Discussing sex with parents

Unread post by **valeria_04** » 18 Jul 2022, 05:34

I often hear from friends and acquaintances that they are embarrassed to talk to their parents about intimate topics. It’s the same with my mother, but with my father it’s the opposite. No stop topics. At all. For example, my dad knows that I have anal sex, he doesn’t judge me, he says that my boyfriend is very lucky. And I, in turn, know that our mother is a “Puritan” - i.e. against AC and blowjob. Someone will say that this is not correct, but I am glad that my father and I are like friends, subordination is of course respected

Can you discuss the topic of sex with your parents?

Unread post by **The wall** » 18 Jul 2022, 05:36

I never discussed the topic of sex with my parents. I have always envied people whose parents are friends or even sexual partners.

Unread post by **Andrey Petrov** » 18 Jul 2022, 05:55

I discussed the topic of sex with my mother in terms of how best for her to lie down, stand up or sit down? Let’s go mushroom hunting, for example, there’s nowhere to lay her out, she’ll sit on a tree stump, throw out her size 5 tits, and ask to take off her bra? Perhaps not, and I’ll chase her bald between the tits with a ride in her mouth! By the way, she was also a puritan about anal. First time waited for me all night after graduation. The sneaky guy, who groped his classmates, immediately divorced her from the door and silently led her to the sofa!

Unread post by **Taras** » 18 Jul 2022, 06:09

I never discussed this with my parents. It’s embarrassing to talk about sex with your parents

Unread post by **BOmD** » 18 Jul 2022, 06:21

Personally, I haven’t discussed why? I’ll tell you a little later. But my wife for five years now +\-, Tobizh has been touching on these topics with her mother or my mother-in-law since she was 14-15 years old. I think this has to do with the age of the parents. I was born into an older family; my mother was 33 at that time and my father was 56 years old. And when I was a teenager and then you understand for yourself. And she was born with fairly young parents. I think they were 20-something kopecks. And they punished her only morally, they didn’t beat her, nothing. It was forbidden to go outside, and in the early 10s to sit on gadgets)) She felt more liberated with them than I did, as it seems. Yes, and my father is still in the military, somehow it was not accepted.

Unread post by **Funduk** » 18 Jul 2022, 06:43

I never discussed this with my parents. Sometimes my father would joke, like, look at the ass that girl has. This was the maximum.

Unread post by **Kakentiy** » 01 Aug 2022, 09:27

I also never discussed sex, etc. with my parents. And with daughter I don’t discuss, my wife talks to her about these topics.

Unread post by **Valve** » 01 Aug 2022, 18:47

I also wasn’t particularly interested in talking to my parents about this topic)

Unread post by **Nastya** » 01 Aug 2022, 18:59

We are calmly communicating with my daughter about sex..
And I think this is correct.
But my daughter doesn’t understand the shamefulness of the topic at all. Or maybe he does this on purpose. In general, she freely talks about sex in front of others.

Unread post by **Flex** » 07 Aug 2022, 02:50

With mom I can discuss any topic, including sex. She doesn’t hide anything from me and that’s right. Sex education should be in the family, but sex should be mutual if you really want it. Nowadays there are many people who have sex with close relatives, it is their choice.

Unread post by **pure** » 07 Aug 2022, 02:55

there wasn’t either, not when, alas

Unread post by **BUGOR** » 07 Aug 2022, 03:08

hello everyone, my mother and I didn’t discuss sex, but it was always sex with my mother we practiced since 94, then I was 14 years old and my mother was 48 years old

Unread post by **Sledge** » 07 Aug 2022, 03:13

Didn’t discuss......

Unread post by **A mermaid** » 07 Aug 2022, 03:18

Did your father give you an education, an apartment, a car?

Unread post by **Alexey.Efremov** » 07 Aug 2022, 04:53

It’s great and you don’t have to leave home

Unread post by **Man07** » 07 Aug 2022, 05:03

My daughter was talking to me, talking about guys. And did you get advice (as if) when you can start having sex? She just hinted that she wanted to have sex. We talked normally. And my mother was interested in defloration. Does it hurt when your hymen is broken?

Unread post by **Flex** » 07 Aug 2022, 08:19

If parents don’t tell their children about sex, the street will, and the consequences can be very sad. I know many such cases.

Unread post by **dva2dva** » 04 Oct 2022, 10:55

With stepdaughter there are no taboo topics. We discuss sex, relationships, love. all topics in general. She can share with me how she slept with a guy, I can share with her about sex with my wife. In general, we have complete trust and openness.

Unread post by **Tanya** » 04 Oct 2022, 11:10

My daughter is frank with me!

04 Oct 2022, 11:13

Tania: 04 Oct 2022, 11:10 My daughter is frank with me!

Does she tell everything?

Unread post by **BackAgain** » 04 Oct 2022, 20:41

Tania: 04 Oct 2022, 11:10 My daughter is frank with me!

Daughters are often frank with their mothers, but only when they reach a fairly mature age.
Communication between fathers and sons is most often - "always carry a condom with you! "

Unread post by **Cheeky Joe** » 05 Oct 2022, 04:55

Considering that my parents had very old-fashioned rules and norms, it’s good that they didn’t talk to me about sex.
I also thank them for catching me masturbating or watching porn (which often came with the kit) and pretending that they didn’t notice anything and didn’t have a long discussion "about the place of porn and masturbation in people’s lives"

Unread post by **soldier-64** » 10 Oct 2022, 11:16

We also never touched on this topic. Somehow everything worked out on its own

Unread post by **Tanya** » 10 Oct 2022, 11:27

slavik.neskaju: 04 Oct 2022, 11:13
Tania: 04 Oct 2022, 11:10 My daughter is frank with me!
Does she tell everything?

