Sex when your partner is at a distance

Unread post by **Nadia** » 27 Nov 2022, 21:28

Hi all!
The problem is this, my partner and I are still in a long-distance relationship and this will continue for another 7 months. He doesn’t have enough sex, there isn’t any at all. And in the next discussion the question was raised about sex with another girl, while I can’t even touch anyone. Tell me how this can affect the relationship, is it worth agreeing and maybe some conditions should be put forward?
I don’t know what to do, I’m a jealous person by nature and I’m afraid that this will ruin the relationship, he may develop feelings for someone else or she has feelings for him, and it’s much easier when your partner is nearby than on your phone.

Unread post by **BackAgain** » 27 Nov 2022, 21:39

Make him a condition that now you will become a gang bang slut. And 3-4 Kyrgyz will use you and look at his reaction.

Well, at least this time it was written without errors - that’s already good.
Next time Nick will just bother choosing a more interesting one. And more text.

Unread post by **Nadia** » 27 Nov 2022, 21:54

Thank you, you made me laugh. But he obviously won’t do that. As for the nickname, I’m here only for this topic, so I didn’t bother too much.

Unread post by **Motorcyclist** » 27 Nov 2022, 22:03

It’s purely my personal opinion that you shouldn’t give him the go-ahead for this.

Unread post by **Nadia** » 27 Nov 2022, 22:06

What then? Can a man endure 7 months? He has constant mood swings against this background. I’m afraid I might get depressed

Unread post by **BackAgain** » 27 Nov 2022, 22:13

Allow him to fuck only a certain category of women. Which one - choose yourself.
* this message was created to support dialogue, in order to increase readability and create an aura of interest

Unread post by **Nadia** » 27 Nov 2022, 22:27

Can I have an explanation? How is that?

Unread post by **Ogest** » 27 Nov 2022, 22:34

Let him deal with himself.

Unread post by **Nickname** » 27 Nov 2022, 22:35

Nadya2236, let him satisfy himself.
If he loves you so much, he will be patient. See you

Unread post by **A charmer** » 28 Nov 2022, 01:19

There are two ways to look at this. It seems like he said it honestly, making his thoughts known, but at the same time, if a person is dear, then you can be patient. When you go into the army, you spend a year and a half without sex, and nothing—everyone is alive!

Unread post by **Stranger44** » 28 Nov 2022, 01:54

I didn’t understand the meaning of the topic. If a person doesn’t stick it somewhere, will he die or something?)
I haven’t had sex for more than a year, and it was frustrating, but it’s not fatal) and if we’re talking about such temporary girls, then that’s already nonsense IMHO, no offense.

Unread post by **JackTheJack** » 28 Nov 2022, 02:03

Nadya: 27 Nov 2022, 22:06 What then? Can a man endure 7 months? He has constant mood swings against this background. I’m afraid that I might get depressed

He will endure it if you are dear to him and if he wants something serious. If you are unhappy with the option that he offered you, then tell him, if he wants sex with someone else, then let him build a relationship with her. In general, so that he doesn’t get bored at all, there are options for him to leave the photos or just arrange a virtual one

Unread post by **March** » 28 Nov 2022, 02:17

Nadya: 27 Nov 2022, 22:06 What then? Can a man endure 7 months? He has constant mood swings against this background. I’m afraid I might get depressed

Order him 4 different artificial vaginas. There will be variety, there will be relaxation. And you won’t be depressed, and you won’t be drawn to the side.

Unread post by **LadyAutumn** » 28 Nov 2022, 02:21

Nadya: 27 Nov 2022, 21:28 And in the next discussion the question was raised about sex with another girl, while I can’t even touch anyone. Tell me how this can affect the relationship, is it worth agreeing and maybe some conditions can be put forward?

Like "he is a husband and he really needs to cum"? Well, let him watch porn and masturbate before bed. And what do you think, he will have sex with someone else and you won’t even be able to look at another man while you are at a distance.

By the way, since such conversations started, there is a possibility that he is there is already fucking someone and decided to insure himself in advance for you if something suddenly comes up from his “secret adventures.”

And another option - sessions joint masturbation via video call.

March: 28 Nov 2022, 02:17 Order him 4 different artificial vaginas.

Why should she order him vaginas? Let him buy it for himself, since he can’t bear it

Unread post by **March** » 28 Nov 2022, 02:27

Lady Autumn: 28 Nov 2022, 02:21 Why should she order vaginas for him? Let him buy it for himself, since he can’t bear it

Let him buy it. I do not mind. But as I understand from the post, Topicaster is primarily interested in such a solution to the issue. And He... he has other options for solving the problem, other plans, apparently.
In short - "...she needs it, so she rows."

