Masturbation in marriage.

Unread post by **LediXXX** » 23 Oct 2022, 23:50

Do you masturbate while married? Reason, where and when? Aren’t you afraid of getting burned?

Unread post by **Ivp1967** » 24 Oct 2022, 00:01

I masturbated regularly both before marriage and during marriage. Well, first of all, I like it, and secondly, there’s always not enough sex, so I’m doing some relaxation.

Unread post by **Akteya** » 24 Oct 2022, 00:02

Yes, and that’s quite normal. The libido of partners does not always coincide, or the partner is not always "at hand"

Unread post by **Hottoh** » 24 Oct 2022, 00:06

If you are used to masturbating since childhood, then how can you refuse such pleasure. Sometimes I ask my wife to tell me in my ear about her adventures in her youth and I jerk off to her whisper. And then I come with a fountain...

Unread post by **Woman** » 24 Oct 2022, 00:28

Akteya: 24 Oct 2022, 00:02 the partner is not always "at hand"

that’s the point here.
If he/she is at work, and you day off and wanted...

Unread post by **d4d** » 24 Oct 2022, 01:06

LediXXX: 23 Oct 2022, 23:50 Do you masturbate while married?

Yes.

LediXXX: 23 Oct 2022, 23:50Reason

When the wife is not around, or for one reason or another she has no desire for sex at the moment. In short, everything is simple and banal :)

LediXXX: 23 Oct 2022, 23:50 Aren’t you afraid of getting burned?

What the hell? It’s as if we’re both adults now and we understand everything. Sometimes I can masturbate in front of my wife, I don’t see anything wrong with it.

Unread post by **Faust** » 24 Oct 2022, 01:16

Masturbation and sex are two different things. Masturbation purely serves to relieve sexual tension. Sex is something spiritually relaxing. Replacing masturbation with sex means using your partner instead of your hand. Sort of like that.

Unread post by **Korupan** » 24 Oct 2022, 01:17

This is normal
My wife says jerk off as much as you want, just don’t forget about me

Unread post by **Herurg** » 24 Oct 2022, 01:47

Woman, it turns out that for you sex with a man and masturbation - same?

Unread post by **Piero** » 24 Oct 2022, 02:04

LediXXX, Get burned? In front of whom? In front of your wife? Funny! How can you sleep in front of your wife if you cross-masturbate with her?

Unread post by **Alex would** » 24 Oct 2022, 02:45

Piero,

Piero: 24 Oct 2022, 02:04 LediXXX, Get burned? In front of whom? In front of your wife? Funny! How can you sleep in front of your wife if we cross-masturbate with her?

Not funny at all. It all depends on how used to masturbate. If you’re wearing women’s clothes and have a dildo in your ass, what’s it like for her to look at that?

Unread post by **Akteya** » 24 Oct 2022, 03:09

Alex bi, okay to watch :wink:

Unread post by **denjomin** » 24 Oct 2022, 03:20

I masturbate both before and after marriage. Relieve tension when your partner is not around.

Unread post by **AntonSumy** » 24 Oct 2022, 03:31

This is fine. My wife does this too

Unread post by **Woman** » 24 Oct 2022, 05:40

Herurg: 24 Oct 2022, 01:47 it turns out that for you sex with a man and masturbation are the same thing?

of course not.
But don’t go to the left , if you want, and the man is at work..

Unread post by **AntonSumy** » 24 Oct 2022, 05:43

My wife and I are doing this. We like it

Unread post by **Woman** » 24 Oct 2022, 05:46

Alex bi: 24 Oct 2022, 02:45 If you’re wearing women’s clothes and have a dildo in your ass, what’s it like for her to look at that

I would, of course, be surprised, seeing my man in such an outfit and with such props.
But, I think, we would discuss this with him and next time he would not masturbate alone...

Unread post by **Gas 1981** » 24 Oct 2022, 05:55

I have been masturbating since childhood, now in my second marriage, and I also jerk off. For me, this is an opportunity, at least in my fantasies, to have girls and women who are not available (wives of friends).

Unread post by **Herurg** » 24 Oct 2022, 06:14

Woman, no, I’m talking about something else. It’s just that for me sex and masturbation are different things, they can complement each other, but cannot replace one with the other. Sex is beautiful precisely because of the merging of bodies, desires, and impulses. But masturbation is something else, it’s like a kingdom of dreams where everything is under your control, there’s no need to play or adjust, there’s no time or moral framework.. In a word, different pleasures.

Unread post by **menma** » 24 Oct 2022, 06:23

It’s funny to hide your masturbation or forbid your spouse, but adults

Unread post by **lanaaas341** » 24 Oct 2022, 06:30

I often masturbate to my husband.... there is also mutual masturbation in unusual places...

