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We have been living with my husband for almost 5 years. In terms of sex, at first everything was ok, but then I started cumming faster and faster! And yesterday I finished it in 7 minutes :voprosy: I didn’t have time myself. So I’m happy with everything, the size, etc., but I want it longer...
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Yes, indeed, but maybe you should try it in two passes, so to speak? :smile001:
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It’s just that the husband will learn to restrain himself, this CAN be learned.... Take short breaks.... For several years, in addition to couples, we also met in the FFM format with ladies. This is really difficult for a man, because... it is necessary to satisfy TWO women completely and not like a rabbit, but for a long time... Nothing - it worked out and the wife and lady were VERY happy... It was due to the micro-slowdowns... and plus it also inserted into a lot of caresses. The sex itself lasted almost an hour...
If he has the desire, he will master it... Otherwise, the pace of the rabbit will destroy your intimate life!
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georg: 08 Sep 2021, 13:00 it’s just that the husband will learn to restrain himself, this CAN be learned.... Take short breaks.... For several years, in addition to couples, we also met in the FFM format with ladies. This is really difficult for a man, because... it is necessary to satisfy TWO women completely and not like a rabbit, but for a long time... Nothing - it worked out and the wife and lady were VERY happy... It was due to the micro-slowdowns... and plus it also inserted into a lot of caresses. The sex itself lasted almost an hour...
If he has a desire, he will master it... Otherwise, the pace of a rabbit will destroy your intimate life!
Deep!
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Evgenii-SPb: 08 Sep 2021, 13:02Deep!
life experience in sex and swing, but you can’t drink it away! :wink:
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georg: 08 Sep 2021, 13:07
Evgenii-SPb: 08 Sep 2021, 13:02Deep!
life experience in sex and swing, but you can’t drink it away! :wink:
That’s for sure! :wink:
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With age, the problem of a certain rate of fire appeared. The following really helps me: 20 minutes before the start, the head of the penis is generously treated with Lidocaine spray. At the beginning it will tingle a little, after 15 minutes it goes away and the head of the penis needs to be washed, maybe with soap, maybe without. The head partially loses sensitivity, which prolongs the act.
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It is necessary to rinse the head after 15 minutes if the girl is going to suck.
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Walpurgis Night: 13 Sep 2021, 03:12 With age, a problem with a certain rate of fire appeared. The following really helps me: 20 minutes before the start, the head of the penis is generously treated with Lidocaine spray. At the beginning it will tingle a little, after 15 minutes it goes away and the head of the penis needs to be washed, maybe with soap, maybe without. The head partially loses sensitivity, which prolongs the act.
It’s true that sometimes you wonder what people think when they do something!
Is it really so difficult to think that if your penis loses sensitivity, then probably you will also lose sensitivity where they stick this penis!
That is, your girl’s vagina will lose sensitivity and she will generally stop feeling that she has something in her pussy at all. And if he does feel it, it will be very, very conditional.
This is one aspect...

There is a second one...
If the member loses sensitivity, then it will no longer be fueled by the excitement that he should receive while entering the pussy and during the process. This is also the theme of a spacious vagina in which the dick dangles like a pencil in a glass.
And you think this is just an aesthetic problem!? No!
When the dick dangles THERE, after a short time both the man and the woman lose contact with each other and he begins to fall, and she loses arousal and at first she becomes dry. And then, because of this, the continuation of sexual intercourse generally becomes difficult.

And you mean, in essence, you are proposing this situation even with normal genitals, where the pussy is tight, and a normal-sized dick should be artificially brought closer to have both stopped feeling each other? So what?

Next...
Condoms with a so-called anesthetic are available for sale. That is, as if with novocaine. You put it on your penis. And there is novocaine not outside but inside the condom. And it seems like nothing should get into the vagina. And on the one hand, a man shouldn’t feel anything, and nothing should get into his pussy. But it still hits. And she still begins to feel a kind of freezing in her pussy. It’s weak, barely, but this is enough for the natural mechanism for a woman to achieve orgasm to stop working.

I wouldn’t experiment with all these things at all. What is for men and what is for women. Orgasm - figuratively speaking, these are magical bubbles whose presence should be appreciated and protected. Because if something in this mechanism breaks, then you will need to pee on your dick. Do you need it!?

