Treason, help with advice!

[Vladimir2000]

Hello forum, please help me with some advice. I am a young guy, not at all offended by nature, tall, athletic build. I’m dating a beautiful girl. Everything is fine in the relationship, the intimacy is a fairy tale. But relatively recently I caught her cheating. I ran home for lunch, heard moaning in the bedroom, ran there. Accordingly, he saw his girlfriend riding on some dirty, narrow-eyed dwarf. He threw him out of the apartment with screams. The girl made excuses for a long time, apologized, and asked to forgive her. This is not the first time, as I understand it. I checked her phone and found out that she met the “eastern guest” about six months ago, at first she rejected her, but then she started flirting, exchanging photos and meeting in our apartment.
Help me with advice, I love this girl madly. Big plans for the future, thinking about forgiveness

[Lao]

Bro, unfortunately, a woman’s psychology is designed in such a way that once she cheats, she will continue to cheat on you. No matter what she tells you. Don’t be Alen. She even fell for not the handsome man, but for the narrow-eyed chock.

[Vladtsst]

My advice: fuck the beach girl. You’ll find yourself another one. Moreover, he cheats on you in your own apartment.

[Honey_bunny]

How much do you have to hate yourself to forgive something like this??

[AlexTDV]

create a Swedish family, you’re at work - Dzhamshut bangs her, Dzhamshut at work - you bang her, and on weekends both))

[Julia]

Hello forum, please help with advice. I am a young guy, not at all offended by nature, tall, athletic build. I’m dating a beautiful girl. Everything is fine in the relationship, the intimacy is a fairy tale. But relatively recently I caught her cheating. I ran home for lunch, heard moaning in the bedroom, ran there. Accordingly, he saw his girlfriend riding on some dirty, narrow-eyed dwarf. He threw him out of the apartment with screams. The girl made excuses for a long time, apologized, and asked to forgive her. This is not the first time, as I understand it. I checked her phone and found out that she met the “eastern guest” about six months ago, at first she rejected her, but then she started flirting, exchanging photos and meeting in our apartment.
Help me with advice, I love this girl madly. Big plans for the future, I’m thinking about forgiveness

Well, the relationship here is bad
Why would you date a person who does this
I wouldn’t continue relationship

[Honey_bunny]

I don’t know how this jamshut survived, he understood that this skin had a husband... But that didn’t stop him.
But the husband himself is an ordinary waffle and snot

[Mom]

Do you like it?

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nDo you like her?

[Slv3rF0x]

What’s the problem with forgiving if you love? On the contrary, then it will be easier to come to mzhm zhmzh or mzhmzh at will.

[Salary]

Please give me some advice, I love this girl madly. Big plans for the future, I’m thinking about forgiveness

What plans can there be with a person who cheats? Unless you have gangbangs and that’s normal for you, otherwise there’s no future... alas...

[psycheleh]

Realize your fantasies and break up. Unfortunately, you didn’t become what she wanted, so you cheated. Perhaps it didn’t bring significance to life, or maybe there was something else. We cannot know everything in the world. So, go for it, look for a new one or live in one and have fun, you’ll figure it out. But you shouldn’t hold on, because there are fewer guys, but you can always find a girl.

[SergeiKa]

You can forgive... If the feelings are real. And, even, it is necessary. I am sure that most of us, while in a relationship, even if not physically, but in our thoughts, have tumbled (!) with one object or another. Thus, producing treason with your mind. For the most part, through such personal actions, “dirty things” happen, which ruin relationships.
I will never believe the oath and admonitions that I will not repeat and will not do obscenity in relation to my own, today’s passion. And we must be wary when we start talking about some left-wing comparisons. Thus, we invest in our subconscious the WILL to realize dirty thoughts. Hence, the result is the so-called TREASON! And in order to avoid such thoughts, all you need is to pay more attention to the object, and not pollute your own brains with obscenities.
It is known that the idyll of life cannot be achieved. Therefore, I think whether to forgive or not. , everyone decides for themselves.

[solid]

Forget about her
It’s not yours

[Salary]

You can forgive... If the feelings are real. And, even, it is necessary. I’m sure that most of us, while in a relationship, even if not physically, but in thoughts, tumbled(!)

