Disability and intimacy

[Zoric]

I am 30 years old, I am disabled, I have cerebral palsy, I move on my own, I have not had a relationship, how possible is it for me to have a relationship with a woman for relationship and sex? I understand that in this situation it is quite difficult. How do you feel about such relationships?

[excuses]

This is not my topic, but I saw it and have something to say. I know that what you are asking is quite possible. I have a friend who has been wheelchair bound since childhood. But the penis works well. While I was a boy and up to 20 years old, I jerked off to myself. And then I was in a sanatorium and met a girl there. She also has some problems with the musculoskeletal system. The very next day we decided to have sex for the first time. It was just difficult to adapt - they didn’t know how best. Then I got a book about the sexuality of disabled people and there were poses and descriptions of devices to make it more convenient (I don’t know what it’s called, but now everything is on the Internet) and I began to attend meetings of the association of disabled people. There are enough young women there who also want to, but it’s not so easy to arrange sex. I managed to get married and divorced already. Have no children. Women sometimes come to him and are not disabled (in appearance). He says that through the dating service he writes directly about himself. In addition to those who also have some characteristics, there are also those who are excited by his condition. The main thing is that everything works out and everyone likes it. So don’t be discouraged and don’t have a complex - you are one, someone else is another. But sex is a natural need for everyone and there will always be a partner who is looking for someone like you.

[Guest89]

Women, if a guy you know with a disability offered to have sex as a friend, would you agree or refuse?

[Moo]

Hello. In my experience (I have a hump, and recently I have a pinched nerve and my legs hardly move) there is a chance. But very small. I myself was a virgin until I was 32. Although not scary, many girls and women said that you were beautiful, but if it weren’t for the hump, then yes. Now married. My wife also has health problems, epilepsy and is very furious. He throws himself at people and cheats. But I endure, there’s nowhere to go.

[kirov24]

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[inna.polyakovadoroshova]

Hello. This is quite possible, where do you live?