Why did he treat me like a father before, but now he has some kind of sexual rage?

Unread post by **IrishLH** » 15 Feb 2022, 21:29

I have been living with my man for three years now. He is my work colleague, was previously married, and is 20 years older than me. He treated me like a little girl, in a fatherly way, helped me with everything, gave me compliments, and even went to the water park. And now some kind of rage is awakening in him. Sometimes it hurts me a lot. Now he’s signed up for the pool with me on weekends. We swim there quietly, calmly, with other people, and immediately after the pool, when we come home, this rage awakens in him again. That is, before (before the relationship) he treated me like a child, but now he’s just some kind of sexual aggressor. Why is he changing so much for the bad?

Unread post by **Sfincs** » 15 Feb 2022, 22:33

Irishka, dear, I’m sorry, but maybe you’re not giving him enough? If he is 40+, this does not mean that he needs little. From lack of sex, men often become too aggressive.

Unread post by **IrishLH** » 15 Feb 2022, 22:36

Yes, it seems the same. He is sexually aggressive, not in general. And it feels like he wants more and more

Unread post by **Sfincs** » 15 Feb 2022, 22:54

IrishkaLH: 15 Feb 2022, 22:36 It seems the same. He is sexually aggressive, not in general. And it feels like he wants more and more

Well, there are only two options:
1. Give him more and more... And not just give, but literally give in with the demand to fuck him like a "dirty bitch" (I hope you understand what I mean)...
2. Exalted sex. An MFM/FFM experiment... Or, at worst, a mistress for him, who would pull the last drops of sperm out of him and send him back to you, sweet and kind...

Unread post by **Rudi** » 15 Feb 2022, 23:04

Sfincs: 15 Feb 2022, 22:54 Or, at worst, a mistress for him, who would pull the last drops of sperm out of him and send him back to you, nice and kind...

why someone must do her job, she herself must be his wife and mistress. otherwise, after a while he will leave for someone else.

Unread post by **IrishLH** » 15 Feb 2022, 23:06

Sfincs: 15 Feb 2022, 22:54 Well, there are only two options:
1. Give him more and more... And not just give, but literally give in with the demand to fuck him like a "dirty bitch" (I hope you understand what I mean)...

He is already very tough with me. Now he’s asking for more in the ass. But I disagree.

Unread post by **Sfincs** » 15 Feb 2022, 23:13

Rudi: 15 Feb 2022, 23:04 why should someone do her job, she herself should be his wife and mistress. otherwise, after a while he will leave for another.

IrishkaLH: 15 Feb 2022, 23:06 He is already very tough with me. Now he’s asking for more in the ass. But I don’t agree.

Well, as an option, a mistress gives him only in the ass. But again, if he gets hooked exclusively on anal, he will definitely go to his mistress.

Unread post by **NitroJ** » 28 Mar 2022, 09:21

Previously, he tried to woo you, tried to show your best sides, but after the goal has been achieved, there is no need to hypocritically suck up and go to water parks, classic, it will only get worse.

Unread post by **niqk** » 28 Mar 2022, 09:35

Yes, most likely the man thinks that you like sex harder and more varied.

Unread post by **Vitas80_80_80** » 17 Jun 2022, 08:10

Can I ask the author? What prompted you to live with a much older man? There are young people

Unread post by **IrishLH** » 17 Jun 2022, 13:18

Vitas80_80_80: 17 Jun 2022, 08:10 What prompted you to live with a much older man? There are young people

Basically, he raped me. That is, the first time was against my will

Unread post by **Kos** » 17 Jun 2022, 14:48

The answer is simple, he used to have a wife and if he had any desire, he took it out on his wife... Even if he didn’t like her. And now here is a young girl who excites him... One time he took you by force. Because the sperm put a lot of pressure on the brain. And then you agreed to continue sleeping with him. In any male brain it will work out that you are not against a dominant male. Now he dominates in bed, realizing his fantasies with you

Unread post by **Anonym99** » 17 Jun 2022, 19:30

You don’t want to sleep with him because you don’t want to, or because you’re embarrassed by the idea that he used to treat you differently, but now you’re basically ready?