I want anal sex, but my wife is against it

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how to convince her? how to do everything correctly?
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evgeniy: 08 May 2020, 06:20 how to convince her? how to do everything correctly?
This is a very difficult matter. It’s best to find good instructions on the Internet...
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This is a long time. You need a lot of special lubricant and introduce it very carefully and gradually with small movements. And before that, she needs to be aroused. There, by the time you plant the cones on the floor, about 20 minutes will pass, not counting the excitement stage. Well, although if you are small, everything will be simpler
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Start with sex toys. Stretch gradually. I stretched my husband so much
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evgeniy: 08 May 2020, 06:20 how to convince her? how to do everything correctly?
And you first determine whether she is interested in anal. There are many people who have few nerve endings in their anus. You can’t force someone like that to give up your ass!
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Try it on yourself first
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Guest_781: 05 Aug 2020, 02:51 Try it on yourself first
And you think this is a guarantee?
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Yes, it’s not a guarantee.. let her excite you first.. it will excite her.. then she will give it to you.
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Guest_781: 12 Aug 2020, 02:00 It’s not a guarantee..let her get you started first..it will excite her..then she’ll give it to you too
Is that how you wanted anal?
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evgeniy: 08 May 2020, 06:20 how to convince her? how to do everything correctly?
Try to start with foreplay and caress, she should get excited, then gently caress with your fingers there, but if the excitement is strong, then she she won’t mind
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The first one didn’t let me either, but the second one just went ahead.
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evgeniy: 08 May 2020, 06:20 how to convince her? how to do everything correctly?
Start with a back massage. Then the thighs, buttocks and the entire perineum without emphasis on the anus. When she relaxes after a few times, strongly excite her with a vaginal massage and begin to lightly touch her anus. If he doesn’t reject it, start massaging more intensively without inserting your fingers. If this doesn’t scare her away, then you can lightly insert your finger. Use plenty of lube. Maybe massage oil. If somewhere she rejects, return to the previous stage and do not go further several times, then once she relaxes, try it again. She needs to understand that as soon as she says no, you back down. And then at some time, at a moment of excitement, she may decide to try to let you go further. When you get used to one finger. Start getting used to two. Then you can try the penis.
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Sprinkle crushed phenozepam and oddery thoroughly
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To ensure that anal sex does not cause pain but only pleasure, use an anal plug before intercourse!
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If I were you, I would do what you want, your wife should give it where you tell her, and not where she wants
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In short and to the point, my first wife didn’t give me in the ass, I found someone who does, and now I’m married to someone else and we’re fine with it. And she takes care of her, probably her ass, but alone...
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There are no women who don’t take it in the ass. There are bad asking or bad caressing partners. There were about 30 partners, not one refused. Really liked it 4. One of them just came and swore. And there were times when you shoved it twice, and you understand that she doesn’t get pleasure, but is simply waiting for you to cum, but it’s not that interesting. It’s a thrill when a friend leaks straight from anal sex and cums.
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More assertive, more confident. Everything will work out, the main thing is not to give up. Step by step go towards the goal. Girls love pleasant words, affection, start with this, and then act on a whim; there is no standard scheme. With creativity and plenty of lubrication)
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evgeniy: 08 May 2020, 06:20how to convince her?

You need to find out the reason why she doesn’t want to.

