How to behave if your child starts masturbating

Unread post by **Alex** » 29 Sep 2020, 12:18

How to behave if you notice that your child has started to masturbate

Unread post by **llama** » 29 Sep 2020, 13:24

Nothing. This is a natural process; if the child is over 12-14 years old, it means he has developed excitability and this is the norm. Do not disturb him, or talk about where and when this can be done. If you are under this age, read hundreds of articles on the Internet. Most often at an early age this is due to lack of attention and does not bring pleasure

Unread post by **lalexs** » 29 Sep 2020, 19:19

Yes, she is 7 years old and I began to often notice her doing this, and we pay a lot of attention to her.

Unread post by **Guest_714** » 29 Sep 2020, 19:42

[lamie thanks for the advice

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Sep 2020, 07:33

lalexs: 29 Sep 2020, 19:19 Yes, she is 7 years old and I began to often notice her doing this, and we pay a lot of attention to her.

Check her for worms, fungus and other infections . Check her clothes: poor quality dye can irritate the skin on her legs and stomach. Check her interests: she may just be curious about what and how. And then try to distract her from this hobby to other interests...

Unread post by **Insatiable** » 16 Feb 2021, 15:42

You can’t focus attention on this, if you start scolding, he will generally hide, or somewhere outside the house he will start jerking off, and then maybe someone will see and the consequences will be disastrous.
We had such a case, we noticed that the children touched our “toys”, began to watch them and saw that the older one showed interest.
We gave him a sex book, as if we accidentally forgot, where masturbation and technique are described in detail
Then we left lubricant, and one of mine toy.
Gradually he began to retire to his room, we began to watch on the computer, found porn and everything worked out.
A year later he started dating a girl and brings her home
We decided to put in there was a “bug” in his room and he and his wife watched their children masturbate; there had been no sex for almost two years.

Unread post by **Victor** » 15 Aug 2021, 02:08

Well, let him get confused, it’s okay. I started in kindergarten. I remember how, while everyone was sleeping, I liked to crawl halfway out of bed to look and jerk off at the teachers’ feet. There is no fetish related to feet)) maybe it’s easy to make sure that you don’t get carried away with topics like incest, zoo, etc. Otherwise, caresses with caresses and then you want to find out more and more interesting things))

Unread post by **Din71** » 15 Aug 2021, 03:15

Don’t disturb him or her. Actually, a strange question. Everyone does it, sooner or later.

Unread post by **Metatropism** » 15 Aug 2021, 03:19

You can help

Unread post by **BUGOR** » 15 Aug 2021, 05:59

it’s better not to stop him from masturbating if constantly scolding him will not lead to good things, sooner or later he or she will understand this and stop doing it

Unread post by **Penelope** » 15 Aug 2021, 10:19

BUGOR: 15 Aug 2021, 05:59 It’s better not to stop him from masturbating if constantly scolding him will not lead to good, sooner or later he or she will understand this and stop doing it

Will they stop!?
Has anyone here stopped doing this?

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 15 Aug 2021, 12:30

Penelope: 15 Aug 2021, 10:19
BUGOR: 15 Aug 2021, 05:59 It’s better not to stop him from masturbating if constantly scolding him will not lead to good, sooner or later he or she will understand this and stop doing it
Will they stop!?
Has anyone here stopped doing this?

Right now

Unread post by **georg** » 15 Aug 2021, 12:52

we need to communicate, talk, and perhaps provide him with the opportunity to get acquainted with the bodies of his parents.... JUST DON’T SCALE - it’s useless...

Unread post by **nikolj202** » 01 Sep 2021, 01:07

Alex, don’t focus on this, but better help him to know his body.

Unread post by **Laugher** » 01 Sep 2021, 02:47

Alex, Strange question! It’s the same as asking "What to do if a child sneezed?"

Unread post by **brass** » 01 Sep 2021, 05:30

Masturbation is the study of one’s body (I’m talking about childhood and adolescence)... Which of the boys didn’t spy and masturbate? Don’t scare or scold. We need to explain it correctly...I think that even in childhood, a child needs to be shown the difference between the sexes, then he will accept it simply and will not “strain” to find out the same thing at an older age. Not all parents are ready to do this... My eldest daughter grew up in strictness, but the youngest saw all these differences from the cradle and now asks only substantive questions.

Unread post by **JackTheJack** » 01 Sep 2021, 08:33

There is nothing wrong with masturbation, everyone needs it. The main thing is that he (s) does not start having fun with others at an early age

Unread post by **guffy_bear** » 23 Sep 2021, 13:18

Just doing nothing is ok

Unread post by **sergey-may** » 25 Sep 2021, 00:38

This is normal.

