Serious relationships and marriage

[The passage]

Yesterday I posted a topic about what men like in women and what they don’t like. It’s very nice that many men responded. It was very interesting to read the answers.
They wrote several times that the topic was too big, and also that men like different girls for sex and for relationships. For sex, I have a rough idea of ​​what they need and I also read about preferences.
Oh, my question is this. Men, what woman would you never marry? By not married, I mean an officially registered relationship, and not life in a civil marriage.

[The passage]

So I asked you where your wife worked, where you worked, for the first and second time

Message at 13.08 (by Moscow time).. And about work and about friends.. Read)) answered.

I read it. I don’t understand how I didn’t notice it before. I have a friend like this. When they met, she was a waitress and he was a builder. Now she has her own company, before that she worked as a general director. Oh, I don’t know exactly, but he’s also some kind of boss at a construction company, not a small one, but I have a feeling that he’s unhappy. She drags him upstairs, but it seems to me that he doesn’t need it. Although maybe I’m wrong. But, in any case, I understand you.

Sent after 5 minutes 13 seconds:

You mentioned work and your friends. This, in your opinion, was the beginning of a break in relations. So I asked you where your wife worked, where you worked, the first and second time. She didn’t like your work. Well, write about your friends too. We need to understand that she was wrong, or, on the contrary, that she was right.
You didn’t mention anything else.

I think that even if he talks about his friends and work, no one has the right to decide for him whether they are good or not, whether he needs to change friends and work or not. This will be disrespect for the person both on our part and on the part of his wife.

And respect means not interfering in your husband’s life? She does not interfere in his life, he in hers - these are no longer spouses, but neighbors.

[RazVratnik]

And, respect means not interfering in your husband’s life? She does not interfere in his life, he in hers - these are no longer spouses, but neighbors.

Respect is support, help in solving problems, such interference is acceptable, not when they tell you that your job is crap and your friends are crap. Is such criticism acceptable in your family?

[The passage]

And, respect means not interfering in your husband’s life? She does not interfere in his life, he in hers - these are no longer spouses, but neighbors.

Respect is support, help in solving problems, such interference is acceptable, not when they tell you that your job is crap and your friends are crap. Is such criticism acceptable in your family?

Well, no need to add a gag. The point was that the husband would change his job to a better one, from the point of view of his wife. I think that if he had not met her, he would still have worked as a roofer, and if he had not met his mistress, he might already have been a programmer. Some people need a magic kick called motivation. I understand him simply as a human being, and I understand his wife. They’re just not a couple.

[RazVratnik]

if he had not met her, he would still have worked as a roofer, and if he had not met his mistress, he might already have been a programmer.

If you don’t need a gag, then don’t add)) This concerns everyone, doesn’t it?)
We won’t know what would have happened if he had met someone or not, it happened and okay.
nAny experience is beneficial to one degree or another. And from the bad - a greater lesson can be learned)

[Grass]

I do not accept deception in relationships. In any form, for any reason.

[The passage]

if he had not met her, he would still have worked as a roofer, and if he had not met his mistress, he might already have been a programmer.

If you don’t need a gag, then don’t add)) This concerns everyone, right?)
We won’t know what would have happened if he had met someone or not, it happened and okay.
Any experience is beneficial to one degree or another. And from the bad, a greater lesson can be learned)

I made an assumption based on his own statements. He changed jobs under her pressure. Therefore, it is not difficult to imagine what would have happened if she had not put pressure on him. The fact that she pressed was also of course not correct, but they were not strangers and she wanted to do what was best. Paradise in a hut is good for dreamy romantics who live on everything ready. And, if you really hang around in rented apartments, surviving from paycheck to paycheck, you understand that you need money and the more of it, the better. Happiness does not come from money, as those who have it usually say. And earning money by working ten jobs and one well-paid one are two big differences. This is first of all. And, secondly, an inert spouse has a strong psychological impact.
Those who play sports know that it is very difficult to start, it is very difficult to accustom yourself to exercise regularly, but if there are no classes, for some reason, then very quickly You get used to it and again you need to force it, get used to it again. So it is with personal development. It is difficult to force and easy to do nothing.
You are spinning like a squirrel in a wheel, but he is already happy and of course thoughts will appear that maybe nothing is needed. And, as soon as you lower your hand, then you can no longer raise them.
I had this when I decided that I no longer needed anything. A very dangerous condition.

[Beluga]

It’s not easy to immediately answer

with a frankly stupid dummy
with the one who speaks obscenities

like this right off the wheels, and I’ll add anything else I remember.