If she previously had negative experience or she does not enjoy the AS, then all is not lost. You can try..
But if it’s upbringing, for example, or health problems (in this place), then you won’t be convinced. Either accept it or look for another woman.
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evgeniy: 08 May 2020, 06:20 how to do everything correctly?
Slowly talk about it first, then during intimacy, caress the anus. The main thing is that she gets excited and flows. Buy a small butt plug. I started with this, but now they fuck together and it’s normal.
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Well, that’s how it was for me, she didn’t want to and suggested that I try it myself, we bought an anal plug to start with and inserted it into each other, then she fucked me with her fingers and things went well, she started giving me in the ass, and now we’ve come to the strap-on! it’s a fucking thrill!
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First you need to talk, discuss why she doesn’t want to... as they already wrote above, perhaps there is something wrong with her health, then all these instructions on where to iron and where to smear are meaningless. You have to live with her....
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How the hell can we talk it out?😅
When we start trying, she involuntarily tenses up, and that’s where it all ends(
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Don’t convince if she said it wasn’t hers. Otherwise, only one will get the buzz. And this is just anal rape.
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Bestrafer38: 04 Oct 2023, 23:10 How the hell do we talk it out?😅
When we start trying, she involuntarily tenses up, and that’s all ends(
Is the cork in the photo accepted normally???
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Bestrafer38: 05 Oct 2023, 08:05 Fargal94, but no penis
Is the plug much smaller than the penis?
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Bestrafer38: 05 Oct 2023, 08:05 but there is no penis
So the girl is just afraid! Here you have to work and work...
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Try to give her something to drink so that she can’t stand on her feet, but don’t drink it yourself. when the drunk woman collapses, start fucking her in the pussy first, and when she relaxes, start fucking her in the ass. Lubricate well beforehand. and you’ll have a blast. in general, a wife has no right to refuse sex since it is already your property.
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Roma69696969: 18 Jan 2024, 00:09 a wife has no right to refuse sex since it is already your property.
Oh how...
And then men did not know. (With)
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Roma69696969: 18 Jan 2024, 00:09 . in general, a wife has no right to refuse sex since it is already your property.
What brilliant nonsense!
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Roma69696969: 18 Jan 2024, 00:09 ...in general, a wife has no right to refuse sex since it is already your property.
what a huge, and unfortunately, dangerous misconception
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Oh, I don’t know why so many of you like it in the ass. After all, to do this, you first need to rinse it from the inside, clean everything, and then stick it in.
When I got together with one, we got so drunk on beer and after a blowjob she offered me in her ass. I did. Bitch...she didn’t wash it in the bathroom. And you understand what was on my penis. Frankly, this hole is not exactly for that. Fucking hell... We have a pussy, we stick it in there, we get an orgasm. There is a mouth that can caress. And the ass? Kick... no, I definitely won’t put it there again.
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Evgeniy80: 18 Jan 2024, 01:48 I don’t know why so many of you like it in the ass. After all, to do this, you first need to rinse it from the inside, clean everything, and then stick it in.
When I got together with one, we got so tipsy on beer and after a blowjob she offered me in her ass. I did. Bitch...she didn’t wash it in the bathroom. And you understand what was on my penis. Frankly, this hole is not exactly for that. Fucking hell... We have a pussy, we stick it in there, we get an orgasm. There is a mouth that can caress. And the ass? Kick... no, I definitely won’t put it there again
Yes, you’re out of luck guy...
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Cowboy2: 18 Jan 2024, 01:57 Yes, you’re out of luck guy...
So here you go) Now after this, there’s no desire at all) well, you understand)
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Evgeniy80: 18 Jan 2024, 01:48 There is a pussy, we stick it there, we get an orgasm. There is a mouth that can caress. And what about the ass?
And I like to fuck girls in the ass. By the way, once it happened to you)) Well, it’s okay, it happens. We washed ourselves and moved on!
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Moray eel0314: 18 Jan 2024, 01:24 what a huge, and unfortunately, dangerous misconception
I am for a patriarchal world. if a woman gets married, then there shouldn’t be any. It’s no longer a candy bouquet period. the husband wants to fuck and will fuck. and this feminism was invented by insecure women whom no one will fuck anyway.
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Roma69696969: 18 Jan 2024, 00:09 when the drunk one collapses, start fucking in the pussy first, and when she relaxes, sharply in the ass
If suddenly, in the unheated ass... There all the hops will fly out of the head and there will be no continuation.
:oops: I had experience, I drove in drunk...
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If the ass is relaxed and lubricated, then nothing will happen
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Roma69696969: 18 Jan 2024, 00:09 Try to give her something to drink so that she can’t stand on her feet, but don’t drink it yourself. when the drunk woman collapses, start fucking her in the pussy first, and when she relaxes, start fucking her in the ass. Lubricate well beforehand. and you’ll have a blast. but in general, a wife has no right to refuse sex since it is already your property.
So, I don’t understand, some kind of contradiction is felt in this scenario.. .You yourself couldn’t explain to your wife what she is obliged to give in the ass? Well, since you need to give him something to drink or tie up first, so that in the process you won’t be left without a source of pride? 8-)
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bot458, Mine wasn’t against anal, but and didn’t show much desire, maybe she was afraid. The first time I still insisted and blew it. After a while again, and now sometimes she asks for it in the ass...

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bot458 , Mine didn’t seem to be against anal, but she didn’t show much desire either, maybe she was afraid. The first time I still insisted and blew it. After a while again, and now sometimes she asks for it in the ass...
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evgeniy: 08 May 2020, 06:20 how to convince her? how to do everything correctly?
Fuck this to you. My wife doesn’t like it in the ass either. In the pussy no problem at all. I also like it in the pussy better. I don’t even want to stick it in my ass. You can stain your dick with shit.
Before you ask your wife about this, you need to understand for yourself that the ass is for shitting, and the pussy is for fucking, having fun and reproducing.
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Murzik45: 06 Feb 2024, 06:45 bot458, Mine didn’t seem to be against anal, but she didn’t show much desire either, maybe she was afraid. The first time I still insisted and blew it. After a while, again, and now sometimes she asks for it in the ass...
Well, he insisted, and did not rape. This is different.
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Look on the side or change your wife, I changed :yes:
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Everyone: 06 Feb 2024, 21:39 ...or change my wife, I changed
also a working option :D
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evgeniy: 08 May 2020, 06:20 how to convince her? how to do everything correctly?
Well, it’s your ass, fuck off))) what does the wife have to do with it?

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Seriously, it happened to girls (mistresses, future wife, just friends): we’ve been dating for a while, we’ve had sex several times already, both orally and with our hands and vaginally... and then - or is she asking herself, like, are you going to ask for anal now? Or you caress her anal in the doggy style position with a slobbering finger... in general, the point is to get her to ask about anal sex. Then you roll your eyes and in a confused voice, as if embarrassed, you say that you have never even tried and don’t even know how or what to do... the “complete Dunno” mode. And then it turns on “pfft, let me explain, show you, etc.”

It worked at 70-80 percent)))

They just had a blast that they are so advanced compared to your background)))
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bot458: 06 Feb 2024, 03:50 You yourself couldn’t explain to your wife that she has to fuck her ass
I’m not fucking my wife yet. For now, let him be capricious. I’ll get married and she won’t have any excuses or tricks.
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Roma69696969: 07 Feb 2024, 14:56 I’m not fucking my wife yet. For now, let him be capricious. I’ll get married and she won’t have any problems or tricks.
Well, at least you don’t need to give her something to drink :)
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bot458, That’s right, I just insisted... really, how I ended up …. Kick-ass swearing.😂😂😂
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The most important thing here is trust. You need your partner to trust you. So that there is no shame from awkward situations.
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