tongue doesn’t move) I myself got a thrill when I deeply fucked my anus with my tongue by the joints (she found out that I was kissing a girl from another yard, and when I found out that the labia had not been kissed for almost a year

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I don’t give a damn about your essays, I’m tired of reading

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what is the question? state briefly

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nI read the topic again and realized that you need a vacation and a guy who agrees to everything, for 4 days.