Is it normal to marry your best friend's wife 4 months after his death?

[Stolyarov]

When my father crashed on a motorcycle, his best friend Uncle Yura promised that he would take care of our family. And 4 months after his father’s death, he married his mother. They know each other from mom and dad’s wedding, where Yura was a witness. Mom talked with his wife Nina, but they divorced ten years ago. And all this time he never married. And after the death of his father, he married his mother, and now they live with their grandmother in a one-room apartment, and our grandmother lives in a 4-room apartment. Although my mother said at the wedding that they would live with us.
It turns out he betrayed my father too

[sevener]

Complete nonsense. What an influx of 12 year old schoolchildren on the forum. Firstly, 4 months have passed and mom started living with another man, this is normal, life goes on, she shouldn’t grieve forever and your departed father would want her to be happy. Secondly, if you are wondering why they decided to live separately, ask them, well, perhaps they simply want sex and do not want to traumatize their children. If you don’t have enough attention from your mother, then talk to her about it. Thirdly, I don’t know what kind of relationship your mother had with your father, but often people live together for the sake of their children and it’s not a fact that the parents maintained strong love until the very end, so it’s also pointless to blame your mother. The most important thing for children is that their psyche is properly formed, so that they do not grow up with a feeling of guilt and resentment towards anyone, otherwise in their adult lives they will repeat the story of their parents.

[vlad.galtskiy]

The most important thing for children is that their psyche is properly formed

For a child, psychological trauma! Because he lost his father! And 4 months later, the mother got married and left the child with the grandmother, and she started a new life separately! The child had a family, a mother and a father! And now, after a while, he found himself with his grandmother, his father died, and his mother left and started a new life. I feel sorry for the child!

[Stolyarov]

She said that they would live with us. Because we have 4 rooms. But for now Uncle Yura wants to live there, with his grandmother

[Evgeniy-Spb]

Stolyarov, no one betrayed anyone. Life goes on. And the forum members wrote sensibly above.

[I’m leaving]

No one betrayed anyone, as they wrote above, life goes on and a mother should not bury herself. If he had taken her away while her husband was alive, then we can say yes, and it’s not always so smooth. It’s better to run away before it’s too late than to live together but it’s bad .and they went to live separately so as not to traumatize you, so that you would get used to the idea that your mother has someone else besides you, so that you understand that you have a stepfather. You probably showed your fi, don’t be selfish

[Andrey Petrov]

Here they did the only thing that went against the sanctimonious philistine rules: THEY CAN’T STAND OUT THE WIDOW’S YEAR! And no one is forcing you to call Uncle Yura dad! Of course, it’s still too early for you, but here we have a student guy who was offended that six months later his mother brought herself a young lover only 6 years older than her son and planned a terrible revenge: he crashed into a board, but seduced the rather youthful mother of his young stepfather and goes fuck with her in every possible way advertising it. While the mistress is trying to hide this connection, everyone already knows, including the guy’s mother and stepfather. That’s what it was started for!

[Caligula]

That’s why it was started!

Fuck-dig Santa Barbara