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 Where can a woman with a child find a husband or a man?

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My name is Julia. I’m 38. Mother of two children. There is a real lack of male warmth, communication with men, etc. It doesn’t work on dating sites. It seems like I’m not ugly, but I can’t find a man (advise something
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Gorgeous... I don’t even know... the photo is super... what about everything else...?
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Chic? Thank you))
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Good luck in your search!
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Mamina1984, try not to look for any mistakes in yourself. Men now don’t want serious relationships. They don’t want responsibility. And from my experience I will say that when living together they don’t want to do anything basic. So to speak, attach the shelf to the wall.
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And from my experience, all married men spin like squirrels in a wheel, and if they haven’t nailed a shelf at home, it’s because they went to the market to buy fruit or for the child to get a bicycle after work.

I don’t know how to look at your photos, to be honest, I don’t see them.
But usually by 38 or everyone they sort out who at least somehow looks like a man in the generally accepted concept, and what remains are not the best specimens (IMHO) or those who realized that it was not theirs.
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Amazing woman, it’s strange that men don’t run after you in droves
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And, a woman with a child is not a woman 🤔?
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Dynamicsax: 24 Feb 2022, 12:13 And from my experience, all married men spin like squirrels in a wheel, and if they haven’t nailed a shelf at home, it’s because they went to the market to buy fruit or for the child to get a bicycle after work.

I don’t know how to look at your photos, to be honest, I don’t see them.
But usually by 38 or everyone they sort out who at least somehow looks like a man in the generally accepted concept, and what remains are not the best specimens (IMHO) or those who realized that it was not theirs.
There are only a few of them. There are very few two-parent families. And there are a lot of single mothers. And their husbands don’t really want to spin around like squirrels in a wheel. If they wanted to, they wouldn’t get divorced
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It’s hard to believe that anyone would actually look for a partner on such a site. There are popular dating apps. As for children, there are plenty of men who are not against accepting and raising strangers as their own, but my experience of communicating with women who had children was not the most successful, all the time, energy and attention of the woman was spent on her children and this is no longer a relationship it turns out.
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If there were a lot of men ready for a relationship with a girl who has children, then there would be no single mothers. And I agree that a woman pays more attention to her children. Because there is no trust in men in principle. It is difficult to answer such a question in one sentence. A lot of nuances
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Yes, the question is not about age, and not about children! The question is the character of the man and woman, their habits, etc. My husband, approaching 40, has become completely lazy, although he earns normal money, does not want control and does not control me. I think at this age you need to behave simply, without the problems of 18-year-old girls, such as jealousy. And of course, sex plays an important role - you need to understand what who loves, who needs and how much of what)
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The fact of the matter is that there are a lot of nuances in relationships. There is no single approach
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My current wife and I also found ourselves online. On "Mamba" ...yes, yes, exactly there)) However, such services do not filter people in any way. But a format like this attracts people of a certain type... And I see some advantage in the fact that a girl is looking for a companion here. I have twice as many children and grandchildren, and this is real happiness)) So, this is not what men are afraid of... A man feels how he is accepted and what they want from him. Love your loved ones selflessly, and with all your heart... And everything will be wonderful))
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Under the phrase "a man feels how he is accepted" there is a reproach that women are to blame. I believe that responsibility in a family should be shared equally by everyone (this is a minimum). But since men want to be the main ones in the family, the responsibility should be more on men. It’s my opinion.
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Julia, the problem is not you. The problem is to become for your children not an uncle who fucks their mother, but a loved one. Children are very jealous and not everyone succeeds in getting along with their children.
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Mamina1984, there are millions of men on dating sites, who other people’s children don’t bother you. The problem is that not all of them are princes - millionaires with knee-length boobs, as all women dream
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sevener: 24 Feb 2022, 22:53 It’s hard to believe that on such a site someone will actually look for a partner.
he who searches always finds. And the girl didn’t just come here to search. But also ask for advice from men and experienced ladies with a similar situation.

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Mamina1984: 24 Feb 2022, 09:09 It seems like I’m not ugly, but I can’t find a man (advise something
I wonder how you are doing in your search. .? Has your personal life improved? By the age of 40, it seems to me that it is easier to find a partner. People who are mature and adequate, understand how to get used to a partner. In sex, they know for themselves what they want and what they can do, and children who are more mature in sexual terms are not a hindrance at all. There is no need to drag the guy to the registry office on the first date. Dating, communication, sex, and then you will see.
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Eugene1eva: 30 May 2022, 03:57 By the age of 40, it seems to me, on the contrary, that it is easier to find a partner. People are mature and adequate, they understand how to get used to a partner.
well, it’s far from a fact!
what at 20, what at 30, what at 50 in our country, women who want to build relationships, they cannot formulate what kind of man they need!
The author of the topic is apparently one of these people, or maybe she has high demands.
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That’s for sure! Often people have such contradictory requirements for a partner that it is simply impossible to actually find anything similar! And there are so many princes in white Mercedes in the world! And even more so - single ones!
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Center: 30 May 2022, 11:47 that at 20, that at 30, that at 50 years old in our country women
I don’t know... I don’t agree. It seems to me that with age people become more experienced and wiser. And in sex, a woman only reveals herself in sex. We are not talking about special cases with a bullet in the head.
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You just need to continue to search and communicate. It is important to find a person with similar desires and views. Often decent girls remain lonely, because not all men only need their decency or beauty - many people care about sexual preferences, many dream of being decent for everyone, but a whore in intimate life. It is important that you also like who has any deviations.
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Mamina1984, you will find here will fuck your children😆 do you need it?
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Damn, why is it so complicated???
Firstly, you need to decide why you need a relationship with a man, and be sincerely honest in your answer
And secondly, find an explanation for why a man needs all this?

