Discussing desires and fantasies with your other halves...

[A charmer]

Question for everyone!!!
Do you discuss your desires and fantasies with your significant other? How different are your partner’s interests?
And you want to know how this topic has changed your sex life?

[Olfar]

Well, why not discuss why a partner is needed then? If the desires coincide, then you can try, if not, then with someone else another time)

[A charmer]

Well, what if not all desires converge? But your feelings for this person don’t allow you to change?!

[meh1]

Of course we discuss, although this topic is extremely difficult to discuss with my other half (it’s constrained), but as a result we have a certain supply of toys after discussion

[Izumi]

you definitely need to discuss and tell your partner about your desires, some for some reason are embarrassed and pay for the lack of variety in sex.

it happened that a guy had fantasies that I myself would never dream of in my life I would have thought of it if he hadn’t said)

[The passage]

I never discussed anything related to sex with my ex-husband or former lovers. I always liked their initiative and dominance and didn’t want to force them into a certain scenario. Yes, and I didn’t have such fantasies that I didn’t sleep at night, because I wanted to try it so badly.
In general, everything my fantasies are mostly not for implementation in real life, but for arousal before masturbation.

[Lisa24]

we discuss desires and not without this. So there are no omissions and you understand your partner better. And fantasies usually remain in fantasies))

[A charmer]

you definitely need to discuss and tell your partner about your desires, some for some reason are embarrassed and pay for the lack of variety in sex.

it happened that a guy had fantasies that I myself would never dream of I wouldn’t have thought of it in my life if he hadn’t said it)

Very correctly said!

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I never discussed anything related to sex with my ex-husband or former lovers. I always liked their initiative and dominance and didn’t want to force them into a certain scenario. Yes, and I didn’t have such fantasies that I didn’t sleep at night, because I wanted to try it so badly.
In general, everything my fantasies are mostly not for implementation in real life, but for arousal before masturbation. n

Is there any point in fantasizing for masturbation? if possible share and realize this together with your partner!

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we discuss desires not without this. So there are no omissions and you understand your partner better. And fantasies usually remain in fantasies))

But fantasies excite? And I think that they just keep it within the limits of what is decent, which you are afraid to express, but want to feel!!! Right?

[Lisa24]

But fantasies excite? And I think that they just keep it within the limits of what is decent, which you are afraid to express, but want to feel!!! Is that right?

umm...in my case it’s not true. I have strange fantasies and in real life I wouldn’t want to feel that way)) everything else can be regarded as desires and voicing them is not a problem. For some reason I’m lucky, I trust my partner completely and I’m not afraid to speak out))

[igor.stepochkin]

Lisa24, then you are lucky, and very lucky!

[Lisa24]

Lisa24, that means you are lucky, and very lucky!

in this sense, yes. I envy myself

[Center]

How do such delicate conversations happen among you members of the forum?
You sit on the sofa/bed, call your soulmate and begin to pour out perverted fantasies to each other in a private setting?

[government38]

Once a year during vacation we organize a trash marathon, at the club we pump ourselves up with alcohol for courage and I choose a young brat for her and he has to fuck her in the toilet, her task is to seduce her for sex, I sit in the next booth and wait for them to close and hear how his balls hit her pussy and she starts moaning, I start kicking the door and screaming, “Open up whore, I know you’re here, if you don’t open it, I’ll go to the car for a knife and cut you,” after which he instantly member falls and he jumps out of the toilet as if scalded and runs away, this greatly raises the adrenaline and the degree of the relationship.
in other scenarios we played out the option when I knock on their door, the wife asks them to open the door, says it’s a friend, then I burst in with a boner from my fly and ask who to fuck first for fucking my sister, I grab the guy by the ass, he’s panicking he asks not to rape him and breaks in like a moose from a club...

[We fall asleep]

I told my wife about my fantasies and did something to get the fuck off. A year later, she offered to repeat it, but she suggested it in such a way that she was sent to hell. Sex has dried up this year. Once, twice a month. Something like that.

[government38]

It’s something like this.

tell me what she suggested, we’re interested, we’ll figure out how to help...

[We fall asleep]

She’s okay, everything’s fine for her anyway. I offered. Nothing special, judging by this site. Asked to fuck me)! With a strap-on. Well, in my old age, this is my fantasy. I listened to my friend and said tell her she needs to talk. So I told it on my own.

[Paul366]

Damn, interesting, let’s do more.

[TannaT]

We discussed this Topic: I agree that there should be more Girls, She agrees that there should be more Guys.
Result: we now have more toys in the house (actually Members, different ones).
It’s funny to me, the main thing is that She is satisfied and happy. Just don’t tell anyone about this.

