After I came, it’s no longer pleasant, is this normal?

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 After I came, it’s no longer pleasant, is this normal?

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Dear ladies, need advice in terms of your feelings after orgasm - my girlfriend has a situation where she can cum only from stimulation of the clitoris (physiologically this is how it happened).
And so she always asks you to fuck and cum yourself first and then bring her to orgasm with my fingers, if during sex I start to gently caress her, then after a while he removes my hand.

He justifies this by the fact that when I finished, the feeling of a freak inside is no longer pleasant - has this happened to you?

Do you have any suggestions on how to improve the situation, maybe take a break, or change the position?
I absolutely love the feeling when she cums with my dick inside, and I want to do it several times " at a time" to bring it to the end.
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I had a friend with the same problem, she only came once while she was sitting on me. And so mostly I received orgasm from oral stimulation of the clitoris.
Perhaps it has to do with the structure of the genital organs. And a lot depends on what’s in a person’s head.
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Hector: 30 Oct 2022, 01:25 He justifies this by the fact that when he has finished, the freaky sensations inside are no longer pleasant - have you had this?
Sometimes she has finished, that is, she has had an orgasm, a real one, not make-believe, which is unfinished, then "penis movements" can cause discomfort. But usually after an orgasm, I personally don’t want anything and don’t experience any sensations. In my opinion, it depends on the lady’s degree of excitement.
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I had a friend who came only from cunnilingus. The factions did not turn her on at all. But her problem was that she knew how to jerk off by crossing her legs, even without arms. I read somewhere that this interferes with normal sex.
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jonny_t: 30 Oct 2022, 06:33 ... But her problem was that she knew how to jerk off by crossing her legs, even without arms. I read somewhere that this interferes with normal sex.
It doesn’t bother me, although I can do this too...
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Doesn’t it interfere with getting an orgasm normally during regular sex with penetration? A friend of mine had problems with this and was only saved by a fetish.
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My ex-wife, when we met after the divorce only for cunnilingus, always as soon as she came (for more than half an hour, she rubbed her tongue and mouth until she had blood blisters, tried hard. AS WELL AS THICK WHITE LUBRICANT FLOWED, SHE STARTED PUSHING ME WITH MY FEET MY HEAD AND THERE IS NO SPEAK ABOUT RECIPROCITY (ONLY LICKED ONCE AND I FUCKED HER ANUS AND AFTER FUCKED HER ASS. SOME LADIES LOVE TO FUCK IN THE ASSHOLE, AND I LOVE WHEN THEY ARE CARESHED.
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jonny_t, who is the question? :voprosy:
jonny_t: 30 Oct 2022, 10:21 Does it interfere with getting an orgasm normally during regular sex with penetration?
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Most women, as soon as they have an orgasm, begin to consider you unnecessary
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Amateur: 30 Oct 2022, 10:48 most women, as soon as they get an orgasm, begin to consider you unnecessary
I understand your desire to throw in your 5 cents, but that’s beside the point. This is not the question.
Nelli2000: 30 Oct 2022, 05:26 Sometimes I came, that is, I got an orgasm, a real one, not a fake one, which is unfinished, then "movements of the penis" can cause discomfort. But usually after an orgasm, I personally don’t want anything and don’t experience any sensations. In my opinion, it depends on the degree of excitement of the lady.
Thank you, I was waiting for such reviews.

Nelli2000, what if you rest a little and start caressing again?
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mine asked me to insert my penis into her and just feel it inside, but sometimes I couldn’t stand it and I started to ani, but she immediately called me names and drove me away. and there were those who had to do it 8 times
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Amateur: 30 Oct 2022, 10:36 WILL FLOW A THICK WHITE LUBRICANT
Won’t you get thrush for an hour?

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Nelli2000: 30 Oct 2022, 10:38 whose question is this?
You , I answered below your comment. Apparently problems happen if you concentrate only on jerking off
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It’s normal, after a while you’ll want it again.
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I have my first wife, I definitely had to bring her to orgasm by stimulating the clitoris with my finger, and then fuck her, then she would go into convulsions, and if without stimulation, then sex for my relief, but it was so easy for her...
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Amateur: 30 Oct 2022, 10:48 most women, as soon as they get an orgasm, begin to consider you unnecessary
That means they don’t need SUCH an orgasm!
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Depends on the type of orgasm: if it’s clitoral, I might want to throw it out the window, although I can’t handle it, given my height and weight. But with vaginal - well, for a very short time there may be some inconvenience. But usually even this is well compensated by the recovery after the "arrival" - and then you can start getting the next one... :)
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I had a friend like this, they smacked for five minutes, all this time she rubbed her clitoris, came and fell off, and I stood there with my jerked dick. I’m trying to get it back somehow and then it’s all bad. I was probably 25 years old, I was just getting excited, and it was a bummer. There was no further reason to do anything with it. Once we got tipsy, she was in such a playful state, I tied her hands to the headboard with balls. He fucked him doggy style like the last time, stroked his asshole with his finger, then stuck it there about a half-length. You won’t believe how she started to cum, I went crazy myself. She contraceptive saw in the moment when she orgasmed, fell off her, came to her senses for about 10 minutes, she was still thrown up all this time. She untied her immediately for a blowjob and let’s sign it, she says I want more. I was in awe) in the pleasant sense of the word)

