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 My wife gave birth to her second child and does not want sex. Once every 2 weeks is not enough for me.

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My wife gave birth to her second child and does not want sex. Once every 2 weeks is not enough for me. Girls why is this? I’ve been suffering for 2 years now. I don’t want to change.
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do you think that all the girls here have 2 children???)) You yourself take a closer look at your wife and talk to her why this is happening to you.
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This is just the beginning, then once a month, once every three months, and then you won’t want it as much anymore. Find a replacement.
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marina: 03 Jun 2021, 08:57 It just started once a month, once every three months, and then you won’t want it as much anymore. Find a replacement.
Gloomy forecast!
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Do you have a schedule for when to have sex??? However, you have been patient for 2 years, and why don’t you take the initiative? Maybe she expects initiative from you, and you expect it from her. So they turn out to be waiting people.
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Guest: 07 Dec 2019, 04:44 My wife gave birth to a second child and doesn’t want sex. Once every 2 weeks is not enough for me. Girls why is this? I’ve been suffering for 2 years now. I don’t want to change.
It happens)))). This happened to me too after giving birth. Maybe he gets very tired. This is due to hormones and chronic depression. She needs to rest. Go to a beauty salon. :) . And come up with a more interesting pose. Caress her, she needs it, don’t leave her. Even if she herself gave birth, she lost sensitivity there in her pussy. Please her))). From my own experience, I can say that after giving birth it took a long time to recover. This is just fucking. Right now there are three children. And now I want him every day, almost raping him. But the youngest is already 3. We’ve been together for 10 years. Maybe she should read erotic books or watch movies, but for some reason I was not attracted to erotica, but to Korean dramas. They really awakened something scary in me. We need to find a starting point. I wish my wife good luck. You need patience. ))) maybe take her in your arms and sit her on your knees. Maybe harder by the back of the head and suck on the lips. Try, don’t wait, she gave you Angels. Act now it’s your turn to make her happy
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Or maybe she has someone who “replaces” you on other days?
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Most likely it’s hormonal. I should see a doctor. But many people deny the problem and take such a proposal with hostility.
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When did she give birth to the baby?
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Anastasia: 06 Dec 2021, 07:31 And when did she give birth to the child?
in 2019 from the Nativity of Christ!
Look at the dates sometimes! :question:
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I apologize for that
Can I ask a question?
Is it like this for you now?
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Din71: 03 Aug 2021, 02:09 Or maybe she has someone who "replaces" you on other days?
Don’t escalate the situation. Surely he had similar thoughts even without you.
Besides, perhaps this is not a problem for him, but all that is missing for happiness is just sex WITH HER.
Advising without knowing the details of the relationship is enough difficult.
He must find a solution on his own: either wait and endure, or be persistent (or at least openly discuss the current situation with his wife), or simply separate.
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I agree, if someone else fucks her, it means she didn’t want to.
Of course there was no wife, but there was a mistress, she gave birth to three, but she gave herself with joy, she probably came 3-4 times during the meeting.
I also read, a month yes, but for two years the clinic seems to have a guy, for example, try, give him something to drink, buy wine at least if after the wine it becomes more depraved, or try to strengthen the protection, pills, etc.
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You need to relax and not worry. My wife doesn’t give it, so let it be so. She needs a break. He will rest and fuck as before. Well, for now, take a mistress and fuck her. Don’t waste time, life flies by quickly.
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She realized that sex ends in pregnancy and she doesn’t want a third one. Well, screw her
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Similar situation.
It also happens once every two weeks, or even once every three weeks, although it seems like they are only 30 years old... Also two children, but even before the birth of the second child, sex had already become less frequent than before.
I naturally want it more often and in more variety.
I have been married for almost 10 years, before that we dated for several years... Previously, we had sex more often, I won’t say that it was just some kind of wow, but there were also positions variety, and there was also blowjob, although not frequent, and she was often the initiator of sex. Now you can’t ask for a blowjob, although I almost always give her cunnilingus during sex, because I see that she likes it, which means I feel good about it, but I almost never get a reciprocal response. In 90% of cases, I am also the initiator of sex, otherwise the breaks may increase even longer... *x)
I have already bought various toys and I seem to notice that sparks of desire appear in the eyes, agrees to try and it’s even clear that he’s enjoying himself, his legs are twitching, everything is wet and asks then to quickly insert the penis and finish together... but unfortunately he refuses to use it in the future, he says I don’t want it and that’s it, let’s do it without toys... and so on everything lies in the closet later.
I repeatedly tried to start a conversation, to find out what the problems were, without any rudeness. But I don’t receive anything concrete or intelligible in response. When she gets tipsy, she behaves a little more liberated; in sex, at least some proposals and “counter” body movements appear on her part. Not always, but at least I manage to get a little pleasure from at least some variety.
I naturally had all sorts of bad thoughts, that maybe someone had appeared... but I know for sure that this is not so, because all the time would be"in plain sight", and the character is not the same. And I love her very much, so I won’t allow myself to go on the side, so I have to endure and wait for my “miracle”...
Maybe all this everyday life really influenced her so much, or it’s just that she doesn’t need sex, I don’t know... Lately I’ve been trying to help her around the house after work and on weekends to relieve her of stress, but so far it hasn’t given any results.
So I’m waiting for my miracle, but for now I’m waiting, reading the forums...
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Bibirombi: 23 Jan 2023, 03:39 happens once every two weeks, or even once every three weeks, although it seems like the age is only 30 years
I think you still need to talk to her frankly. Otherwise...pipe. We only live once. *x)
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