Slowly and deeply.
Well, no one can fit their rules of sex and sexuality for another. Someone is sick of being licked, and the "gopniks" (righteous people, Old Believers, faithful sons of their people) will be punished for this. Some people fuck gently, like a violin, smoothly and slowly, while others fuck like an angry animal. Some people like small and curvy ones, others long and thin ones. Some people go crazy over size 10 tits, while others end up with size minus ones. One person can have so many addictions that if you double them, then sex becomes either a stumbling block ("oh, he finished 10 cm in a minute" or"he already fucked in these 3 hours"), or a basis for absolute pleasure ( "I admire how quickly he cums" or in the style "It’s cool how macho he is, fucking for 5 hours in one position with his 30 cm!
Everything is so unique, individual and personal that all these advisers on the explosion of the virgin or on infernal orgasms fly into nothingness. And every dialogue ends with banal banter, bickering and inclusion in the “list of unclean people.” And all the same, he’s just eager to talk about it, to scratch with his narrow personal knowledge, to imagine himself as some kind of sex guru or an unappreciated macho.
But in essence. We are sitting here because there is no substitute stimulus nearby for us to have ordinary unusual sex. Or he/she is far away and your partner is fed up. Or wasting on the forum is a kind of fetish, an additional attribute to routine fucking with a partner or neighbors.
Sometimes we go in and laugh about how good/bad it is to be a virgin. We will amuse ourselves with what we had and cry about what we missed.
Sex is in everything and always. Even when he is not there.
After all, we replay the wildest depraved scenes in our heads not when our partner is nearby, but in his absence.