Sent after 27 seconds:

Yesterday I posted a topic about what men like in women

and what kind of post was that?

[The passage]

what kind of post was that

This topic is already six months old. I don’t remember

[Beluga]

what kind of post was that

This topic is already six months old. I don’t remember

eh, too bad well, maybe it will come up :)

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

eh, it’s a pity well, maybe it will come up again

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[Beluga]

oh, it’s a pity well, maybe it will come up again n

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:thank you:

[Wild Eskimo]

Men, which woman would you never marry?

Whom you have never loved)

[Beluga]

It’s not easy to immediately answer

with a frankly stupid dummy
with the one who speaks obscenities

right from the wheels, and if I remember anything else, I’ll add.

Sent after 27 seconds:

Yesterday I posted a topic about what men like in women

and what kind of post was that?

and yes, drug addiction and alcoholism are passing by

[gnusmas]

I would never marry a woman who does not tolerate admitting her mistakes. Even in basic everyday matters.

[The exaggeration]

I’m already 41, I’ve never been married, I promised myself that I’ll get married only once and forever. I have been living in a civil marriage for 10 years. And it gets worse and worse. But I can leave and let go. It holds some kind of attachment. There are no common children. There is only a goddaughter who is already 16 years old. Which I love madly and for which I will tear anyone who offends.

[ms240690]

I probably wouldn’t have married if I had known about the woman’s rich sexual past.

[Sidor]

Men, which woman would you never marry?

A fool.

[Truwor]

If the smell of her sweaty armpits and tired toes is not very pleasant, then you should not get married.
Conversely, sometimes the smell of a woman’s body drives a man crazy.

[loving]

I wouldn’t marry if there are no mutual feelings, and if it concerns the woman herself, then if she is boorish, rude, likes to drink or smokes, and has no education.

[Uzername]

I would never marry a woman who drinks and smokes a lot, since I myself do not accept alcohol and do not smoke. Because of this, I am often called a bore, like I need to start drinking, but the problem is that my body does not tolerate alcohol and they even say that women love men who drink lightly, but it’s difficult and difficult to live with non-drinkers... Yes, so that she would be just normal, I don’t know how to describe it, it wouldn’t be a waste.

[yah]

Marinka,
nSo I’m already married
To a beautiful, slender, skillful housewife who doesn’t play around.
We have complete mutual understanding and ideal relationships, both domestic and sexual.
These are the people you should marry - those who complement the guy, with whom the couple becomes one
It may sound stupid and banal - but this is purely my opinion)

Very simple Question - dear, what are you doing on this site then? You demand fidelity from her, but then what are you looking for here?

Sent after 4 minutes 37 seconds:

I wouldn’t marry if there are no mutual feelings, and if it concerns the woman herself, then if she is boorish, a roughneck, likes to drink or smokes, has no education.

I wonder what kind of education will suit you, humanitarian or technical? Will a master’s degree or bachelor’s degree also work? Or maybe college will suit you? What if correspondence goes? And yes, what are the criteria for the educational institution that issued the diploma? What rating should it have?

[Shalun70]

Very simple question - dear, what are you doing on this site then? You demand fidelity from her, but then what are you looking for here?

Don’t lie, you’re not married! Are you married! Or did they remember you again? Pychom, you still have a passion for children...

[Fernando]

Very simple question - dear, what are you doing on this site then? You demand fidelity from her, and then what are you looking for here

A very simple answer to a very simple question.
I read posts here, sometimes I answer them, I’m discussing something, somewhere I’m spyingideas. That’s all.
I’m not looking for anyone here, there’s not the slightest hint of betrayal on my part, so my presence on this forum does not in any way affect my loyalty to my wife, besides, she knows that I come here and can at any time see what and to whom I am writing here.
)))

[shsh]

Uzername, а такие есть ??

[Wow]

Not at all.
After a couple of months, women, in any case, become the same... to put it mildly - domestic policemen.
Yes, within a month, as if on cue, the first quirk is triggered for everyone - the search for a reason to blame.
And with a serious look they come up with a reason using a random set of words - they blame and think (!), I don’t know this “technology” of theirs.

They compromise themselves, showing their boundless aggressive nature - and all for the sake of the desire to be tyrannical - to show power.
Well, they can’t communicate like humans.
The female brain is programmed by the System to reject peaceful relationships.

[March]

After a couple of months, women, in any case, become the same... to put it mildly - domestic policemen.

Come on, let’s escalate... Why are we, for the first time or something? live under total control?
If it doesn’t bother you so much, so be it. If it’s annoying, then even a sporting interest - to diversify existence.