I can’t get out of my boss’s influence, what should I do?

[sorry]

Two years ago, the boss invited me to go to Sochi. And as if it would be considered working time. Like a fool, I agreed because we had a normal working relationship. And he got me drunk and took my virginity. You could say he was raped. I was 26 then, he was 42. Well, he said that he had never had “such a tall, temperamental woman” (I am 192, and he, on the contrary, is small, stocky, but a strong guy). So, and since then I can’t refuse him. I say “no” - it has no effect on him at all. Offers tea/coffee/wine to drink after work. I always know how it will end, but for some reason I can’t refuse. He is not married, he says, I don’t want to get married, but you very much match my temperament. Although he himself is hyperactive, and I am the opposite. So it turns out, I want to refuse, but I can’t. Somehow he found an approach to me, as they say. What it is? What am I supposed to do? Well, I can’t refuse that’s all

[Sool40]

Somehow he found an approach to me, as they say. What is this?

Your fear of it is probably

[sorry]

Your fear of him is probably

What fear? I’m not afraid of him

[Bully Carrie]

It means you like it, but you just don’t want to admit it to yourself. Imagine for a second that he died. What thoughts will this evoke? "Finally" or "sorry"?

[Sool40]

What fear? I’m not afraid of him

Stockholm syndrome (or traumatic bond) is a condition in which hostages form an emotional dependence and attachment to their captors. You wrote that he raped you.

[Samara]

It seems to me that you can’t, but don’t want to refuse, and he most likely understands this very well) You must first make decisions for yourself, if not, then no, against your will this is wear and tear and a crime, and if he constantly finds an approach, then you yourself you allow it, and you want it yourself)

[AnonymousTmn]

I am also inclined to think about the “Stockholm syndrome”. Try talking to a psychologist who knows how to work with rape topics. There are many nuances in the topic. If this is the case, then they can help you get out of this relationship.

[alexandr.lvov]

If you want him to lose interest in you, then act like a money maker. Always ask for presents, expensive gifts, gold, fur coats, etc. Thus, he will become disgusted with you, as if you were a corrupt prostitute, and he will lose interest in you. But there is a risk of losing your job because of this. Therefore, think for yourself how to make him disgusted with yourself.

[Tapkin]

Two years ago, the boss invited me to go to Sochi. And as if it would be considered working time. Like a fool, I agreed because we had a normal working relationship. And he got me drunk and took my virginity. You could say he was raped. I was 26 then, he was 42. Well, he said that he had never had “such a tall, temperamental woman” (I am 192, and he, on the contrary, is small, stocky, but a strong guy). So, and since then I can’t refuse him. I say “no” - it has no effect on him at all. Offers tea/coffee/wine to drink after work. I always know how it will end, but for some reason I can’t refuse. He is not married, he says, I don’t want to get married, but you very much match my temperament. Although he himself is hyperactive, and I am the opposite. So it turns out, I want to refuse, but I can’t. Somehow he found an approach to me, as they say. What it is? What am I supposed to do? Well, I can’t refuse and that’s it

I lost my virginity at 26!))))
It seems to me... that the injured party it was he!
Did he resist strongly?
*oh, these mass-producers are an entertainer))))


I adore our people...kind, sympathetic))))

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[Danafil]

Well, in general, it’s strange to go with your boss practically on vacation and not assume that he will pester you. Although at 26 you can probably still be so naive. )

[Eustace]

I agreed like a fool

Key phrase!!! Damn... why don’t I have such employees....

[Broad]

IraKrup, Do you get an orgasm when you’re with him?

[sorry]

IraKrup, Do you get an orgasm when you’re with him?

Most likely