Free sex in marriage

Unread post by **winlifervladimir** » 08 Jun 2022, 02:39

Women, how do you feel if a man is in a relationship with you, but at the same time fucks other chicks?

Unread post by **young lady** » 08 Jun 2022, 02:50

I don’t know how it is for anyone, but this definitely wouldn’t suit me.

Unread post by **winlifervladimir** » 08 Jun 2022, 02:51

I just don’t understand why sex is considered cheating

08 Jun 2022, 02:58

A friend of mine fucks everyone from 18 to 60, three times each. He tells everyone he’s divorced. His wife doesn’t know anything. All the girls think he’ll live with them, but they find out that he’s fucking their friends.

Unread post by **young lady** » 08 Jun 2022, 03:00

Well, then what is considered cheating, if not sex? Sex with others - while a person has a spouse - is the real betrayal.

Another thing is that many people perceive the betrayal of their spouses relatively calmly and painlessly. But this is due either to low emotionality, or to “coolness” in relations with a spouse, and so on.

As for most normal people, they perceive betrayal extremely negatively, and it can lead to quarrels, scandals and divorce.

So you need to be extremely careful with these things. Personally, I prefer the “sex-wife/cuckold” type of relationship. With this option, a woman can cheat as much as she wants, and with whomever she wants. But her husband (cuckold) must be faithful to her.

Unread post by **Onism** » 08 Jun 2022, 03:24

Pannochka: 08 Jun 2022, 03:00 So you need to be extremely careful with these things. Personally, I prefer the “sex-wife/cuckold” type of relationship. With this option, a woman can cheat as much as she wants, and with whomever she wants. But her husband (cuckold) must be faithful to her.

But this is a one-way game, don’t you think so? Women can, but men can’t? Then let men have relationships of the “harem” type.

Everyone wants polygamy, both women and men. There are, of course, cases when both are faithful to each other, but in today’s realities, in my opinion, this is rare.

Unread post by **young lady** » 08 Jun 2022, 03:31

Onism: 08 Jun 2022, 03:24 But this is a one-goal game, don’t you think so? Women are allowed, but men are not allowed?

Yes, this is something of a one-sided game, right. But in my opinion, just this version of injustice would be just right in our time in our society. )

Unread post by **Onism** » 08 Jun 2022, 03:48

Pannochka, You can’t argue here, although I would Still left a few harems...

Unread post by **guests** » 08 Jun 2022, 04:03

Mine won’t forgive me, but she can with my approval)

Unread post by **Devil** » 08 Jun 2022, 04:46

I forbid mine, but she doesn’t care, she cheats and I can’t do anything about it

Unread post by **Gifts** » 08 Jun 2022, 05:10

If a man has enough strength, desire and money for a wife, mistress and light hobby, then everything is fine and everyone is happy. There’s just usually something missing. Usually money

This is what causes all the troubles...

Unread post by **Onism** » 08 Jun 2022, 05:18

Dary, Well said! But when it’s enough, it’s also a thrill and everyone is happy.

But when the money runs out, you have to leave your mistress. Jerk off is also an option, and there won’t be any unnecessary problems.

I don’t understand men who feed their mistresses with promises and not with gifts and donations. And I don’t understand such mistresses who think of taking a man away from the family. This usually does not end well for all participants in the triangle.

Unread post by **vikylechka75** » 08 Jun 2022, 09:41

winlifervladimir, what if other men fuck your wife?

Unread post by **niqk** » 08 Jun 2022, 09:57

Dary: 08 Jun 2022, 05:10 If a man has enough strength, desire and money for a wife, mistress and light hobby, then everything is fine and everyone is happy. There’s just usually something missing. Usually money This is what causes all the troubles...

You somehow missed the group sex. In swing companies, a husband fucks someone else’s wife, and next to him someone else’s husband fucks his wife. And
everyone is happy! And you don’t need a lot of money!

Unread post by **Sussetsat** » 08 Jun 2022, 12:03

Why get married then if you want to fuck others? What is the point of marriage then?