Yes, he tells everything, we talk about these intimate topics quite often.

Unread post by **March** » 02 Nov 2022, 00:52

Sloppy Joe: 05 Oct 2022, 04:55 Considering that my parents have very old-fashioned rules and regulations

Yes, judging by your age - the norms and rules of your parents are not something that is customary to share with children in decent families.

Unread post by **Tolkala** » 02 Nov 2022, 02:05

Mine always discussed the topic of sex with me. Even when she wanted to fuck with someone, I covered her so that my mother wouldn’t burn her.

Unread post by **Murzik45** » 07 Nov 2022, 02:44

I have a daughter. She always gives advice if necessary. We talk, communicate, listen. But when at the age of 16 I asked when the girl. At what age can you start having sex? And about the first time. Is it somehow difficult? I wasn’t ready for this. I didn’t find the right answers right away.

Unread post by **Shamanakas** » 07 Nov 2022, 03:18

My children have not yet reached adolescence, but we have always answered all their questions about sex directly. There is no point in hiding or remaining silent. They just learn the same things not from you. And this way you will have at least minimal control over how they receive this information and over accents.

To understand, children at the age of 10 already ask (and more often already know) about this what is sex, orgasm, sperm, blowjob, anal sex, gays, lesbians and transgenders. I suddenly remembered what my eldest son asked us. If we had remained silent, he would have simply Googled it.

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 07 Nov 2022, 06:13

It is better to get all the answers to your questions from your parents. Direct and honest, according to age.
And then react according to the situation.
I am completely for incest if people use protection.
Between brother and sister or parents and their child.

Unread post by **Kostiai72** » 07 Nov 2022, 22:00

Since I was 12 years old, I have been communicating with my mother on intimate topics. We have developed a wonderful, trusting relationship. In principle, there are no topics for us that we cannot discuss. Thanks to her, I learned a lot and she saved me from even more.

Unread post by **SergeiKa** » 08 Nov 2022, 02:40

The topic of sex in the family was somehow not touched upon. Because, practically, sex of parents was present in an open form, in front of me and my younger sister. From early childhood, as far as I remember, both my sister and I were in this atmosphere.
It is clear that we imitated our parents... Under their laughter at that time. But!.. There was always an instructive conversation with us. Mainly about the sacred secrecy of what is happening within the walls of the house, family. The father was mostly stern, and the mother explained why one should not chat.
Over time, their sex became less frequent. More secretive. Mostly late in the evening, when we were already “sleeping.” But, it took place, as well as subsequent events in the family. Smoothly and painlessly developed into even closer relationships within the family.

Unread post by **Alexander** » 12 Dec 2022, 05:26

Once I started a conversation with my son after the army about his girls the same age. I wanted to share my and other people’s experiences, that they go to the movies with people his age, and sleep with people my age. How to see and understand it. But he immediately interrupted this conversation: No need, otherwise I’ll never get married. Now he is married and has a beautiful child.

Unread post by **Winsly** » 12 Dec 2022, 05:38

In my family, sex was not discussed with my parents at all. And I didn’t ask, there were no questions. With my children, whatever they ask, I will answer. I have no problems with this topic, and even less so my wife.

Unread post by **Stranger** » 16 Dec 2022, 02:50

Alesander, this is your age))

Unread post by **Dart** » 16 Dec 2022, 03:03

Yes, now in the age of the Internet, children do not need to ask their parents anything, maybe it’s bad that they learn everything from the Internet at an early age and know about everything

Unread post by **Artem434** » 16 Dec 2022, 03:16

I discussed with my mother what kind of partners both of them had, what they liked about sex, etc. Naturally at the level of a joke, but the topic got a little started

Unread post by **Stranger** » 16 Dec 2022, 03:24

Dart, and how much will they learn on the Internet?
Well, let’s say if a girl comes in here and says she’s 13 and asks if she can get pregnant if she fucks her in the ass, what will they answer?

Unread post by **PrematureCum** » 16 Dec 2022, 04:46

My mother talked to me about sex as an adult, but constantly reminded me that it was prohibited until I was 18. At the same time, she had nothing against masturbation and even considered it necessary if she had not had a wet dream for a long time.

Unread post by **Flex** » 09 Jul 2023, 06:09

We often discuss with my mother, there are no taboo topics for us

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 09 Jul 2023, 13:14

I am open with my adopted daughter! I don’t hesitate to give her advice, and she doesn’t hesitate to ask me. I think this is normal, because if a child is taught on the street, the result can be different, both positive and negative.
And the most important thing is that the father plays a big role in the sexual education of the daughter, and the mother is the one a person who raises his son sexually. The opposite sex will be best able to tell a teenager what his sexual partner wants from him and how best to do it all.

Unread post by **homa515** » 04 Jun 2024, 03:31

my daughter is frank with me. I am with her too. She even knows more about me than my husband.

Unread post by **edgard.shuhard** » 04 Jun 2024, 04:18

You are girls... And it’s very wonderful that you trust each other)

Unread post by **homa515** » 04 Jun 2024, 04:25

my daughter even knows that my husband and I are relaxing in the sauna with another couple.