What should I do if I start to fall in love with my lover?

Unread post by **Normal Alina** » 01 Nov 2022, 04:16

A married man, my lover, sometimes comes to our neighborhood house in our village. About a month ago we were together for the first time. Now he has a vacation, he came here for a week without his wife, and we fell in love again. And during the next act, he began to tell me “I love you.” I was also freaked out by this, because the same feelings arise in me. He pulls me towards him, if he offered, I wouldn’t mind getting knocked up from him. But he is married, he and I have a child. On the one hand, we need to end the relationship, but damn, I’m really happy with him!

Unread post by **Woman** » 01 Nov 2022, 04:23

NormalAlina: 01 Nov 2022, 04:16 I am drawn to him

this is a common thing: sex, hormones went to the head, oxytocin, chemical love..
Rejoice and enjoy these relationships.
But remember (before the hormones hit your head) you knew that the man was not free and the relationship was not serious.

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NormalAlina: 01 Nov 2022, 04:16 I wouldn’t mind getting knocked up by him

Is this how you show love?

Unread post by **Maariv** » 01 Nov 2022, 04:45

Are you married or single?

Unread post by **Andrey Petrov** » 01 Nov 2022, 04:51

If you are not married, then get pregnant from your loved one! Otherwise it will be too late to give birth. If his wife is not here, then either everything will settle down over time or it will resolve!

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 01 Nov 2022, 05:05

Lover, mistress is an oxygen cushion from problems and a new love, not love, but falling in love)))

Unread post by **The passage** » 01 Nov 2022, 05:34

Without fish and cancer, fish. I think this is not love. Neither the author of the topic nor her lover. This is self-deception.

Unread post by **Normal Alina** » 01 Nov 2022, 09:36

mariv: 01 Nov 2022, 04:45 Are you married or single?

Single. Divorced a long time ago

mariv: 01 Nov 2022, 04:45 If you are not married, then get knocked up by your loved one! Otherwise it will be too late to give birth.

How will I explain this to my child? He is 11 years old

Unread post by **number 74** » 03 Nov 2022, 02:45

Fall in love for a while, the main thing is not to get too carried away.

Unread post by **dva2dva** » 03 Nov 2022, 03:05

If he’s not going to get a divorce. Now is the time to quit before it turns into real love. Because in the future, every meeting will be “pain,” and every separation and thoughts that he went to his wife will be like a knife in the heart. You will be jealous of his wife and cry into your pillow at night, and all this will ultimately end in a breakup anyway. But only with more blood for the nervous system. Therefore, it is better to break it before your ears get into it. But I repeat, this is if he does not divorce his wife. And if you are going to separate, then live happily ever after.))

Unread post by **Akteya** » 03 Nov 2022, 03:15

You need to run) run) he just blurted out, and you got fixated and came up with something