Unread post by **niqk** » 08 Jun 2022, 12:08

sosay6996: 08 Jun 2022, 12:03 Why get married then if you want to fuck others? What’s the point of marriage then?

You see, we don’t reduce the meaning of marriage to naked fucking. We have many other common interests.

Unread post by **Sussetsat** » 08 Jun 2022, 12:13

niqk, nevertheless, marriage presupposes purity and you give vow to be with one person

Unread post by **niqk** » 08 Jun 2022, 12:21

sosay6996: 08 Jun 2022, 12:13 niqk, nevertheless, marriage presupposes purity and you take an oath to be with one person

Everyone has their own ideas about marriage. And I’m not going to leave my wife! Love her! And it’s mutual! What about you?

Unread post by **Sussetsat** » 08 Jun 2022, 12:36

niqk, if I wanted to be with other women I there would be. But for me it is important that a person loves only me and is only with me, just as I am with him. That’s why I’m married and love only my wife.

Unread post by **niqk** » 08 Jun 2022, 12:42

And married! And I love only my wife! And she loves me! And we are not going to part ways! But this doesn’t stop us from getting into swinging and having fun with it!
But we will not impose our concepts on anyone! Never!

Unread post by **pipipisa** » 08 Jun 2022, 14:13

I’m for open relationships

Unread post by **vikylechka75** » 08 Jun 2022, 14:50

But mutual. And the husband fucks whoever he wants and the wife fucks whoever she wants.

Unread post by **pipipisa** » 08 Jun 2022, 14:54

vikylechka75: 08 Jun 2022, 14:50 But mutual. And the husband fucks whoever he wants and the wife fucks whoever she wants.

It’s natural and better when together

Unread post by **Onism** » 08 Jun 2022, 23:19

sosay6996: 08 Jun 2022, 12:13 still, marriage presupposes purity and you take an oath to be with one person

Yes, you take an oath: "in joy and in sorrow" ! But not in bed. There is not a word in this oath that you cannot fuck with others. And even more so if it is also by mutual desire.

Unread post by **Katerina90** » 21 Jun 2022, 03:15

This is not for me.

Unread post by **Maximum** » 21 Jun 2022, 03:28

No, I’m definitely not for an open relationship. You probably shouldn’t care about your partner. If you don’t have feelings for him or her, then you can have an open relationship

Unread post by **Onism** » 21 Jun 2022, 03:34

Maximum: 21 Jun 2022, 03:28 No, I’m definitely not for an open relationship. You probably shouldn’t care about your partner. If you don’t have feelings for him or her, then you can have an open relationship

If you have no feelings for a person, why have a relationship at all???
And open relationships are not a fact for everyone. Not everyone is ready to participate in this; there is a lot of possessiveness in us. "I won’t give it to anyone, even though I don’t need it myself..." You have to live until then, and even of those who live in open relationships, not everyone can cope with it, jealousy still takes its toll....

Unread post by **Devil** » 21 Jun 2022, 04:20

I allow mine to fuck but not in the ass

Unread post by **Indifference** » 22 Jun 2022, 19:18

She goes on her own to a sanatorium or to the sea. Once she persuaded her to go together, but they rented separate rooms and pretended that we didn’t know each other. And I saw her pranks on vacation

Unread post by **Stanbuyan** » 22 Jun 2022, 21:19

Diavolo: 21 Jun 2022, 04:20 I allow mine to fuck, but not in the ass

Why is that so?

Unread post by **Andrey57115** » 22 Jun 2022, 21:27

Everything should be mutual and then there will be no problems

Unread post by **Babaska** » 22 Jun 2022, 21:36

There is no free sex in marriage. If you want free sex, then why marriage? Any sex with another person in marriage is primarily an agreement between the spouses. Otherwise it’s not a marriage.

