How to behave if you find out that your child is masturbating

Unread post by **alexs3520** » 30 Sep 2020, 06:07

I don’t know how to behave if a child masturbates.

Unread post by **Guest_221** » 30 Sep 2020, 07:22

How old is he?

Unread post by **alexs3520** » 30 Sep 2020, 07:25

She is 6 years old

Sent after 2 minutes 14 seconds:
Guest_221, she is 6

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Sep 2020, 07:42

alexs3520: 30 Sep 2020, 06:07 I don’t know how to behave if a child masturbates.

I already wrote here: the cause of early masturbation can be worms, fungus and other infections; poor quality paint on clothes; elementary curiosity...
In the latter case, you need to unobtrusively distract the child from this activity...

Unread post by **Guest_221** » 30 Sep 2020, 08:24

6 years. I can’t believe it

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Sep 2020, 08:40

Guest_221: 30 Sep 2020, 08:24 6 years. I can’t believe it

And it was possible earlier...

Unread post by **alexs3520** » 30 Sep 2020, 17:14

Guest_221, it makes sense for me to invent

Unread post by **alexs3520** » 01 Oct 2020, 04:19

Child masturbation is a very pressing topic

Unread post by **Russia 2018** » 01 Oct 2020, 04:31

So what is the question exactly?

Unread post by **alexs3520** » 01 Oct 2020, 04:32

Rusya2018, yes, I’m still looking for an answer on how to react to this

Unread post by **niqk** » 01 Oct 2020, 05:08

alexs3520: 01 Oct 2020, 04:32 Rusya2018, yes, I’m still looking for the answer how to react to this

Don’t interfere! And even more so - don’t ban it!

Unread post by **alexs3520** » 01 Oct 2020, 05:10

That you just can’t see it

Sent after 1 minute 3 seconds: Maybe I should at least tell my wife

Unread post by **niqk** » 01 Oct 2020, 05:11

alexs3520: 01 Oct 2020, 05:11 That you just can’t see it

Sent after 1 minute 3 seconds:
Can I at least tell my wife

Why?

Unread post by **alexs3520** » 01 Oct 2020, 05:13

Well, yes, she will scold her

Unread post by **niqk** » 03 Oct 2020, 17:44

alexs3520: 01 Oct 2020, 05:13 Well, yes, she will scold her

Listen, write in a personal message what exactly is bothering you. There you can discuss everything frankly...

Unread post by **Int** » 07 Oct 2020, 23:34

I was 7 years old and went with my father and his girlfriend to the Black Sea. More precisely, my father stole me from my mother. In general, as usual, every year. With my father, I was no longer shy about many things, and at the same time with his girlfriend. In the morning, for example, I got up and didn’t get dressed. It was so free when I lived with my father - he allowed me to walk around naked and considered it good for health. In front of my mother, I wore at least a T-shirt, and I was obliged to sleep in it. For some reason, it’s impossible to go naked.

And for a very long time I wanted to find out why the pussy sometimes becomes big and hard (bone-on), and why it also “tickles” (cumming). Of course, I didn’t dare ask my mother.
Particularly relevant for me was to find out the topic of a boner, which I was terribly embarrassed on the beach - I didn’t want to be a black sheep among other children...
My father simply said not to be embarrassed... and something else like it’s supposed to be so by nature or something in that “spirit”.

And my father didn’t understand my question about “tickling”... Then I had to show how I do it (jerk) - in front of him and his girlfriend.
Neither her father nor she said anything bad. Well, that is, I don’t remember anything negative being expressed. It’s just that later, at least in front of adults, I never did that again.
Somehow they reacted calmly to this, so I didn’t have any concerns, moreover, I understood something that suited me at that moment. Moreover, when I finished, I was drawn to sleep. In general, I couldn’t remember it.
Yes, my father always expressed something that, it seems, you understand, but you don’t know how to repeat it verbatim.
Well, many decades have passed since then...

Unread post by **Alex** » 18 Oct 2020, 06:41

First, find a normal pediatric gynecologist and take him to him: maybe there is some kind of pathology (God forbid, of course, but...). And if not, wait a year; most often goes away with age. Now this is just self-knowledge, and not full-fledged masturbation.

Unread post by **Alexs43** » 08 Nov 2022, 02:33

They write here that I can’t believe it at 6, my daughter has been rubbing against corners and fidgeting since she was 5, it’s not worms or a fungus.

Sent after 24 minutes 55 seconds:
You know, my wife and I decided not to interfere and didn’t pay attention

Unread post by **March** » 08 Nov 2022, 03:04

Alex: 18 Oct 2020, 06:41 And if not, wait a year; most often goes away with age.

You make me laugh. Has anyone ever met a person who would say: I jerked off when I was six years old, and then it went away?

Unread post by **Alexs43** » 10 Nov 2022, 02:59

I think not to pay attention