Unread post by **Ivp1967** » 24 Oct 2022, 07:01

Which ones, tell us)))

Unread post by **LediXXX** » 25 Oct 2022, 05:25

But for me, if you don’t want to change, then that’s quite normal.

Unread post by **Petrovich** » 01 Nov 2022, 03:56

Yes, when there is no woman nearby...

Unread post by **Adiofan** » 01 Nov 2022, 04:02

I think there are hardly any people who “gave up” masturbation after marriage

Unread post by **Sasha.trofimov** » 01 Nov 2022, 04:21

I jerked off, I jerked off, I jerked off, we will jerk off,

Unread post by **libertine** » 01 Nov 2022, 08:44

I was married. I’m 20, she’s 18. There was no variety in sex. Blowjob (very rare) - 2, maximum 3 out of 10, sex - only classic (from the side, me on top, she on top and me from behind), AC - never happened, I could work with my hand, at the same time a blowjob, and then when she’s on her period. So I jerked off when she left for work at 08.00, and I arrived at 07.30. We only fucked on the weekends. I jerked off to porn where they give blowjobs, girls masturbate, and do AC. In short, what I lacked was why I jerked off. Over time, I had AC with a girl, and the blowjob was excellent, and everything, everything, everything was there, but I didn’t stop masturbating.

Unread post by **Gas 1981** » 02 Nov 2022, 08:42

And I’m in my second marriage, and I still jerk off, mostly to photos of girls I know.

Unread post by **dva2dva** » 02 Nov 2022, 11:32

There was and is masturbation in marriage. Unfortunately due to lack of sex. But I would love to do this together with my wife, and for her to do it for me and for me to do it for her, and together with sex and instead of sex. But she doesn’t support my ideas and so I have to do it myself)

Unread post by **Big boy** » 02 Nov 2022, 12:52

dva2dva: 02 Nov 2022, 11:32 Jerking in marriage was and is. Unfortunately due to lack of sex. But I would love to do this together with my wife, and for her to do it for me and for me to do it for her, and together with sex and instead of sex. But she doesn’t support my ideas and therefore I have to do it myself)

Unfortunately, I have the same thing.

Unread post by **Mihaaa 4** » 02 Nov 2022, 19:00

Married for 19 years. masturbation it is not an integral part of almost any person. sometimes he’s excited, but his wife isn’t there or doesn’t want to be there. At first he hid it, but now he knows and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Unread post by **Stepan Rodnoy** » 02 Nov 2022, 19:16

Ooh, no way without masturbation.
I have been doing this since childhood. Having been married for 22 years, I continue to jerk off. The wife knows about this. I just need sex more than my wife. I don’t go after whores. The same mistress is also rare. There is only one thing left, or rather 2, the right or left hand. Masturbation sex, of course, will not replace it, although this also has its own trick. For example, jerk off in an unusual place. I somehow got a strong orgasm while driving my car, and in motion.

Unread post by **Danafil** » 02 Nov 2022, 23:20

I do this often. It also happens at work that something or someone gets excited and drives you). At home, when my wife is sleeping, I sit on the Internet and jerk off to interesting topics. Sometimes I jerk off in front of my wife, she will stand up somehow sexually, not on purpose, or wear something sexy or try on a new purchase, a tight dress or leather leggings. This turns me on a lot. I take it out and jerk off while looking at her. It happens that I cum on these new clothes on her).

Unread post by **The passage** » 02 Nov 2022, 23:43

I have to admit that I always get pleasure from masturbation, but not from sex. Yes, and the pleasures in physical sensations from sex and masturbation are completely different. That’s why I often masturbate after sex. Apparently I’m compensating for the lack of sensations, impressions, and emotions not received during sex.

Unread post by **Civic8** » 02 Nov 2022, 23:55

I gave up on this a long time ago
I just thought at one point, why do I need the girl I live with if I jerk off?
It’s better to live alone and live as you want, and plus when you jerk off a lot, you have less strength and the quality of sex is worse, so I decided to give up this whole thing.

03 Nov 2022, 00:18

In marriage, yes... sex with my ex-husband was once a month, but now not, although there is no man either... but somehow I don’t want to.

Unread post by **Alex7515** » 03 Nov 2022, 00:33

I think this is normal. And it doesn’t matter whether you’re married or not. Maybe we haven’t had sex for a long time. And in principle, you can masturbate to someone.

Unread post by **Mihaaa 4** » 03 Nov 2022, 00:39

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊: 03 Nov 2022, 00:18 In marriage, yes.. I had sex with my ex-husband once a month, but now not, although there is no man either.. but somehow I don’t want to .

That’s right, it’s because you want to, and not because you have to!!!

Unread post by **Shamanakas** » 03 Nov 2022, 03:42

LediXXX: 23 Oct 2022, 23:50 Do you masturbate while married? Reason, where and when? Aren’t you afraid to get burned?