Unread post by **Volk88** » 25 Sep 2021, 06:38

I started at the age of 8, like, how, what and where, I figured it out myself + thanks to the book that I got in the 1st grade, so to speak, the first guide for boys and girls, what, how, where and why, and most importantly, for what.
The most important thing for parents is to knock on the door and wait for an answer that you can come in, and don’t rush into the child’s room headlong with the question - "Will you have some tea?!" (exaggerated)

Unread post by **Doctor** » 25 Sep 2021, 21:06

This is normal, how else to let off steam)

Unread post by **dbhnefk** » 19 Oct 2021, 07:08

This should not be prohibited or particularly emphasized in any way. Is it worth telling you that you need to retire behind a closed door.

Unread post by **Igor12344321** » 25 Oct 2021, 16:46

I think you should either not pay attention or talk, ask why your child is doing this, I doubt that at 6 years old it’s for fun.

Unread post by **Dreamer** » 25 Oct 2021, 22:15

I think she just wants to try what mom feels. The fastest time she saw you was during an hour of sex.

Unread post by **nikolj202** » 02 Nov 2021, 00:28

Do not focus on this so as not to develop complexes in the child. If you wish, you can help us get to know your body better.

Unread post by **tenzor** » 06 Nov 2021, 06:09

Once on the beach I saw a very small boy jerking his pussy - 2 years old, I don’t know exactly. A young woman stands nearby, apparently his mother.

Unread post by **alex503311** » 10 Dec 2021, 23:02

So mom needs to help him and show him how she does it, since the guy’s mom scolds him, and when he goes to school,
takes out a vibrator and masturbates herself and then cums.
I’m sure he’s watching porn.

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Dreamer: 25 Oct 2021, 22:15 I think she she just wants to try what mom feels. The fastest she saw you was during an hour of sex.

Or she wants her to be pleased when he caresses her.
If it were not for the prohibitions , then she came home from work, he massaged her, then helped her relieve stress.

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 11 Dec 2021, 01:05

I installed mini cameras at home, what happens when we are at work?))) I saw everything and know everything, how it was, what he does, how he masturbates... He didn’t start a conversation about masturbation, for everyday pranks he referred to neighbors’ complaints

Unread post by **niqk** » 11 Dec 2021, 06:16

Sibiryak89: 11 Dec 2021, 01:05 I installed mini-cameras at home, what happens when we are at work?))) I saw everything and know everything, how it was, what he does, how he masturbates... He didn’t start a conversation about masturbation, for everyday pranks he referred to complaints from neighbors

And how? Did you remain alive after the outrages you saw?

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 11 Dec 2021, 07:38

Remembering myself in this age, nothing new, everything is the same, only then I, and now her, without frills.... I said that love and sex are not the same thing... In this direction, without hysterics with our On the other hand, 3 years have passed since the first videos, the work on the mistakes was carried out correctly))))

Unread post by **Alexander28** » 11 Dec 2021, 09:18

In my youth I myself spied on my mother and jerked off regularly, I came on her dirty panties and nothing was wrong

Unread post by **VikaDomina** » 25 Mar 2022, 12:23

Khokhotun: 01 Sep 2021, 02:47 Alex, Strange question! It’s the same as asking "What to do if a child sneezes?"

Bad anology. If a child sneezes, he needs to be treated.

Unread post by **Piero** » 25 Mar 2022, 21:50

VikaDomina, Well, here’s another one! Pay attention to every sneeze...!

Unread post by **VikaDomina** » 25 Mar 2022, 23:21

Piero: 25 Mar 2022, 21:50 VikaDomina, Well, here’s another one! Pay attention to every sneeze...!

At least worry)

Unread post by **AviatorAlex** » 26 Mar 2022, 01:29

And if she masturbates, you need to buy the girl a small vibrator and teach her how to use it, let her enjoy it

Unread post by **tenzor** » 02 Apr 2022, 05:28

VikaDomina: 25 Mar 2022, 23:21
Piero: 25 Mar 2022, 21:50 VikaDomina, Well here’s another! Pay attention to every sneeze...!
At least get worried)

Once on the beach I saw a boy of about 2 years old jerking off his pussy, a young woman was standing nearby and not paying attention. Worry/don’t worry - it’s unlikely that you’ll be able to wean yourself off)

Unread post by **Salary** » 06 Apr 2022, 13:19

Well, 7 years is really too early... but the question is whether it’s masturbation... maybe it’s just itching, you should generally check for rashes and the like... or maybe just interest in organs and study, which will pass over time and that’s all : roll:

Unread post by **pipipisa** » 13 Apr 2022, 09:07

Mom showed me how to do it better.

