How to behave if your child starts masturbating

Unread post by **Alex** » 29 Sep 2020, 12:18

How to behave if you notice that your child has started to masturbate

Unread post by **March** » 12 Oct 2022, 23:17

niqk: ↑30 Sep 2020, 07:33 Check her for worms, fungus and other infections. Check her clothes:

There were no worms. Fungus and other infections too. I started masturbating at the age of five. The clothes, by the way, were also in order.

Unread post by **Sergo_77** » 20 Oct 2022, 08:08

Stanbuyan: ↑19 Jun 2022, 08:00 then you need to do everything with clean hands and no more than once a week.

)) why wait a week, I’m 45, I’m single and with my mistress once a week, and besides, I play every day and more than once

Unread post by **Polly** » 22 Oct 2022, 06:27

I do not agree with the fact that masturbationbefore 12 years of age is not fun. I started masturbating at the age of 8, consciously. I enjoyed it. I was looking forward to the end of classes so that I could quickly go home to my favorite activity.

Unread post by **racer** » 22 Oct 2022, 06:31

Polly: ↑22 Oct 2022, 06:27 I don’t agree with the fact that masturbationbefore 12 years of age is not fun. I started masturbating at the age of 8, consciously. I enjoyed it. I was looking forward to the end of classes so that I could quickly go home to my favorite activity.

I completely agree, I have been working since I was 6 years old) my younger sister, since she was 5 years old, has been fingering her pussy and whispered a secret about how great it was

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 29 Oct 2022, 07:38

Vika1,
You are very correct they wrote... and my experience was similar to yours... first knowledge... and then only pleasant sensations... But unlike your mother... mine caught me late... I already learned from I was pleased with this and it was too late for me to explain that this is bad and no one does that... Although she wanted to explain exactly this to me... But this is not right, since a person should know how to relieve stress so as not to cause trouble in the rest of his life. ..

Unread post by **dva2dva** » 29 Oct 2022, 07:53

Don’t scold. Just explain that this is an intimate procedure and it is advisable to do such things in private places, such as a toilet, bathroom, or your own bed before going to bed, and not put your hand into your panties in front of everyone.

Unread post by **Pervert** » 29 Oct 2022, 08:30

I agree, swearing will not lead to anything good. It’s better to talk softly and explain what it is and why. And videos and sex encyclopedias for teenagers will only help. Plus, you can watch bloggers, they are now the center of opinion and can have a positive influence and explain.
Everything, as they say, is in your hands. (Hussars - be silent!)

Unread post by **Vasa007** » 30 Oct 2022, 05:49

Remember yourself at his age

Unread post by **March** » 30 Oct 2022, 05:58

Pervert: ↑29 Oct 2022, 08:30 It’s better to talk softly and explain what it is and why. And videos and sex encyclopedias for teenagers will only help.

Yes? Very interesting... Can you imagine yourself in his place? How would this help you personally? The fact that they would master the technique faster?
All this is nonsense - if a person starts masturbating, only sex can distract him from it. And even then - only for a while.

Unread post by **Pervert** » 31 Oct 2022, 16:23

March: ↑30 Oct 2022, 05:58 Yes? Very interesting... Can you imagine yourself in his place? How would this help you personally? The fact that they would master the technique faster?

I can’t imagine myself, I remember my youth. There were just teenage books about sex, a biology textbook and a thirst for new things.
I don’t agree about the nonsense, to each his own

Unread post by **March** » 31 Oct 2022, 23:28

Pervert: ↑31 Oct 2022, 16:23
March: ↑30 Oct 2022, 05:58 Yes? Very interesting... Can you imagine yourself in his place? How would this help you personally? Because they would master the technique faster?

I don’t agree about the nonsense, to each his own

Do you seriously believe that if a person has already started jerking him off, something can distract him from this process? Have you had a similar experience?

Unread post by **Vic** » 01 Nov 2022, 01:41

Everyone does this and no one has grown hair on their palms.

Unread post by **Leopold-57** » 01 Nov 2022, 03:41

7 years is still too early. You can try to distract in some way or explain tactfully that everything has its time. Do not scold under any circumstances.

Unread post by **Vasyavasilëk** » 01 Nov 2022, 09:56

I already had an orgasm when I was 6 years old, if not 5
From the shower first.
Then I started masturbating with my hands
Up to 6 times a day, until I got a headache..

Yes, I wish I had those opportunities now....
Once my mother’s lover burned me, but no one said anything....

At the age of 5-6 there was an interest in girls to touch their pussies.
The concept of full-fledged sex back then was just something to look at and touch. I liked mature adult aunts.

