The neighbor persistently offers to live with him. What to do?

Unread post by **Julia2000** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:35

In the next apartment there lives a man who is 43. When I was born, he was 21. Now I live alone, my parents moved to another place, and he either compliments me or gets drunk and asks to visit (I don’t let him, of course). And recently he says, “Yul, let’s live together, I’ll take care of you. If you don’t like it, you’ll leave. You will find out what it is to live with a man. You’ll roll around like cheese in butter.”

He divorced his wife five years ago and lives alone. Why does he need this and what should I do?

Unread post by **March** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:36

Live. And it will be seen there.

Unread post by **The passage** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:38

Julia2000: 06 Nov 2022, 23:35 what should I do?

If I understand correctly, then you are now 22 years old. He’s a grown man and can do whatever he wants.

Unread post by **Julia2000** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:40

March: 06 Nov 2022, 23:36 If I understood correctly, then you are now 22 years old. He is quite an adult and you can do what you want.

So he is 43!!! The age difference is too big. He is a grown man, and I am a girl compared to him. I can’t imagine what common topics of conversation we might have.

Unread post by **March** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:46

Julia2000: 06 Nov 2022, 23:40
March: 06 Nov 2022, 23:36 If I understand correctly, then you are now 22 years old. He is quite an adult and you can do what you want.
So he is 43!!! The age difference is too big. He is a grown man, and I am a girl compared to him. I can’t imagine what common topics we might have for conversation

Well, try it. At the same time, you will find out whether there are common topics or not. The main thing is not to rush with children. And everything else will be determined one way or another.

Unread post by **Julia2000** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:46

Julia2000: 06 Nov 2022, 23:35 Well, try it. At the same time, you will find out whether there are common topics or not.

Is it worth trying?

Unread post by **Danafil** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:48

Why does he need this? Have sex with you!!! It’s easier to run a household together, and it’s possible to make a wife out of you later. He likes you. Just why does he understand all this here? But why do you need... here you need to think)

Unread post by **The passage** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:52

Julia2000: 06 Nov 2022, 23:40 The age difference is too big. He is a grown man, and I am a girl compared to him. I can’t imagine what common topics we might have for conversation

You answer your own question. And, I don’t quite understand where your doubts come from? You live in Moscow, and not in a village where your neighbor is the only man.
Maybe you yourself want to live with him, but you have doubts, then really try it. There is such a case here that if you don’t try, you won’t know.

Unread post by **Julia2000** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:52

Julia2000: 06 Nov 2022, 23:35 Why does he need this? Have sex with you!!! It’s easier to run a household together, and it’s possible to make a wife out of you later. He likes you.

He is 43, I am 22! I can’t even imagine what common topics we might have with him! What sex, he knows me from birth!!!

Unread post by **March** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:53

Danafil: 06 Nov 2022, 23:48 Why does he need this? Have sex with you!!! It’s easier to run a household together, and it’s possible to make a wife out of you later. He likes you. Just why does he understand all this here? But why do you need... here you need to think)

What is there to think about? Do you need to gain experience? Necessary. It’s easier to run a household together, and you can later make a husband out of him, if you’re comfortable with it.

Unread post by **March** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:54

Julia2000: 06 Nov 2022, 23:52 What sex, he knows me from birth!!!

Yes, in general, good sex can happen. I also knew someone from birth. They didn’t complain. At least not for sex.

Unread post by **Baboeb** » 06 Nov 2022, 23:56

You can only fuck with him, why live together? Neighbor for sex!

Unread post by **Julia2000** » 07 Nov 2022, 01:43

Baboeb: 06 Nov 2022, 23:56 Can you only fuck with him, why live together? Neighbor for sex!

What the fuck is sex??? He’s 43, I’m 22! I’m old enough to be a father. I slept with guys, but damn, this is actually a grown man who is much bigger than me

Unread post by **Hammer** » 07 Nov 2022, 01:48

Aren’t four employees at work already hinting at sex?

Unread post by **Julia2000** » 07 Nov 2022, 01:49

Marinka: 06 Nov 2022, 23:52 Do four employees at work no longer hint at sex?

I am a student, I don’t have a job

Unread post by **The passage** » 07 Nov 2022, 01:52

Julia2000: 07 Nov 2022, 01:49 I’m a student, I don’t have a job

Why? In Moscow you can easily combine study and work. The salaries are good.

Unread post by **Passenger 161** » 07 Nov 2022, 02:03

Julia2000, don’t waste your time on a pensioner. I’m also over forty, and believe me, this is my opinion and I’m not imposing it on anyone. Either drive a new car or one that has been shabby for years. Find something like yourself and you will be happy.

Unread post by **Kostiai72** » 07 Nov 2022, 02:12

Don’t waste your time. Nothing good will come of this. The age difference is too big. Then you will regret it. This is if feelings are important to you. Well, if you have a mercantile interest, then this is a normal option.

Unread post by **Vasyavasilëk** » 07 Nov 2022, 02:46

This can be overcome if you fall in love
If not,
Say:"Go to hell, old fart."
"Fuck the old man."
"I have pepper spray, don’t even come close to me."

Unread post by **Informal** » 07 Nov 2022, 03:10

Lord, come on, move to the edge. Advise him to pick up the whore. Get yourself a boyfriend.
As for sex, in 5 years the attitude towards men will change)

Unread post by **Sea cucumber** » 07 Nov 2022, 03:19

Do not waste your time. He’s been fantasizing about you since you just started developing. And now he wants to make his fantasies come true.. But if you decide that you want to learn, it’s better with an experienced one, and he’s not a bad option..

Unread post by **Shamanakas** » 07 Nov 2022, 03:24

Julia2000: 06 Nov 2022, 23:40 So he is 43!!! The age difference is too big. He is a grown man, and I am a girl compared to him. I can’t imagine what common topics we might have for conversation

I wouldn’t refuse right away. It’s not that big of an age difference, to be honest. And people may not at all correspond to generational stereotypes (although here you know better).
If there is at least some sexual interest on your part, then why not? In the end, he is not asking for marriage.

But if there is no interest on your part, then it’s definitely not worth trying. Nothing good will come of it

Unread post by **Polyansky** » 07 Nov 2022, 03:31

live, do you feel sorry? then there will be something to remember