Well, as for women, they always and at all times liked it when someone threw them a few sticks in the old-fashioned way. Ideally, they especially like it when a man goes for the second stick without stopping. Women really appreciate such men and they like it. But it is so hard. But to throw a stick, rest a little and then go for a second pass - this is quite realistic for any man. You just have to not be lazy and everything will work out.

Well, a woman should not scold a man and not be angry with him because he has finished and everything has fallen, but treats this with understanding and simply helps him raise his penis. You don’t need a lot of intelligence here. Men are designed in such a way that porn works flawlessly on them. That is, it is enough for a man to show his pussy close, let him touch it, jerk it off in front of him. Maybe even masturbate until orgasm. This will turn anyone on. And the man will get an erection. And it works even better than a blowjob.

And lastly...
The topic of circumcision or the bare head of the penis. There are men who are circumcised. That is, the head of their penis, so to speak, in the stowed position is not covered by skin and is constantly naked. This can also happen to men who are not circumcised but who for some reason walk around with a permanently flaky head.

Well, so...
Because the head is naked, it constantly rubs against panties or pants. And at first it’s very annoying and you’re constantly in some kind of half-cocked state. But after some time, the head loses its usual sensitivity and becomes not so sensitive. This is both good and bad.
I read something medical about this topic somewhere. So to speak, research. So there is a version that circumcision among Muslims was done because a man has several wives, they need to be fucked and fucked well. And for this you need to have potential. And that is precisely why circumcision was done: since childhood, a man had a penis without a foreskin and by the beginning of sexual life it had already lost its usual hypersensitivity. And they say because of this he could fuck for a long time and not cum for a long time.

But in this same study there was such a moment that this was both good and bad. Because while you are young, while you have totestosterone rushing out of your ears, you stand like a horse in any situation. You just thought about pussy and you already have a boner! And in such a situation, when you have, in any case, insensitivity of the head of your penis, it makes it possible not to cum for a long time.

But later, by forty or fifty, this can play a cruel joke on you. At this age, totestosterone levels are no longer the same. And the hormones that exist are no longer enough for the penis to get an erection. And there are not as many of them as at 18 or 25. And then additional recharge is already needed for the riser. Well, there’s porn to watch, they showed you a live pussy. Well, when you inserted it, there was already full contact. And as a result, the boner from all this is good and it’s enough for the woman under you to safely reach her orgasm.

And now, against this background, imagine that a forty or fifty-year-old man’s penis is either circumcised or he walks around with his head bare. First, I’ll tell you a secret - he doesn’t really enjoy a blowjob. This is the first time.
Secondly, he is more excited not by contact with the vagina, but by what he sees. That is, what turns him on more is not what he feels when he enters. Because he feels almost nothing with his penis head. And if he does feel it, it’s only how the shaft of his penis clasps the vagina. If it grabs. :-)

And he is more affected by the reaction to his partner’s sex. If she’s twirling her ass all over, waving and screaming like she’s been cut, then this will really turn on a circumcised man and, as a result, he’ll have a better standing position. And it’s even possible that he can cum ahead of time.
But if a woman snores quietly and patiently performs her marital duty, then a circumcised older man may even fall simply due to loss of arousal.
He simply doesn’t feel anything, but there are no additional pathogens - let’s say it’s dark and he doesn’t see anything. And he can feel it. But in that place he feels nothing.

This is how things are. What I mean is that it’s better not to interfere with nature. And if it is this foreskin, then it means it’s necessary. And you don’t need to make your own adjustments to this whole thing. Otherwise you won’t be happy yourself.
And women who are accustomed to being fucked by people who receive them and more also need to learn to appreciate it and not forget that this is not normal. But it’s normal when it’s five to seven minutes.