Unread post by **Devil** » 24 Jun 2022, 02:16

Stanbuyan: 22 Jun 2022, 21:19 Why is that so?

so that she doesn’t get hurt

Unread post by **DimaBoy21** » 25 Jun 2022, 00:24

Hello everyone.
My girlfriend and I are not married yet, but we have a pretty strong relationship (at first glance). I am 21, she is 19 and we have been together for 3 years, during this time she has never cheated on me, just as I have not cheated on her either. We trusted each other so much that we told all our dirty fantasieswithout any embarrassment, and then one day, we were lying together on the bed and began to discuss the sexual moments of our lives. At one point, I decided to ask her if she would like to try something new in terms of sex. She didn’t understand me, she thought that I meant some toys or flavoring lubricants. I waited a moment, thinking that she would figure it out on her own, but no, I had to tell her everything myself. I asked her how she felt about MFM sex. The answer was positive, she said that she sometimes watches MFM porn. I was happy, because not every couple would support this topic, but we began to develop it further. As a result, we agreed that we wanted to invite a third guy for MFM. We were looking for a partner on the forums, but there were candidates there that my girlfriend didn’t like. After all, these forums are mostly populated by men 35+, but we wanted to find someone of the same age. We definitely never wanted to invite anyone among our acquaintances and friends, because if someone let slip about how we relax, there will be a barrage of criticism and condemnation, which we tried to avoid.
Half a year has already passed since We both wanted MFM, but during this time our interest in this topic dropped and we stopped discussing it. All because they couldn’t find the third guy. Also, during this time I realized that I didn’t just want MFM sex, but I just wanted my girlfriend to be fucked by another guy. This thought excited me even more than mzhm. I enjoy sharing my beautiful girlfriend with other guys and watching how she enjoys the variety of partners. Once, I told a girl about these thoughts and she supported this idea. But we couldn’t find partners, and then we completely forgot about all these joys. The girl had a session, I was stuck at work and we had no time for these vulgar topics.
Time has passed, the calendar shows the end of June and my girlfriend successfully passed the test. Part of their study group decided to gather at the cottage to celebrate the end of the session. My girlfriend has never liked these events; she will never want to go there herself, only if she is with me. But this time the other girls called her very persistently and she invited me to go with her, but I refused, because I have work. I told her to go without me and relax there with her friends. She said thank you and said everything would be fine and without incident. We have been in a relationship for a long time, we had 100% trust in each other, I was not worried that she let her go without me.
A week passes, the clock says 8 pm, Friday. I have to work tomorrow, and my girlfriend is going to a party. I went to bed at 11 pm, and she left at 9:30 pm. I wrote her a message that I was going to bed, she wished me good night and said that everything there was civilized and quiet.

Saturday comes, I wake up to the alarm clock, look at my phone and see messages from the girl that she sent me at 4 in the morning. She wrote hysterical messages asking me to forgive her, she asked me for forgiveness, but I didn’t even understand what the problem was, because she still wasn’t home. I call her, but she doesn’t answer. I had to take time off from work to deal with family matters. In the end, I got through to her friend and she was there. I rushed to her in the car, picked her up from my friend and took her home. At home I started asking what happened, she didn’t want to tell me, but after half an hour of sobbing, she finally told me the story:

At 12 at night more people arrived at their cottage, they weren’t students, just friends of friends. After their arrival, drinking began there, my girlfriend decided to drink more and when she realized that she had gone too far, she went to the hotel room to lie down there. She really drank a lot, apparently when you drink in such company, you don’t notice yourself at all.
She lay down in the room and fell asleep. A few hours later, an unfamiliar guy entered the room, who was also drunk and began to harass her. She immediately woke up, began to push him away and scream, but nothing worked, because music was playing throughout the whole house and no one heard it, and besides, the room was on the 2nd floor. This guy took advantage of her situation, closed the room and fucked her. Plus, he filmed it and sent it to several friends. I saw this video, to be honest, she moaned there like a whore and it was clear that she got high.

She told me this story, she thought that I would leave her, but I reacted calmly and told her that I wanted another guy to fuck you, so it came true. She calmed down and later we discussed everything without emotion. In the end, she admitted that she liked being a drunk and weak girl who was used by guys.

More than a year has passed since that moment and we live as friendly as we lived. Sometimes we meet guys so they can fuck my girlfriend like a slut, sometimes I take part, and sometimes I just watch.