[government38]

told

then only two-way to have each other at the same time and full contact will work out

[TannaT]

then only double-sided so that we can have each other at the same time and full contact will be possible

Yes, I don’t have any sensitivity in the anal area. I don’t feel anything there.
But She is pleased with the process itself.

[government38]

But what about the prostate, stagnation of secretion, this makes orgasms even brighter, boner and more sperm, some grandmothers pay for such a massage.

[The passage]

if you can share and realize it together with your partner

You just don’t know what kind of fantasies I have. This cannot be realized with a partner

[Lisa24]

How do such delicate conversations even happen among you members of the forum?
You sit on the sofa/bed, call your soulmate and begin to pour out perverted fantasies to each other in a private setting?

look, it doesn’t matter where you sit and where you talk, the key here is to talk. And not just once and not immediately dump your secret on your partner. Unfortunately, the realities now are such that people don’t want to talk a lot, they want everything at once and preferably without straining. Why say try and not be sure that you will be understood when you can without straining find it on the side?
in my case, if the initiative comes from me, I can do it in just everyday conversation to say what I want. Sometimes I have to insist several times, sometimes I have to choose an alternative. This is a kind of work on building communication))

[A charmer]

if you can share and realize it together with your partner

And what kind of fantasy do you have?
You just don’t know what kind of fantasies I have. This cannot be realized with a partner

[The passage]

O4arovatell, I have a lot of fantasies. Imagination is good.

[Let’s]

How do such delicate conversations even happen among you members of the forum?
You sit on the sofa/bed, call your soulmate and begin to pour out perverted fantasies to each other in a private setting?

Well, for me, the most convenient moment to discuss what your partner wants is the moment when she is excited. Repeatedly with different girls I found out their wishes at that very moment. That is, you either caress her or have sex.. When she is well aroused, you ask the question, what would she want? And when a woman is very excited, she opens up. Not all, but many. And voices his fantasies or desires. Then, when the sex is over, she begins to either feel shame for opening up or awkwardness, then you need to support her in her fantasy.. And if you support her, say that you were turned on by her desire, then she opens up even more. This is an experience from my sex life))

[Lizkkka616]

My husband and I often talk about my and his fantasies. This helps us get to know each other better

[niqk]

My husband and I often talk about my and his fantasies. This helps us get to know each other better

And not only get to know each other, but also get excited...

[Lizkkka616]

niqk, Well, what would we do without it) Usually such conversations turn into a demonstration of desires... This is how they fantasized and found a partner with their husband)))) Now we are discussing fantasies with him, learning and looking for common interests)
One of these days there should be a meeting, so to speak, with knowledge of the matter)

[niqk]

niqk, Well, what about without this) Usually such conversations turn into a demonstration of desires... This is how they fantasized and found a partner for themselves with their husband)))) Now we are discussing fantasies with him, finding out and looking for common interests)
One of these days there should be a meeting, so to speak with knowledge of the matter)

Yes, in a group sex you need to know the program of action so that there is no downtime... I wish you good luck! And it was nice
to get a report from you: how everything went...

[Lizkkka616]

niqk, It will be the first, so to speak, a normal experience and I I’ll definitely share it here)

[niqk]

niqk, Will be the first, so to speak, normal experience and I will definitely share it here)

This is very interesting! Let’s wait!!!

[Greek10]

Half of our fantasies don’t come together, my wife is a follower, she does what she’s told, but I only do what gives her pleasure, the rest is just fantasy. And such fantasies cannot always be realized in real life.

[Skil]

My husband and I are for sharing our desires I’ve been running a topic here for a year now, as we delicately enter the topic of anal and other sweet wishes. Therefore, SHARE and DO NOT be afraid to open up to your loved ones, but carefully

[A charmer]

My husband and I often talk about my and his fantasies. This helps us get to know each other better

Right approach!!! Very correct!!!
Just well done)))
And did you learn a lot about each other?)

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My husband and I are for sharing our desires here I lead It’s been a year since we’ve been delicately entering the topic of anal and other sweet wishes. Therefore, SHARE and DO NOT be afraid to open up to your loved ones, but carefully

There’s not even anything to add!!!
Golden words!!!

[Skil]

There’s not even anything to add!!!
Golden words!!!

Thank you

[A charmer]

There’s not even anything to add!!!
Golden words!!!

Thank you

Were you surprised by each other’s fantasies?

[Skil]

Were you surprised by each other’s fantasies?