To get burned in front of whom? In front of your wife? I don’t understand why hide it.
It’s not always possible to have sex, but release is required regularly. So both my wife and I jerk off. And we don’t hide it. This will only diversify your sex life.

The only exception: if there is some special evening planned with oil, incense, ropes and belts, then I don’t touch myself for a couple of days in order to perform to the maximum.

Unread post by **somebody** » 03 Nov 2022, 04:17

Masturbation - these are other emotions. There were always women and wives, but once a month you could turn on porn in silence and meditate. That is, you don’t have to work on someone, speed up yourself... Turn on content to your liking and be happy.

Unread post by **Stranger44** » 03 Nov 2022, 04:20

Yes, when I was married I also did this. Not always nearby, and desires did not always coincide in time. And if it was completely unbearable, then she was also involved in a more colorful process)

Unread post by **ask61** » 03 Nov 2022, 04:43

My wife and I often jerk each other off.

Unread post by **Cheeks** » 04 Nov 2022, 23:29

My wife asks me to jerk off in front of her. Sometimes he lies down with his face right in front of the dick and asks me to slowly jerk it.

Unread post by **Juravl** » 05 Nov 2022, 01:47

Yes, when I was married, I masturbated.
I don’t even really know why.
It seems like there’s a wife lying in bed in the next room. She loves sex, never has a headache, also has sex during her period, everything is fine.
Go and have sex with her!

But no!
Working at the computer, watching porn,
quietly jerking off, that If she hadn’t suddenly seen it.
It almost reached the point of phobia. I kept listening to see if the bed was creaking, and if she was getting out of bed to go to the toilet - past me (my room was a walk-through).
Moreover, I masturbated with pleasure, with desire, and received great pleasure from it .
But I didn’t want to have sex with my wife.

Of course, as such, we had sex. Probably once a week. And everything seemed to be fine. But apparently something was missing, since I watched porn with lust at night and satisfied myself.

Unread post by **Alinka** » 05 Nov 2022, 03:50

When I got married, my mother warned me that I was still a very young girl, that being married to a military man would not be easy for me... But then I didn’t understand what she was telling me)))

And since my husband is often absent, I masturbate in marriage, more often than in my youth

Desires often come at me at work, when I’m left alone in the office, after classes in the gym, in the shower, I fell in love with the gym master in the fitting room

but most often, of course, at home, especially when already in bed before bed... Not so long ago, I was walking with my husband’s little brother and he took me to one of his favorite shops, where there were various fun things for teenagers and the top thing was translators... Having seen one of the translators, my little devil in the depths of my soul immediately wove together one idea))) More than once my husband and I talked about tattoos. In a neighboring town, there is a famous man who is a tattoo artist. In short, I translated the translator for myself and appeared in front of my husband when he arrived, saying that I couldn’t resist and surprised him by getting a tattoo... It was a hot night, and his questions about the process of getting a tattoo... My little devil was on fire, writing fables

But from the hot process, the tattoo gave itself away by naturally beginning to wear off... I think that judging by the inquiries that my husband made, he will more than once remember my translation and also secretly play up...

Unread post by **Nick1979** » 22 Dec 2022, 08:08

Constantly masturbated before marriage. And in marriage too. I don’t see anything wrong with this. Firstly, I need it more often than she does. Secondly, she knows about it. I can calmly jerk off in front of her, she will join me if she wants. And also when she’s on business trips, and I need it. So we both feel okay about it.

Unread post by **Vincent** » 22 Dec 2022, 20:38

Nick1979: 22 Dec 2022, 08:08 I masturbated constantly before marriage. And in marriage too. I don’t see anything wrong with this. Firstly, I need it more often than she does. Secondly, she knows about it. I can calmly jerk off in front of her, she will join me if she wants. And also when she’s on business trips, and I need it. So we both have a normal attitude towards this.

It’s the same with our wife, she needs sex much less often than I do, and sometimes with a constant boner It’s physically uncomfortable and vulgar thoughts won’t come out of my head. And sometimes it gets ridiculous: we go to bed at night, I start the process, and she asks me, half asleep: “Is it you jerking off or an earthquake,” she worries. (we live in a seismic zone)

Unread post by **Themselves** » 22 Dec 2022, 20:54

And it happens to me that my wife masturbates, it’s relaxing and it’s nice)

Unread post by **argot** » 22 Dec 2022, 21:02

My wife and I enjoy jerking each other off. And I myself often jerk off alone. Well, I like this thing!

Unread post by **Benzmaster** » 22 Dec 2022, 21:30

Both my wife and I often masturbate and have regular sex, we treat it normally. Desires don’t always coincide; my wife even likes me to watch her jerk off.