Unread post by **Moral** » 25 Jun 2022, 00:35

I’ll send him away. Why do I need one? I’d rather be alone or find a new one.

Unread post by **Onism** » 25 Jun 2022, 00:48

Natik, why leave him if the girl is happy with everything . Fuck whoever you want, and a loving husband is waiting at home?

Unread post by **Moral** » 25 Jun 2022, 00:54

And I meant that if the husband cheats.

Unread post by **Onism** » 25 Jun 2022, 00:59

Natik: 25 Jun 2022, 00:54 And I meant that if the husband cheats.

Well, then, of course!

Unread post by **Milla** » 14 May 2023, 23:35

I like open relationships. At the end of this week I’m getting married to just such a man who shares my views.

Unread post by **RealMax** » 14 May 2023, 23:41

Is this considered an open relationship?

Unread post by **Alexander** » 14 May 2023, 23:47

Milla: 14 May 2023, 23:35 I like open relationships. At the end of this week I’m getting married to just such a man who shares my views.

Milla: I like open relationships. At the end of this week I’m getting married to just such a man who shares my views.

Your relationship is enviable. I dare to suggest that your relationship will develop the same way as with your parents and in your family. And pass the baton to your children. The question is at what age, you were initiated when you were an adult, but you read here that many children are initiated earlier.

Unread post by **Zoo.sax** » 14 May 2023, 23:48

I also don’t understand why sex is cheating, where did it come from cheating, well, people met and had sex, it doesn’t matter if they’re married or not, what’s bad is why cheating right away

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For me it was normal, but this was when in my family the practice was that everyone had sex with whoever they wanted, the main thing was that the family had an idyll and the couple had passionate sex

Unread post by **fuck** » 15 May 2023, 00:08

I think so that before marriage remains before marriage. But in marriage we need to discuss it. If your spouse wants you to go out, let him or her go, no means no

Unread post by **Mr.hamsterrr** » 15 May 2023, 00:27

Milla: 14 May 2023, 23:35 I like open relationships. At the end of this week I’m getting married to just such a man who shares my views.

Advice and love) I’m already inclined to what I want with such a woman live)

Unread post by **Murena0314** » 19 May 2023, 04:11

I am selfish and possessive. Mine is just for me.

Unread post by **RealMax** » 19 May 2023, 04:17

Moray eel0314: 19 May 2023, 04:11 I am selfish and possessive. Mine is just for me.

if you are interested in someone?

Unread post by **Murena0314** » 19 May 2023, 04:21

RealMax: 19 May 2023, 04:17 if you are interested in someone?

It has already happened. My husband allowed me to fool around, bought a ticket to another city and took me to the airport. But he was absolutely sure that this was just my whim, and nothing threatened family relationships.
This is such inequality and injustice in our family. And both are happy with it.

Unread post by **niqk** » 19 May 2023, 05:06

Moray eel0314: 19 May 2023, 04:21
RealMax: 19 May 2023, 04:17 if you are interested in someone?
It has already happened. My husband allowed me to fool around, bought a ticket to another city and took me to the airport. But he was absolutely sure that this was just my whim, and nothing threatened family relationships.
This is such inequality and injustice in our family. And both are happy with it.

Hmm, you yourself understand that you are acting unfairly. But then there is no need to limit the husband. Is not it?

Unread post by **Murena0314** » 19 May 2023, 05:35

niqk: 19 May 2023, 05:06 Hmm, you yourself understand that you are acting unfairly. But then there is no need to limit the husband. Isn’t it?

I agree, it’s not fair. But for now we are both happy with this arrangement. Maybe he hasn’t met anyone better than me yet

Unread post by **niqk** » 19 May 2023, 05:46

Moray eel0314: 19 May 2023, 05:35
niqk: 19 May 2023, 05:06 Hmm, you yourself understand that you are acting unfairly. But then there is no need to limit the husband. Isn’t it?
I agree, it’s not fair. But for now we are both happy with this arrangement. Maybe he hasn’t met anyone better than me yet

The key word is bye! In this situation, you risk losing it almost at any moment. He can
meet HER literally outside the threshold of the house!