I read somewhere the confession of one woman. She and her husband divorced and she was faced with the fact that she needed to somehow build her regular sex life with someone. And she was faced with the fact that it turns out that her husband is very rare. They lived together for about fifteen years and all this time he fucked her for half an hour, no less. And here she doesn’t sleep with any guy, it’s not this and that. That is, five to seven minutes and then take a shower!
And she’s like that - what’s this all about! And what to do with all this!
Like it turns out I didn’t appreciate what I had. And it turns out that my husband is such a rarity in terms of sex.
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This is a treatise!)) Your arguments are half-finger-ceiling, but I personally use Lidocaine and everything is fine, the sensitivity of the pussy is not lost at all, the sensitivity of the head is dulled, but does not disappear completely. I actually practice this, but your post contains only fantasies and hypotheses.
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georg,
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Take me to a urologist to have my prostate checked
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Alcohol usually slows down
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Lowpoly,
on sites and searched ....
Only they didn’t rush at the first person they met who offered to use his penis, but took a long time to take it away.... It is necessary that the worldview on this sinful life coincide with ours.... And stupid fuck - for us not interesting at all!
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Ogonyok22: 08 Sep 2021, 10:53 We have been living with my husband for almost 5 years. In terms of sex, at first everything was ok, but then I started cumming faster and faster! And yesterday I finished it in 7 minutes :voprosy: I didn’t have time myself. So I’m happy with everything, the size, etc., but I want it longer...
What about the second time? :voprosy:
The second time is enough for you and for him too :angel:
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Vasyanitsa: 13 Sep 2021, 05:08
Walpurgis Night: 13 Sep 2021, 03:12 With age, a problem with a certain rate of fire appeared. The following really helps me: 20 minutes before the start, the head of the penis is generously treated with Lidocaine spray. At the beginning it will tingle a little, after 15 minutes it goes away and the head of the penis needs to be washed, maybe with soap, maybe without. The head partially loses sensitivity, which prolongs the act.
It’s true that sometimes you wonder what people think when they do something!
Is it really so difficult to think that if your penis loses sensitivity, then probably you will also lose sensitivity where they stick this penis!
That is, your girl’s vagina will lose sensitivity and she will generally stop feeling that she has something in her pussy at all. And if he does feel it, it will be very, very conditional.
This is one aspect...

There is a second one...
If the member loses sensitivity, then it will no longer be fueled by the excitement that he should receive while entering the pussy and during the process. This is also the theme of a spacious vagina in which the dick dangles like a pencil in a glass.
And you think this is just an aesthetic problem!? No!
When the dick dangles THERE, after a short time both the man and the woman lose contact with each other and he begins to fall, and she loses arousal and at first she becomes dry. And then, because of this, the continuation of sexual intercourse generally becomes difficult.

And you mean, in essence, you are proposing this situation even with normal genitals, where the pussy is tight, and a normal-sized dick should be artificially brought closer to have both stopped feeling each other? So what?

Next...
Condoms with a so-called anesthetic are available for sale. That is, as if with novocaine. You put it on your penis. And there is novocaine not outside but inside the condom. And it seems like nothing should get into the vagina. And on the one hand, a man shouldn’t feel anything, and nothing should get into his pussy. But it still hits. And she still begins to feel a kind of freezing in her pussy. It’s weak, barely, but this is enough for the natural mechanism for a woman to achieve orgasm to stop working.

I wouldn’t experiment with all these things at all. What is for men and what is for women. Orgasm - figuratively speaking, these are magical bubbles whose presence should be appreciated and protected. Because if something in this mechanism breaks, then you will need to pee on your dick. Do you need it!?

Well, as for women, they always and at all times liked it when someone threw them a few sticks in the old-fashioned way. Ideally, they especially like it when a man goes for the second stick without stopping. Women really appreciate such men and they like it. But it is so hard. But to throw a stick, rest a little and then go for a second pass - this is quite realistic for any man. You just have to not be lazy and everything will work out.

Well, a woman should not scold a man and not be angry with him because he has finished and everything has fallen, but treats this with understanding and simply helps him raise his penis. You don’t need a lot of intelligence here. Men are designed in such a way that porn works flawlessly on them. That is, it is enough for a man to show his pussy close, let him touch it, jerk it off in front of him. Maybe even masturbate until orgasm. This will turn anyone on. And the man will get an erection. And it works even better than a blowjob.

And lastly...
The topic of circumcision or the bare head of the penis. There are men who are circumcised. That is, the head of their penis, so to speak, in the stowed position is not covered by skin and is constantly naked. This can also happen to men who are not circumcised but who for some reason walk around with a permanently flaky head.

Well, so...
Because the head is naked, it constantly rubs against panties or pants. And at first it’s very annoying and you’re constantly in some kind of half-cocked state. But after some time, the head loses its usual sensitivity and becomes not so sensitive. This is both good and bad.
I read something medical about this topic somewhere. So to speak, research. So there is a version that circumcision among Muslims was done because a man has several wives, they need to be fucked and fucked well. And for this you need to have potential. And that is precisely why circumcision was done: since childhood, a man had a penis without a foreskin and by the beginning of sexual life it had already lost its usual hypersensitivity. And they say because of this he could fuck for a long time and not cum for a long time.