Damn, well, you bent... in thoughts and physically this completely different things... with your thoughts, do what you want, with your thoughts, for example, you can rob a bank, but you didn’t physically rob and they won’t put you in prison... but physical betrayal is immediately fucked, it’s impossible to forgive this, and then I don’t think about it all the time, it’s a thrill ...

[Lao]

What is the problem with forgiving if you love. On the contrary, then it will be easier to come to mzhm zhmzh or mzhmzh at will.

This will not be love, maximum friendship based on interests

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You can forgive... If the feelings are real. And, even, it is necessary. I am sure that most of us, while in a relationship, even if not physically, but in our thoughts, have tumbled (!) with one object or another. Thus, producing treason with your mind. For the most part, through such personal actions, “dirty things” happen, which ruin relationships.
I will never believe the oath and admonitions that I will not repeat and will not do obscenity in relation to my own, today’s passion. And we must be wary when we start talking about some left-wing comparisons. Thus, we invest in our subconscious the WILL to realize dirty thoughts. Hence, the result is the so-called TREASON! And in order to avoid such thoughts, all you need is to pay more attention to the object, and not pollute your own brains with obscenities.
It is known that the idyll of life cannot be achieved. Therefore, I think whether to forgive or not. , everyone decides for themselves.

That’s right, everyone decides for themselves, but betrayal is a spell, there is no relationship, they are completely nullified from the word And then there are two options, or forgive and. completely forget about the betrayal and not nag it and not suffer yourself, or breaking up and creating a new relationship. Again, where is the guarantee that the girl will not contact the new Dzhamshut.

[Salary]

Lao, everything is said correctly, to forgive means to reconcile and with future betrayals, otherwise this is not the same relationship...

[sevener]

It is completely normal to live with a girl who supports a swinger relationship and there is nothing wrong with that. But in this case, this is precisely betrayal, personal egoism and the girl’s lack of care - this is completely different and is incompatible with normal relationships, with family, if what is described is really true, you just need to throw her out the door and not remember. Forgiveness is not only possible, but also necessary, but it is even more important to end any relationship with her once and for all.

[Sibiryak89]

Hello forum, please help with advice. I am a young guy, not at all offended by nature, tall, athletic build. I’m dating a beautiful girl. Everything is fine in the relationship, the intimacy is a fairy tale. But relatively recently I caught her cheating. I ran home for lunch, heard moaning in the bedroom, ran there. Accordingly, he saw his girlfriend riding on some dirty, narrow-eyed dwarf. He threw him out of the apartment with screams. The girl made excuses for a long time, apologized, and asked to forgive her. This is not the first time, as I understand it. I checked her phone and found out that she met the “eastern guest” about six months ago, at first she rejected her, but then she started flirting, exchanging photos and meeting in our apartment.
Help me with advice, I love this girl madly. Big plans for the future, I’m thinking about forgiveness

Boy, she loves dirt, she brought her home, she doesn’t respect you... You need this, do you respect yourself?? As surgeons say, the abscess must be removed, let it go to jamshud...

[Gabriel]

Do you have a photo of the girl?

[Lao]

It is completely normal to live with a girl who supports a swing relationship and there is nothing wrong with that. But in this case, this is precisely betrayal, personal egoism and the girl’s lack of care - this is completely different and is incompatible with normal relationships, with family, if what is described is really true, you just need to throw her out the door and not remember. It is not only possible to forgive, but also necessary, but it is even more important to end any relationship with her once and for all.

It is normal to live with a girl who supports a swing relationship when her partner shares her views (I don’t want to get involved in this at all, because a man who fucks women left and right will definitely not live to see 70 years old and I know why). That’s not the question. The issue is the honesty of the relationship.

[Slv3rF0x]

This will not be love, maximum friendship based on interests

Do you think that all those who go to the registry office think that once will they get divorced? Of course not. But they still get divorced. People get tired of each other over time for one reason or another. Maintaining trusting relationships is difficult. You won’t change it, either accept it or leave. And if you can accept her like this and forgive her such things, the stronger your union will be. She will appreciate it and love you even more. You are not an angel either, and she will have to endure you for many years, with her cockroaches and skeletons in the closet. Try to communicate openly with her on this topic, believe me, such a level of trust with your spouse when she can tell you that she would sleep with someone is worth a lot.