Unread post by **LadyAutumn** » 28 Nov 2022, 02:39

March: 28 Nov 2022, 02:27 But as I understand from the post, Topicaster is primarily interested in such a solution to the issue. And He... he has other options for solving the problem, other plans, apparently.

We, of course, do not know the whole situation and the background of this long-distance relationship, It looks like he doesn’t have any problems there, he decided everything for himself. Unfortunately for the top starter

And no matter what option she offers him, he will still do it his own way. After all, she will not be able to control him for several months.

Therefore, ordering artificial vaginas will not help, alas.

Unread post by **March** » 28 Nov 2022, 02:43

Lady Autumn: 28 Nov 2022, 02:39
March: 28 Nov 2022, 02:27 But as I understand from the post, Topicaster is primarily interested in such a solution to the issue. And He... he has other options for solving the problem, other plans, apparently.
We, of course, do not know the whole situation and the background of this long-distance relationship, It looks like he doesn’t have any problems there, he decided everything for himself. Unfortunately for the top starter And no matter what option she offers him, he will still do it his own way. After all, she will not be able to control him for several months.

Therefore, ordering artificial vaginas will not help, alas.

But you are in vain. I will tell you a secret, as a person who knows well the psychology of a man. A man is an extremely lazy creature. And if he has SEVERAL attractive vaginas at his disposal, then he is unlikely to go anywhere - look for adventure on his ass and penis. Why bother straining when there is such a variety at hand?..)))

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 28 Nov 2022, 04:09

Nadia,
7 months is not enough time ... this time, the second time, the guy didn’t fly to the moon... if he can’t come, then you can probably get to him...
Of course, I’ll tell you a terrible thing now... but... separation will just test your relationship... if this is love... you both will endure... Find (I mean both) a way to quench your sexual thirst... And you will jump on other people’s beds... then this is not love but falling in love...
And one more thing... the most destructive thing in a relationship is jealousy... Don’t think about how he allegedly “cheats” on you, and then how not to sleep with someone... Change you still won’t be able to take the course of events... (due to the distance) but upon arrival... everything will be immediately visible... In this case, you will save yourself a lot of nerves... and you won’t spoil your relationships by not trusting...

Unread post by **Nika_miku** » 28 Nov 2022, 04:35

Nadia, If he said about it, that’s already something- that means. My wife and I almost broke down a relationship that lasted 4 years. A girl showed up at my work, but I’m a tactile person and I paw at everyone who crawls into the “you’re interesting to me” category, if it doesn’t piss them off, everything goes as far as hugs, kisses out of friendship, etc. So I wanted to try her, let’s put it this way, and she was also a virgin. But in the end, when my thoughts were already in the stratosphere, I decided that it wasn’t worth it. I called my friend when I was on my way home and simply said “I need to be saved”, in the end we had a very strong fight against this background, “but we don’t have litter for more than 1 day”, we found compromises, after that we decided to go to an event in a swingers club, in the end we were there 2 times. It didn’t really suit her, although she used to do all sorts of nonsense “before me.” But it did for me. But now we communicate freely on such topics. + I’m allowed to date M, but he’s jealous of F all the same because he’s afraid that they’ll try to take him away. But I understand her. Although who needs me

+ then there was a long abstinence. But he won’t be able to stand it for 7 months; his head simply won’t be able to think straight. Sex is a very important aspect of any person!

Unread post by **Nadia** » 28 Nov 2022, 14:39

Thank you all for your advice, tips and opinions, they helped and reassured me a lot, now I know which direction to move.
P.S: I won’t say that he directly raised this topic and suggested this option. Everything was more twisted and based on mutual questions to each other; there was no proposal as such, only slippery runs through the options.

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 28 Nov 2022, 16:13

Nadia,
Calm down... You yourself said that you were jealous... Maybe you got him with your jealousy and he shut him up like that... Or maybe, out of stupidity and youth, he trolled you to see your reaction... Or maybe he really is serious about you... There are a lot of options. .... Don’t torment yourself in vain... believe him... he will be faithful... and upon arrival everything will be cleared up... Men and women can smell betrayal a mile away... but in this case it is important that they live together.. . and if they are separate, then it is not excluded that you may be mistaken in one direction or another...