We somehow smoothly entered into each other’s fantasies, that there was no shock. They opened up gradually and many fantasies coincided. For example, the topic with rimming and further games towards my husband, I was the initiator, but he fantasized about it before I did and was happy when it occurred to me, but gave control to me
But at first my husband cautiously postponed the topic of exhibitionism, but seeing my impulse, he decided to give me the opportunity to go out at night naked. He said that he had never seen me so happy and even got high from adrenaline

[A charmer]

Were you surprised by each other’s fantasies?

We somehow smoothly entered into each other’s fantasies, which was not a shock. They opened up gradually and many fantasies coincided. For example, the topic with rimming and further games towards my husband, I was the initiator, but he fantasized about it before I did and was happy when it occurred to me, but gave control to me
But at first my husband cautiously postponed the topic of exhibitionism, but seeing my impulse, he decided to give me the opportunity to go out at night naked. He said that he had never seen me so happy and even got high from adrenaline

What a great fellow you are)))
I personally was a little shocked by my imagination wife, when she said that she was excited by the topic of GENG-BENG. She is turned on by the thought of being fucked by 4-5 guys, and roughly. First shock, then rethinking, then her fantasy itself began to excite.

[Skil]

What a great fellow you are)))
I personally was slightly shocked by my wife’s fantasy when she said that she was excited by the topic of GENG-BENG. She is turned on by the thought of being fucked by 4-5 guys, and roughly. First shock, then rethinking, then exciting and her fantasy itself began.

Oh, and your wife is a gourmet and it’s cool that you joined the flow and accepted your wifefurther Was there something fantasy? We somehow began to study geng-beng from the perspective of broadening our horizons, and I will tell you that this is an art with its own rules.
I would like to hear a real review, if there was one))

[A charmer]

What a great fellow you are)))
I personally was slightly shocked by my wife’s fantasy when she said that she was excited by the topic of GENG-BENG. She is turned on by the thought of being fucked by 4-5 guys, and roughly. First shock, then rethinking, then exciting and her fantasy itself began.

Oh, and your wife is a gourmet and it’s cool that you joined the flow and accepted your wifefurther Was there something fantasy? We somehow began to study geng-beng from the perspective of broadening our horizons, and I will tell you that this is an art with its own rules.
I would like to hear a real review, if there was one))

Since I am the owner, and her feelings for me (according to her) are never Let this fantasy come true. As she said, it will remain just her fantasy, which turns her on and excites her greatly. Realizing that she wanted all her holes to be occupied at the same time, I became the initiator of starting to buy various toys. And I’ll be honest, they brought new colors to our intimate life. We use them very actively!

[Skil]

Since I am the owner, and her feelings for me (according to her) will never allow this fantasy to come true. As she said, it will remain just her fantasy, which turns her on and excites her greatly. Realizing that she wanted all her holes to be occupied at the same time, I became the initiator of starting to buy various toys. And I’ll be honest, they brought new colors to our intimate life. We use them very actively

Cool alternative! But I think that if you really want it yourself, your wife will fulfill her dream. If it’s not a secret, how old are you and how long have you been married?

[A charmer]

Since I am the owner, and her feelings for me (according to her) will never allow this fantasy to come true. As she said, it will remain just her fantasy, which turns her on and excites her greatly. Realizing that she wanted all her holes to be occupied at the same time, I became the initiator of starting to buy various toys. And I’ll be honest, they brought new colors to our intimate life. We use them very actively

Cool alternative! But I think that if you really want it yourself, your wife will fulfill her dream. If it’s not a secret, how old are you and how long have you been married?

I’m 36, my wife is 35, we’ve been together for 15 years

[Tanya]

I discuss it with my husband, but within the framework of his character and his views on these things. with friends and with other men in general, you listen more, of course, to their desires and fantasies. But certainly not all of them are feasible and are being implemented.

[Lizkkka616]

And did you learn a lot of new things about each other?

To be honest, yes... And many of our wishes coincided

[A charmer]

And did you learn a lot of new things about each other?

Honestly, yes... Yes, and many desires coincided

For example? If it’s not a secret of course!!!

[Bully Carrie]

We discuss, but in most cases we agree that these are unrealistic fantasies.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

We have a fantasy of flying to a lonely island on the ocean, just the two of us, enjoying the lack of communication and giving ourselves over to love and debauchery)) but this is also an unfortunately impossible fantasy..

[Epidemic]

Partially, yes, we are discussing. But still, there are things that I cannot discuss with anyone. Perhaps this is a complex, but it does not bother me.

[Lizkkka616]

O4arovatell, For example, sex in front of your husband, see how he does blowjob, double and triple penetration