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I decided to try it in the ass, it didn’t work out, when I managed to get in, she started to rush me, let’s go faster, I can’t do it anymore, the mood disappeared, they returned to the finger in option butt. We tried a lot of lubricants, the result was 0. We continued with a finger in the ass without masturbating the clitoris. Her orgasms were wow. I dreamed about double penetration, but we didn’t make friends with the butt (in short, the finger taxied)

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This happens after a violent orgasm, when at first you are excited and all sorts of vulgar fantasies come into your head, and then after release you think - what a pervert I am) but this is not always the case
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My wife cums only from stimulation of the clitoris, after orgasm she asks to fuck her, but the clitoris says not to touch her anymore.
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It’s purely me!
95% when I experience an orgasm, with convulsions, etc., when I cum, the sex becomes so disgusting, it’s terrible.
But! Personally, I have this condition when you almost come, that is, it’s like an orgasm but not completely. So, when I’m in this state, I want more and more and again and again, but when it’s the last orgasm that pushes me away from sex for 10-15 minutes, I can’t really explain it so disgustingly.
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So it’s possible the other way around) So that she cums from friction and caressing the clitoris, and then brings you with her hands and mouth. Along the way, you can train to cum at the same time, which will be just an emotional bomb!
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Taksa: 30 Nov 2022, 22:23 It’s purely me!
95% when I experience an orgasm, with convulsions, etc., when I cum, the sex becomes so disgusting, it’s terrible.
But! Personally, I have this condition when you almost come, that is, it’s like an orgasm but not completely. So, when I’m in this state, I want more and more and again and again, but when it’s the last orgasm, it pushes me away from sex for 10-15 minutes, it’s so disgusting I can’t really explain it.
Indeed!.. It happens.
A friend... A good friend(!))), starts with half a kick. She’s a devil when it comes to sex!.. She loves it brutally when we cum at the same time. With convulsions she meets the sperm inside herself... It squeaks!... But as soon as I finish, she kicks me out, pulls away for about fifteen minutes... She rests blissfully, and then, maybe she herself can climb on top and continue.
And, my wife (ex-wife), fucked up (!), was stunned by the presence of a penis inside, after orgasm. It happened that I woke up in the morning, and my penis was in her(!)... She was thrilled from the morning hard-on. Yes, and the sex was better. :cat2:
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Nelli2000: 30 Oct 2022, 09:20 It doesn’t bother me, although I can do this too...
Very interesting. Do you have wide hips? Depends on?
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She gave you instructions for use, so do it. You like to give cunnilingus after you’ve cum. Well, I don’t really care at all. So don’t try to make her cum as quickly as possible. In general, I had such a girl, the solution was simple, I brought her to orgasm, then there was a short break, caresses, and then it was my turn. Everything got better when the whip arrived for the New Year, I hit her in the ass and pussy, twisted her nipples and she really changed in this regard, she constantly wanted repetition, and I began to limit. And how the system works, a person wants what is not given to him. That’s what happened here too. Let’s do it in doses, otherwise you’ve laid out all the chips at once and then you suffer
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Mine only cums when on top) I cummed twice in total in doggy style
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Hector: 30 Oct 2022, 01:25 When I finished, the sensations of the friccius are no longer pleasant
"After copulation, every animal is sad".
And Cassius Frictius said this , ancient Roman. Obviously not so ancient, since it was suitable for copulation))
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Nelli2000: 01 Nov 2022, 12:03
Amateur: 30 Oct 2022, 10:48 most women, as soon as they get an orgasm, begin to consider you unnecessary
That means they don’t need SUCH an orgasm!
More precisely, such a man is probably not needed.
I know from myself that if I picked up a girl purely for sex, then after I finished I didn’t even want to look at her, I’ll immediately talk about her forgot.
Sex can only be great when you like your partner in everything, and not just as a sex object.
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I dated a girl who needs it every day. She said that she was a “fast” girl, 5-7 minutes and the orgasm began, after 3-4 frictions she jumped off sharply, and what she said further was annoying. But sometimes, if I also wanted to cum, I pressed her by the shoulders to the bed (and she loved doggy style) and continued to pound, and she went into the “second circle” and finished together.
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