But in this same study there was such a moment that this was both good and bad. Because while you are young, while you have totestosterone rushing out of your ears, you stand like a horse in any situation. You just thought about pussy and you already have a boner! And in such a situation, when you have, in any case, insensitivity of the head of your penis, it makes it possible not to cum for a long time.

But later, by forty or fifty, this can play a cruel joke on you. At this age, totestosterone levels are no longer the same. And the hormones that exist are no longer enough for the penis to get an erection. And there are not as many of them as at 18 or 25. And then additional recharge is already needed for the riser. Well, there’s porn to watch, they showed you a live pussy. Well, when you inserted it, there was already full contact. And as a result, the boner from all this is good and it’s enough for the woman under you to safely reach her orgasm.

And now, against this background, imagine that a forty or fifty-year-old man’s penis is either circumcised or he walks around with his head bare. First, I’ll tell you a secret - he doesn’t really enjoy a blowjob. This is the first time.
Secondly, he is more excited not by contact with the vagina, but by what he sees. That is, what turns him on more is not what he feels when he enters. Because he feels almost nothing with his penis head. And if he does feel it, it’s only how the shaft of his penis clasps the vagina. If it grabs. :-)

And he is more affected by the reaction to his partner’s sex. If she’s twirling her ass all over, waving and screaming like she’s been cut, then this will really turn on a circumcised man and, as a result, he’ll have a better standing position. And it’s even possible that he can cum ahead of time.
But if a woman snores quietly and patiently performs her marital duty, then a circumcised older man may even fall simply due to loss of arousal.
He simply doesn’t feel anything, but there are no additional pathogens - let’s say it’s dark and he doesn’t see anything. And he can feel it. But in that place he feels nothing.

This is how things are. What I mean is that it’s better not to interfere with nature. And if it is this foreskin, then it means it’s necessary. And you don’t need to make your own adjustments to this whole thing. Otherwise you won’t be happy yourself.
And women who are accustomed to being fucked by people who receive them and more also need to learn to appreciate it and not forget that this is not normal. But it’s normal when it’s five to seven minutes.

I read somewhere the confession of one woman. She and her husband divorced and she was faced with the fact that she needed to somehow build her regular sex life with someone. And she was faced with the fact that it turns out that her husband is very rare. They lived together for about fifteen years and all this time he fucked her for half an hour, no less. And here she doesn’t sleep with any guy, it’s not this and that. That is, five to seven minutes and then take a shower!
And she’s like that - what’s this all about! And what to do with all this!
Like it turns out I didn’t appreciate what I had. And it turns out my husband is such a rarity in terms of sex.
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Foreplay is necessary
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tanwan: 03 Oct 2021, 04:30 Prelude is necessary
Well, of course! Once you warm it up, that’s the answer you’ll get... :angel:
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Vasyanitsa: 13 Sep 2021, 05:08 There are condoms on sale with a so-called anesthetic. That is, as if with novocaine. You put it on your penis. And there is novocaine not outside but inside the condom. And it seems like nothing should get into the vagina. And on the one hand, a man shouldn’t feel anything, and nothing should get into his pussy. But it still hits. And she still begins to feel a kind of freezing in her pussy. So weakly, barely, but this is enough for the natural mechanism of a woman to achieve orgasm to stop working
I tried these condoms with Novacoin, the girl then sucked for 15 minutes to get hard again , all this is crap. You just need to throw more than one stick, but the first 3-4 are training ones :yes: :yes:
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Walpurgis Night: 13 Sep 2021, 03:12 With age, a problem with a certain rate of fire appeared. The following really helps me: 20 minutes before the start, the head of the penis is generously treated with Lidocaine spray. At the beginning it will tingle a little, after 15 minutes it goes away and the head of the penis needs to be washed, maybe with soap, maybe without. The head partially loses sensitivity, which prolongs the act.
And after half a year of such manipulations, the piper will not fall off???
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It’s simple. I took Primaxetine and everything is fine! Everyone will be happy!
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:unknown: it seems to me that the guy will just shoot back quickly and the problem may be that you don’t want to have sex with love, and so they’ll shoot back quickly and that’s it
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And why, then, have sex at all? If the goal is to shoot, then quickly jerk off and go to sleep...
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