If it turns out that there are too many wishes and expectations, either give up, considering that there are no worthy ones, or return to the reality that:
Firstly, all people are already adults and should be mature and independent, and secondly - if there is no first point - first he becomes like this, then look for a man))

Let’s be honest, there are a lot of free men, but few people are interested in them, and few are interesting , but they need to correspond😉&#129303 ;

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MISTER_COCK: 30 Jun 2022, 10:23 you will find someone here who will fuck your children, you need it
Maybe she is not against games, as long as the man is at home. And you can always send someone to the zone just by writing a statement.
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vikylechka75, and how not to get divorced if you fuck on the right to the left?! It’s so strange, there are no words, everyone here writes that she’s married and gives blowjobs to everyone, nothing like that))) but I would break such a wife’s neck like a goosebump and throw her the fuck out in the trash
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Children for most men are a serious disadvantage.
But if you offer to create an incest family, then this turns into a big plus. There are a lot of people willing
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I think it depends on your area of ​​interest. It is worth looking among people with similar interests, thematic courses, clubs, etc. don’t just focus on finding a husband on the Internet.
Well, having two children, of course, implies a greater degree of responsibility for a man, maybe that’s why they merge. But if something really catches your attention in a woman, it’s not really a hindrance.
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Here is my story, maybe it will be useful. Divorced at 45. During the process of divorce, I began to look for a partner. Well, I knew exactly what type of woman I was looking for. The site had a good filter. I have no children and am ready to have children in the future. Probably by the age of 45 you have already acquired something, you need to support the child from your first marriage. And why give "what was acquired by back-breaking labor" to other people’s children? It’s probably better to leave everything to your own. In my second marriage I have two children. I live in another country, in my wife’s homeland, where it’s summer all year round. I do not work. My wife opened her own business. I help whenever possible. Otherwise, he would have hunched his shoulders at other people’s children. Is it necessary?
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I’ll say it briefly. Go to YouTube and type "relationships with rsp" in the search. There will be many videos of fairly well-known family psychologists: Verdict, Petrov, Afonshin, Misha Bors and others. I think after watching and reading the comments under the video, everything will become clear.
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Mamina1984: 24 Feb 2022, 09:09advise
Not exactly here!
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vikylechka75: 25 Feb 2022, 01:55 I agree that a woman pays more attention to her children. Because there is no trust in men in principle.
Why does such a woman need a relationship? And most importantly: why would a man build a relationship with such a woman? Is it a special kind of masochism: trying to build something with a person in an atmosphere of mistrust? Here the attitude "all men are assholes and do not want to marry women with children" is the self-reason why "all the men around are assholes..."
Z.Y. My wife’s sister divorced with two children and a year later she married again to a great man. I think the whole point is that she doesn’t have the attitude “my first relationship didn’t work out, that means they’re all assholes.” Transferring the failures of past relationships to new relationships is always a dead end.

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Mamina1984: 24 Feb 2022, 09:09 I can’t find a man (please advise something
I advise you not to look for him here for sure :)

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fin: 03 Oct 2022, 12:35 after watching and reading the comments under the video
Comments under the video are often an ordinary squabble, which is caused by far from the best representatives of humanity. They are not an indicator at all
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For a normal guy, not Alenya, a divorcee with a trailer (RSP) is Taboo! Everything has long been proven by family psychologists.
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Family psychologists are just as useless a layer as ordinary ones; science without a theoretical basis and clear guidelines is not such. At the level of astrology. And what do they have to do with it? This is the level of animal instincts: to raise their offspring, to leave their genes. But that’s why we are humans, social creatures with complex interpersonal communication and moral values, to differentiate ourselves from animals.
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Gudgeon, It’s not about psychologists! Understand! All RSP firmware cannot be replaced! For them, she and her child will always come first, then her parents, friends, and somewhere in 6-8 place you will be, this is in the best case. RSPs view a man as a resource. Money, apartment, car, sex and so on.
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fin: 04 Oct 2022, 01:59 she and her child will always come first,
Yes, that’s definitely true.
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It is possible that there is a good man’but with unusual sexual desires’children are not an obstacle to happiness
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I married a lady with 2 children for the third time, raised her, now she sleeps in another room with a cat, and the cattle are the ones I drink cognac, everything is peaceful. Believe, your happiness will find you😄
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You need to lead a more active life, don’t be shy to sometimes take on a more active role, and everything will work out
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At my new job I have an accountant a little over 30, with a son (whom she didn’t tell me about, I found out from my colleagues) who has an excellent figure, seems to be cheerful, she even started to make advances at work, the only problem is that no matter how long I invited her to spend time together weekend - every time she went to the dacha 100 km away
By correspondence, almost openly, she hinted that she wanted me, a couple of times they exchanged intimate photos, but in order to make time for coffee or something else - she refused every time and went about her routine
I’ve already heard somewhere that after 30 it’s difficult to have a normal relationship, but not because “old/old,” but because of the habits I’ve developed, like I’m leaving for the dacha, and you calm down, they say I’m so used to it and that’s it
In the end, I stopped paying attention to her at work, and you know what - she suddenly got offended and told a mutual friend that I didn’t want to be "friends" with her.
Relationships are still a kind of sacrifice when you give up a piece of your time for the sake of another person
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Well, what can I say, try to look for a widower, also with a trailer, then you will be on equal terms and everything may work out
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