Sexual violence

[Anonymous]

Violence

I wrote that I welcome quasi-violence in sex , but recently an emergency occurred. During the blowjob, my lover roughly grabbed my head and tried to insert his penis completely into my throat. And that one, bitch, is big and thick - completely out of shape for my modest neck. I tried to break free, but the man held me tightly until I started kicking with my whole body. Tears, snot, curtain.

I ask: “Are you an abuser?” He kisses, strokes and answers: “What are you, little. I’m just a little dominant in sex.” I refrained from giving a lecture about voluntariness and safe words. I feel manipulated: first I hurt, then I gently calmed her down. Thanks to the emotional hook, I became even more attached to myself. Only after this incident did I better understand women who depend on narcissists, neurotics and tyrants.

Is he a manipulator?

[Nika_miku]

In fact, dominance in sex begins to get boring over time, so role reversal is often used. If he is dominant, then we can talk about it. Changing roles does not necessarily imply penetration, just changing the position of sub to dom and vice versa. Such people are called switches or switches; this strengthens the relationship, because you feel confident in a partner who can, even if only for a short time, transfer the initiative into your hands

[always fuck]

I had sex for the first time at the age of 13, I’m 28 years old now, I always fuck in the mouth, I enjoy it when the scum resists

[yaoishica]

I wrote that I welcome quasi-violence in sex, but recently an abnormal situation occurred. During the blowjob, my lover roughly grabbed my head and tried to insert his penis completely into my throat. And that one, bitch, is big and thick - completely out of shape for my modest neck. I tried to break free, but the man held me tightly until I started kicking with my whole body. Tears, snot, curtain.

. You wrote about an isolated incident; it’s not clear how to comment here. Does he do this all the time? Or he’s your new lover. And how old are you? Well, that is, you started having sex not long ago. Because everything you described is the usual reaction, at least for me a blow job always goes like this. But I like the smell, the taste, how the man reacts, how he groans with pleasure. Once on this forum I told about something that doesn’t work out for me like in the movies. The boys didn’t teach much. But I consulted with a doctor. My throat reflex is too weak. I can’t even drink carbonated water because my throat tingles. Even when I gargle, I feel nauseous. Well, I talked to my husband, he said that he would be patient, but I like deep blowjobs and swallow sperm, I adore its taste and smell. Maybe you should talk or change your lover or endure. Something like this.