By the way, my mistress once told me about a boy who stroked her legs (she works in a kindergarten)
So the boy grew up and somehow fucked her...

And girls at 5-6 years old either clench their legs rhythmically and come to sleep, or they shove shoes at themselves... Acceleration is in full swing..

Unread post by **Juravl** » 05 Nov 2022, 01:32

It seems to me that everything has already been said before.
It’s pointless to scold and there’s no point in it.
It’s also impossible to focus on this, so as not to cause fears and complexes in the child.

I would simply not pay attention, but somehow try to distract the child with some other activities - sports clubs, dancing, hobbies, etc.

Unread post by **March** » 08 Nov 2022, 03:10

Leopold-57: ↑01 Nov 2022, 03:41 7 years is still too early. You can try to distract in some way or explain tactfully that everything has its time. Do not scold under any circumstances.

Stupidity. If a person (in this case, a child...) begins to masturbate, it means his body requires it. There is no use fighting this. You can try something medicinal - bromine preparations, valerian, but - do you need it? - to poison a child?
Talking is not only useless - trying to put pressure on him means causing a negative response - he will not be able to stop physically (see above), which means he will have a guilt complex, will be depressed, will begin to hide from you. And this is worse than bromine drugs. And do you need it?

Unread post by **Alexs43** » 08 Nov 2022, 03:17

I completely agree, you shouldn’t focus on this and everything will be fine

Sent after 6 minutes 20 seconds:
My first daughter was calm in this regard, but the second one had such problems

Unread post by **March** » 09 Nov 2022, 03:11

Juravl: ↑05 Nov 2022, 01:32 yes, I would somehow try to distract the child with some other things - sports clubs, dancing, hobbies, etc.

Yeah... distract. .. The youngest daughter was sent to the sports section. There she met with orgasm. Not related to sex in any way - she did the splits...

Unread post by **Kostiai72** » 09 Nov 2022, 03:27

The child will still not stop masturbating. Threats, persuasion, prohibitions, attempts to distract will not work. Physiology will take its toll. It’s best to just talk normally, explain what and how. And if he shows attention to the parent, there is no need to get angry and hysterical. On the contrary, we must maintain his interest and provide food for his fantasies. Then the relationship will be harmonious and trusting.

Unread post by **alex1994** » 13 Nov 2022, 11:26

No way. Normal natural process

Unread post by **Wot_ja** » 13 Nov 2022, 11:35

Insatiable: ↑16 Feb 2021, 15:42 You can’t focus on this, if you start scolding, he will generally hide, or somewhere outside the house he will start jerking off, and then maybe someone will see and the consequences will be disastrous.
We had such a case, we noticed, that the children touched our “toys”, began to look after them and saw that the older one showed interest.
We gave him a sex book, it seems like we accidentally forgot where it is described in detail masturbation and technique
Then they left the lubricant, and one of my toys.
Gradually he began to retire to his room, we started watching on the computer, found porn and everything worked out.
A year later he started dating a girl and brings her home
We decided put a “bug” in his room and watched with his wife as their children masturbated, there was no sex for almost two years.

Gentlemen from the family of Hans Christian Anderson I understand so

Unread post by **Alexs43** » 13 Nov 2022, 11:56

I wouldn’t pay attention that way

Unread post by **Artem.Maxsimov** » 13 Nov 2022, 12:02

Insatiable, it’s not bad to notice how teenagers do this. My sister and I started playing around when we were 9-10 years old.

Unread post by **Petrovich** » 20 Nov 2022, 03:39

Nothing to do.......

Unread post by **Legos** » 25 Nov 2022, 14:44

No way, pretend you don’t know anything. Everyone has gone through this.

Unread post by **Cat Matroskin.** » 21 Dec 2022, 04:40

I started at seven and a half, and a classmate told me how to squeeze my legs “to make it feel good.” But others from 3 years old. My mother is a kindergarten teacher and was constantly scolding someone’s hands under the blanket. Mostly only girls.
And another case. A girl (1st grade) was transferred from Kakhovka. Dad took the drunks from mom. So, not only does she smoke and drink, but she also gave blowjobs to men for three rubles, in her home in Kakhovka. She got caught wanting to be fucked by a high school student in the locker room. She pestered him, and he complained to the teacher.
And the teacher was hysterical, because by the age of 22 she had never slept with anyone - she was a virgin.

Unread post by **Mishanja11** » 21 Dec 2022, 04:52

Alex: ↑29 Sep 2020, 12:18 How to behave if you notice that your child has started to masturbate

It depends on what kind of child you have. If you are shy, it’s better to pretend that you didn’t notice anything, otherwise he will withdraw. If he is open, you can talk to him about it, although personally I don’t see much point.

Unread post by **Izumi** » 28 Jul 2023, 01:49

Well, definitely not to scold or shame. the child does not understand what he is doing. just exploring your body.

Unread post by **etc** » 28 Jul 2023, 05:50

Alex: ↑29 Sep 2020, 12:18 How to behave if you notice that a child has begun to masturbate

Nothing.

Unread post by **As1111** » 28 Jul 2023, 05:55

My 9 year old tires with all her might, she likes her mother, she doesn’t tell me, she told me, I had a conversation that this is normal and she has a separate room, more often than not, when my mother is not there, I hear but I don’t hear

Unread post by **The passage** » 28 Jul 2023, 05:55

It’s time to talk about the changes that are happening to the child. It is easy to tell why, what and why all this is for.

Unread post by **SeRg !$!** » 28 Jul 2023, 05:56

the questions are amazingly stupid...
what should I do, my child began to walk
what should I do, my child came off the breast and began to eat on his own

*x )

*x )
throw some magazines and napkins and let him know his body to his delight

Unread post by **niqk** » 28 Jul 2023, 06:31

Marinka: ↑28 Jul 2023, 05:55 It’s time to talk about the changes that are happening to the child. It’s easy to tell why, why and what all this is for.

Hmmm... Parents might have told... And it’s not even very accessible. .. Only - yourself - no boom-boom...

Unread post by Coock Old*** » 27 Aug 2023, 13:30

I have been jerking off since childhood, my mother caught me doing this more than once (I also jerked off while peeping at her), scolded me, shamed me, even spanked me, but nothing helped. Then she apparently gave up on it. By the way, my mother is a doctor.

Unread post by **Yjjooo** » 27 Aug 2023, 14:30

Nothing special. This is the norm - everyone jerks off. The main thing is to explain what should not be done in public)

Unread post by **Dean44** » 21 Oct 2023, 19:18

Coock Old***: ↑27 Aug 2023, 13:30By the way, my mother is a doctor.

Some strange doctor, usually doctors are loyal to such manifestations in childhood and even someone... but they know well that this is quite normal.

Unread post by **Ivan.gorelov** » 21 Oct 2023, 19:22

As if no one did this in childhood, remember

Unread post by **Ted_2023** » 21 Oct 2023, 20:48

SSK: ↑21 Sep 2022, 06:53
Alex: ↑29 Sep 2020, 12:18 How to behave if you notice that a child has begun to masturbate
Help, suggest, show by example

a fool or what? Were you taught your idiocy as a child? Everything should be natural

Unread post by **Alexb** » 21 Oct 2023, 21:37

The main thing that needs to be explained is that this is an intimate and personal process and you can engage in masturbation, but in your own space. My wife and I missed the time when we could explain that this was all intimate, we didn’t want to interfere, we thought that everything would pass anyway, and when I found my daughter at a party who was teaching her friends’ daughter how to masturbate, we still had to explain, but everything was very difficult. I found myself in very stupid situations, my daughter sometimes did everything out of spite.
Someone wrote that if early masturbation in girls, you definitely need to check for worms and underwear and clothes for synthetics, ours started masturbating early, but she didn’t understand what it was.

Unread post by Coock Old*** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:02

Dean44: ↑21 Oct 2023, 19:18 Some strange doctor

A normal doctor, it’s not for you to judge her.

Unread post by **Andrey Lukashov** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:28

Alex: ↑29 Sep 2020, 12:18 How to behave if you notice that your child has started to masturbate

Arrange a joint masturbation session with him. He will understand that it is not beautiful, he will feel ashamed and he will stop doing it :)

Unread post by **slavik.meshalkin** » 25 Oct 2023, 10:26

Andrey Lukashov: ↑25 Oct 2023, 09:28
Alex: ↑29 Sep 2020, 12:18 How to behave if you notice that a child has started to masturbate
Arrange a joint jerk-off session with him. He will understand that it is not beautiful, he will feel ashamed and he will stop doing it :)

Slowly he will do everything smoothly, it’s like a drug

Unread post by **peppersweet** » 26 Oct 2023, 09:10

Initially, build relationships so that it is normal for the child to come for advice. Teach to understand the basis of "public opinion" that not everything can be discussed with everyone, but this does not mean that taboo things are shameful and wrong. Healthy psyche! Safety! And then everything else - freedom, emancipation, etc.

Unread post by **natalya.harita** » 26 Oct 2023, 10:56

Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with this.

Unread post by **March** » 30 Dec 2023, 09:15

peppersweet: ↑26 Oct 2023, 09:10 Initially build relationships so that it is normal for the child to come for advice.

Would you personally go for advice in his place?
If yes - then for what? )))

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