[Lina]

It comes down to trust in these relationships. If she has a need for a polygamous relationship, then I think that she could first talk to you and try a new format of relationship, maybe you would also be attracted to it. Then there would be honesty between partners. BUT how many of us do this, don’t write off the betrayal as an impulse or were seduced and didn’t understand how..... I can’t judge fully since I’ve been in a relationship with my husband for 10 years, I haven’t cheated, but I can’t say that on my way I met a man who was mind blowing.

[Lao]

This will not be love, maximum friendship based on interests

Do you think that all those who go to the registry office think about that they will get divorced someday? Of course not. But they still get divorced. People get tired of each other over time for one reason or another. Maintaining trusting relationships is difficult. You won’t change it, either accept it or leave. And if you can accept her like this and forgive her such things, the stronger your union will be. She will appreciate it and love you even more. You are not an angel either, and she will have to endure you for many years, with her cockroaches and skeletons in the closet. Try to communicate openly with her on this topic, believe me, there is such a level of trust with your spouse when she can tell you that sleeping with someone is worth a lot.

Everyone chooses the format of relationships that is acceptable to them. And there should certainly be a trusting relationship between spouses; this is not even discussed. But maybe it’s worth discussing at the beginning the very reason for a person’s motivation, why he wants to sleep on the side, and not immediately bring a round dance of men? As Kozma said: Look at the root

[Frodo]

Forgive and there will be no trust in the girl, you will start to bite yourself, what if she is with a jamshud or two, do you need it? There are plenty of girls, why do you need a fucking house at home who is ready to lie down for anyone? My opinion is definitely to break up with the girl

[Lao]

This will not be love, maximum friendship based on interests

Do you think that all those who go to the registry office think about that they will get divorced someday? Of course not. But they still get divorced. People get tired of each other over time for one reason or another. Maintaining trusting relationships is difficult. You won’t change it, either accept it or leave. And if you can accept her like this and forgive her such things, the stronger your union will be. She will appreciate it and love you even more. You are not an angel either, and she will have to endure you for many years, with her cockroaches and skeletons in the closet. Try to communicate openly with her on this topic, believe me, there is such a level of trust with your spouse when she can tell you that sleeping with someone is worth a lot.

I have been married for 30 years to the same woman whom I love very much (I really love!), I do not have a diploma in psychology, but I am studying this discipline on my own. a cooling of relations (let’s say a crisis) occurs after 3-4 years of relationship, and in my opinion they haven’t even lived that long together. I agree with you that different people get married and no one plans to get a divorce. Ideally, partners in a marriage should decide all their problems together, alas, this rarely happens. What exactly is on this girl’s mind is not at all clear. If she had sat down with her husband at the same table and talked, then the situation might have been different. . To be honest, I don’t welcome swinging and especially open relationships in marriage, but these people are at least honest with each other, yes, they don’t have love with each other, but there is some kind of friendship or affection, not everyone lives in high relationships.

[Zhenina]

Forgive me, then you will regret it even more.

[decathlon]

The answer is on the surface, forget about marriage, just offer a relationship, with this you will kill two birds with one stone, firstly the risks of betrayal and the aftertaste of betrayal, secondly affection

If the path goes away, if it remains - you will be the master of your own life itself

[alphabet97]

A person doesn’t value you at all, he spreads his legs in front of just anyone - what kind of future family can we even talk about? Respect yourself, you (and your children future ) deserve better, friend!

[Vlad Shelest]

Big plans for the future, I’m thinking about forgiveness

Vladimir, forgiveness is pointless here, because the girl is ripe for a group sex or even for filming in a film with a sexual theme.
Sooner or later (more likely, sooner) she will take this path herself and you will lose her forever. You have only one option left to be close to her, but for this you yourself must organize a group sex for her. Moreover, everything should look like it’s not she who wants it, but you.
I will explain to you what you must do for this. Agree?

[Scotch]

You all, like a herd of sheep, started bleating on a fake user topic with one single message))))
Psychologists damn it * x)