I want to stop being bi

[PussyLicker]

Hello to the forum. I’m bisexual at the moment, I sleep with girls and guys, too, but I want to be completely straight, quit sex with guys and get rid of attraction to them. Once upon a time I started fucking with guys because I had sex problems with girls, and thus sought satisfaction of the need. Now my attraction to guys has literally reached the point of some kind of addiction, and I really want to get rid of it. As usual: I sleep with girls, the sex is great, I don’t think about guys, and then it stops and I compulsively start looking for sex with a guy, like an alcoholic or drug addict who quits and then breaks down. And every time I have sex with a guy, I start to think: why did I do this, dun?.. After every sex with a guy, the topic of gayness and bi becomes disgusting. Then I only fuck chicks, I don’t want to be with guys, and again I have a “breakdown” again, and again I’m disgusted by what I’ve done. I don’t know, maybe someone has encountered this and will share advice on how to stop...

[Go ahead]

I’m sorry, maybe I’m writing off-topic, but think about it, do you really need it - stop? I also worried for a long time that I was bisexual. I also wanted not to be like that. There was non-acceptance, self-consciousness, depression, isolation, fear. After an unconventional relationship, at first there was shame and embarrassment. And then I accepted this part of myself and life became easier.
Why do you feel disgusted by this, perhaps because of the stereotypes and attitudes that are accepted in society? You do this not under pressure, but because you want to. Does it hurt anyone? Is this consensual? Does it bring pleasure or joy? Is it safe?
It seems to me that you are still young. Think about which thoughts are truly inherent to you, and which are imposed from the outside, by someone. Believe me, a person who has lived for more than ten years according to stereotypes imposed by someone - living according to someone else’s canons is a waste of precious time, you need to listen to yourself and your true desires and do what brings pleasure and joy in this fucking short life ) and especially you need to do cool things in your youth, while you have beauty, health and strength. You will be 30-40-50-60 years old and you will regret what you didn’t do when you had the time and opportunity. I’m already thinking - where the hell are my 18 years, and they were spent on fear and embarrassment, there is something to remember, but if I could rewind time back, I would live in such a way that there would be a lot more memories))
But the only thing is in sex, are you not going to build a serious relationship in the near future?

[SashkaBishka]

Everything is said very correctly, I will only add that over the years the manifestation of bishnost becomes much weaker, because the desire for sex is much less. It scares me, how part of yourself dies off, part of life becomes unnecessary (but then you become the most ordinary classic family man. Alas. So you don’t have to be led on a leash by public opinion, then you’ll be thirsty

[Go ahead]

over the years, the manifestation of bishnost weakens much

Wow, as happens, it hasn’t weakened for me yet). Well, that means there is no need for anyone to suffer, there will be no need - it will fall off on its own)

So don’t be led on a leash by public opinion, then you’ll be thirsty

Yes, that’s what I meant)

[Sashvasha]

Everything is said very correctly, I’ll only add that over the years the manifestation of bishnost weakens much

The level of hormones drops, it’s simple

[Pirate]

I don’t know, the desire doesn’t disappear. I can’t do it with women anymore... But with men in a female role... it’s also sex... but I want sex more and more

[Dark]

I have the same thing)) only I go to trannies. 1-2 times a year, first I start thinking about it, I watch porn with them, then I decide to go, I go and that’s it, after the visit, they become not interesting to me, I don’t want to see porn with them for at least a month, I also scold myself for that that I went again...