Unread post by **alex503311** » 18 May 2022, 00:14

pipipisa: 13 Apr 2022, 09:07 Mom showed me how best to do it.

And then she probably undressed and came to continue

I remember asking a colleague to teach me how to kiss, of course the goal was to put her to bed.
I liked learning, and then I could kiss and hug her, she didn’t mind.
In the end, after a week or two, she asked if I wanted sex, I thought it was a check, she told me to undress,
at first it didn’t work out, got dressed, I beat her, I kissed her again, I got hard, unzipped the zipper and she sat on me and came in the end, I probably got used to it for a month, then I started to come not from my hands.
And from experience I came across that I caressed a woman normally, but calmly, and if they take a penis in their hands and masturbate,
some people are blown away by the fact that they touch their penis

Unread post by **Kitten** » 18 May 2022, 04:24

If a child starts masturbating, then everything is fine with him) we need to talk about sex, otherwise you can lose trust and good relationships. He will still learn either from you (which is better) or from others (not the best option). In general, there should be sex education in the family)

Unread post by **Maxim Sochi** » 18 May 2022, 04:32

If it doesn’t annoy you, then help him)

Unread post by **Vika1** » 13 Jun 2022, 12:09

From my experience. I started masturbating very early, probably at 7-8 years old. But it was not sexual desire, but rather self-knowledge. I didn’t experience any orgasm, but it just felt nice. Mom often noticed how I masturbated, but didn’t say anything, everything was in the order of things.
We lived in a two-room apartment, I’m a mother and my brother is 1 year and 7 months younger than me. He and I slept on a bunk bed, he was on the bottom.
We slept only naked, we were taught that way, my mother worked in a hospital and often left for a day, then her friend, a neighbor on the landing, who had a a daughter, a year younger than me (my best friend) and on days when my mother was away, she spent the night with us.
The neighbor put the three of us to bed and went home.
And here we began to learn myself. We didn’t even think about any sex, but we were interested in looking at each other, touching each other, and it was also pleasant, but nothing more.
So, your child probably just has a normal interest, try to explain to him so that he did it in private. And I probably started masturbating and experiencing orgasm when I was 12 years old.
There is nothing wrong with that, the main thing is for the child to understand that it should be a secret and don’t make a tragedy out of it.

Unread post by **xxccxx** » 13 Jun 2022, 13:07

There is no need to show by your appearance that "I know everything"

Unread post by **PrematureCum** » 19 Jun 2022, 04:45

My mother told me that you can’t have sex until you’re 18 and it’s better if the sperm comes out on its own in your sleep. But if I really can’t stand it, then I need to do everything with clean hands and no more than once a week.

Unread post by **Stanbuyan** » 19 Jun 2022, 08:00

PrematureCum: 19 Jun 2022, 04:45 My mother told me that you can’t have sex until you’re 18, and it’s better if the sperm comes out on its own in your sleep. But if I really can’t stand it, then I need to do everything with clean hands and no more than once a week.

Mom is probably a doctor?

Unread post by **sevener** » 19 Jun 2022, 08:06

PrematureCum: 19 Jun 2022, 04:45 My mother told me that you can’t have sex until you’re 18, and it’s better if the sperm comes out on its own in your sleep. But if I really can’t stand it, then I need to do everything with clean hands and no more than once a week.

That’s quite a good recommendation, although it’s not worth saying so unequivocally, which is often impossible, organisms are still individual

Unread post by **Kos** » 19 Jun 2022, 11:34

My eldest daughter, when she started washing herself at the age of 6-7, discovered that if you pour water from the shower onto her pussy, it becomes pleasant, she went on standing like that for 20 minutes until you could tell what she was doing. By the age of 9 she had calmed down, although now sometimes you can still hear water pouring intermittently with one key, which means sometimes she does it herself. She said that it was just a pleasant feeling and that’s all, she doesn’t even think about anything like that. So let’s wait and see, talk to her some more.

19 Jun 2022, 11:38

She can explain or her classmates will teach her

Unread post by **Glory** » 21 Sep 2022, 05:18

Wait, when he finishes, tell me that you don’t have to do this in front of you.

Unread post by **SSK** » 21 Sep 2022, 06:53

Alex: 29 Sep 2020, 12:18 How to behave if you notice that a child has started to masturbate

Help, suggest, show by example :shamp: