A man offers a relationship with the condition of moving in with him. Does this make sense?

[Zhenya1996]

Hello. I am 27 years old, height 182, weight 80 kg, my son is 4 years old. I have never been married, but I need a relationship, so I registered on a dating site. There I met a man with whom I crossed paths several times at work. He is 44 years old, he is also healthy. And he has a condition for the relationship: we immediately move to live with him. And you can immediately submit an application to the registry office, and in a month we will see. “We are adults, we will live and get to know each other better.”

So I’m wondering if this makes sense

[Beautiful]

Hello. I am 27 years old, height 182, weight 80 kg, my son is 4 years old. I have never been married, but I need a relationship, so I registered on a dating site. There I met a man with whom I crossed paths several times at work. He is 44 years old, he is also healthy. And he has a condition for the relationship: we immediately move to live with him. And you can immediately submit an application to the registry office, and in a month we will see. “We are adults, we will live and get to know each other better.”

So I’m wondering if this makes sense

I think there’s no need to rush into marriage. Live like a couple without painting. You will always have time to register. It’s better to get to know each other without painting. Some nuances may appear.

[Ogest]

We are adults, we will live and get to know each other better

And such immature haste.

[Zhenya1996]

Live like a couple without painting.

Well, it’s strange to live without dating before that.

And such immature haste

He says the opposite. "We’re too old to play all these games with dates, cafes and candy"

[Ogest]

He says the opposite. “We are too old to play all these games with dates, cafes and candies”

Calls you to the registry office without really knowing the person?

[romance book]

We are too old to play all these games with dates, cafes and candies”

not necessarily a cafe. You can go to activities that are interesting to both of you. to communicate and get to know each other better.

[Hair shirt]

So I’m wondering if this makes sense

Of course there is. Don’t hesitate to move. I don’t even know about the registry office. This doesn’t really change anything.
Do you have your own home? If there is, then the registry office really won’t change anything - he has his own living space, you have yours. You cannot count on its area in any way during a divorce. He’s on yours too. Therefore, let the registry office be there. But just in case, secretly from the man, go to a divorce lawyer and outline the situation and ask what kind of setup there could be.

Well, agree, of course. But discuss everything with him in advance on the shore. Do not be shy. For now, this will still be perceived normally and without irritation. That is, discuss all the issues of the hostel. Basically all the issues of spending money. That is, who pays for utilities, food for the refrigerator, your and his lunches at work, expenses for your son.

As long as you are essentially strangers to each other, do not sit completely on his neck. No matter how hard he tries, if you buck somewhere, then if you are completely at his mercy, he will definitely not like it.
That is, try to somehow support yourself and your son yourself. Discuss the filling of your family budget. Of course, it’s better not to talk about different shelves on the refrigerator. But the overall budget will still have to be set up. That is, how much money is in this budget and what percentage of this budget is yours and what percentage is the man’s.

Well, in general, discuss this whole matter with jokes and jokes. I once discussed everything with someone very close to me. And we called this union the Water Rescue Society.
I had a problem related to loneliness and not very good relationships with exes. And this person close to me now had the same problem (in order not to intrigue, I’ll say right away that this is a woman and not a man). And we agreed to live together on one of our territories. And they explained everything in detail, what and how, so that without offense.

I’ll say right away that the feelings and everything that goes with it came later. Like a prize for our efforts. But we tried very hard and were very correct to each other and appreciated our Water Rescue Society.

[King Bird]

Hello. I am 27 years old, height 182, weight 80 kg, my son is 4 years old. I’ve never been married, but I need a relationship

The question is clear, but why does the forum need this data (highlighted and underlined)?
And it’s also clear, that the man is an adult, 44 years old, and he understands perfectly well that there is no point in going to theaters, cafes and parks. Either you suit each other or you don’t.

[Keep the change for yourself]

Hello. I am 27 years old, height 182, weight 80 kg, my son is 4 years old. I’ve never been married, but I need a relationship

The question is clear, but why does the forum need this data (highlighted and underlined)?
And it’s also clear, that the man is an adult, 44 years old, and he understands perfectly well that there is no point in going to theaters, cafes and parks. Either you suit each other or you don’t.

This is a fucking fake, the text was written by a man. A woman wouldn’t even indicate her age, only the male brain creates numbers everywhere, this is a purely male specificity of presenting information.
And not a single woman will write any numbers in her nickname - the copywriter is very ridiculous.

[King Bird]

This is a fake fake, the text was written by a man. A woman wouldn’t even indicate her age

It seems like that.

[Zhenya1996]

A woman wouldn’t even indicate her age, only the male brain creates numbers everywhere, this is a purely male specificity of presenting information.

n I indicated all this on the dating site. So you are wrong

The question is clear, but why does the forum need this data (highlighted and underlined)?

So that there are no questions about why I am alone

[Keep the change for yourself]

Zhenya1996, scourge, please))
Explain the logic - you have a certain life situation and in order to ask for advice, you find the most offensive forum about sex on the Internet, register and pour out your problem with the first message?

[Cunnilingus]

In short, he just needs a young woman and to have sex.

[Wool]

And not a single woman will write any numbers in her nickname - the copywriter is very ridiculous.

A bunch of forum users have numbers in their nicknames:
Sofiya23
Murena0314
5nica
Anastasia2005
Alena26
Lisa24
svetik125

n

[Keep the change for yourself]

And not a single woman will write any numbers in her nickname - the copywriter is very ridiculous.

A bunch of forum members have numbers in their nicknames :
Sofiya23
Murena0314
5nica
Anastasia2005
Alena26
Lisa24
svetik125

So draw your own conclusions - are they female :-D
I saw their messages and only Lisa24 and 5nica looked like girls (and that one is questionable). Svetik125 is written in pedotemes when none of the girls/women who have confirmed themselves with photographs suffer from this.
Are you blind or do you like to be deceived?

[Sweden125]

And not a single woman will write any numbers in her nickname - the copywriter is very ridiculous.

Heaps forum users in nickname numbers:
Sofiya23
Murena0314
5nica
Anastasia2005
Alena26
Lisa24
svetik125

So draw your own conclusions - are they female
I saw their messages and only Lisa24 and 5nica looked like girls (and that one is questionable). Svetik125 is written in pedotemes when none of the girls/women who have confirmed themselves with photographs suffer from this.
Are you blind or do you like to be deceived?

another a show-off who wants to jerk off to our pussies!))))) why should someone prove something to you? Prove that you are a man and not a fagot!

[Keep the change for yourself]

A bunch of forum users have the following numbers in their nicknames:
Sofiya23
Murena0314
5nica
Anastasia2005
Alena26
Lisa24
svetik125

So draw your own conclusions - are they female
I saw their messages and only Lisa24 and 5nica looked like girls (and that one is questionable) . Svetik125 is written in pedotemes when none of the girls/women who have confirmed themselves with photographs suffer from this.
Are you blind or do you like to be deceived?

another a show-off who wants to jerk off to our pussies!))))) why should someone prove something to you? Prove that you are a man and not a fagot!

Prove it yourself first. You know how to do it))
You weren’t there and once I logged in and decided to answer, well, don’t worry at all))

Photo of the hand + signal and in the next 20 minutes, so that you don’t have time to order it at some garbage dump.

Sent after 1 minute 5 seconds:

jerk off to our pussies!

Unlike you, I have never asked anyone here for a nude photo :-D

[Sweden125]

Are you saying I asked?

[Fargal94]

Are you saying I asked?

Hello! Why are you so wound up? Did you learn from Marinka?)

[Sweden125]

Yes! I’m tired of everything, I’m leaving the site!

[Wool]

Yes! I’m tired of everything, I’m leaving the site!

Sveta, don’t go, I believe that you are a woman at 99.5 %

[Shu_her]

I’m leaving the site

don’t leave, stay

[Keep the change for yourself]

Yes! I’m tired of everything, I’m leaving the site!

You have at least 3 accounts, and now you have come out under this one because it was mentioned, you will not go anywhere , Lying is bad.

[King Bird]

Photo of the hand + signal and in the next 20 minutes, so as not to have time to order at some garbage dump.

Here someone on the forum assured that You can’t believe this either, since supposedly you can invite a friend, tell her three boxes worth of crap and take a photo of your hand with a piece of paper. It seems like Marinka. True, she posted such a photo herself.

And a nickname with numbers doesn’t mean anything.

Sent after 1 minute 33 seconds:

Markul: ↑Today, 09:38
The question is clear, but why does the forum need these data (highlighted and underlined)?

So that there are no questions about why I am alone

So what? Are there not enough women in the world who got married with such tactical and technical data?

[The passage]

Why are you so wound up? Did you learn from Marinka?)

Is Marinka like an eyesore? Yes? Don’t worry.
I already wrote here that I have several accounts. Now I’m thinking about which one to move to. This one has become too toxic.
I recently registered a male account. Another one, already the third on this forum, or probably the fourth. By the way, it’s easier to live in men’s rooms. No one writes in a personal message asking to see how he faps. Nobody bothers with suspicions.
I’ll see how it goes. Maybe I’ll stay in the men’s)))

[Fargal94]

Why are you so wound up? Did you learn from Marinka?)

Is Marinka like an eyesore? Yes? Don’t worry.
I already wrote here that I have several accounts. Now I’m thinking about which one to move to. This one has become too toxic.
I recently registered a male account. Another one, already the third on this forum, or probably the fourth. By the way, it’s easier to live in men’s rooms. No one writes in a personal message asking to see how he faps. Nobody bothers with suspicions.
I’ll see how it goes. Maybe I’ll stay in men’s)))

So this is me out of great and unrequited love for you). And I never accused you of anything like that)

[Keep the change for yourself]

Why are you so wound up? Did you learn from Marinka?)

Is Marinka like an eyesore? Yes? Don’t worry.
I already wrote here that I have several accounts. Now I’m thinking about which one to move to. This one has become too toxic.
I recently registered a male account. Another one, already the third on this forum, or probably the fourth. By the way, it’s easier to live in men’s rooms. No one writes in a personal message asking to see how he faps. Nobody bothers with suspicions.
I’ll see how it goes. Maybe I’ll stay in men’s)))

Did I communicate with you when you were under a different account?

[The passage]

Why are you so wound up? Did you learn from Marinka?)

Is Marinka like an eyesore? Yes? Don’t worry.
I already wrote here that I have several accounts. Now I’m thinking about which one to move to. This one has become too toxic.
I recently registered a male account. Another one, already the third on this forum, or probably the fourth. By the way, it’s easier to live in men’s rooms. No one writes in a personal message asking to see how he faps. Nobody bothers with suspicions.
I’ll see how it goes. Maybe I’ll stay in men’s)))

So this is me out of great and unrequited love for you). And I never accused you of anything like that)

I love you all too and leave the forum there is not enough strength. That’s why I need another account from which I can sit here calmly and not spoil the nerves of myself and those around me

[King Bird]

By the way, it’s easier to live in men’s rooms. Nobody writes in a personal message asking to see how he will fap.

Don’t flatter yourself. Then maybe a homosexual can write something like that.

[The passage]

By the way, it’s easier to live in men’s rooms. Nobody writes in a personal message asking to see how he will fap.

Don’t flatter yourself. Then maybe a homosexual can write something like that.

He won’t write. All my accounts are heterosexual.

[Keep the change for yourself]

Marinka,
And I talked to you when you were under a different account?

[King Bird]

Won’t write. All my accounts are heterosexual.

It doesn’t matter. For gays, it’s like a sport - to seduce a convinced hetero, even if only virtually.

[The passage]

Marinka,
nDid I communicate with you when you were under a different account?

I don’t remember

Sent after 46 seconds:

For gays, it’s like a sport - to seduce a convinced hetero, at least even virtually

))) Let him seduce. I’m not afraid of gays)))

Sent after 1 minute 27 seconds:
King Zogu, and if Seriously, you can just write that I’m not interested and the question will be closed.

[Xenophon]

Dear forum members, but I have no strength anymore. A woman (or man) has submitted a topic that is quite interesting for resolution. The substantive discussion took very little time. Later, everything turned into finding out whether it was a woman or a man, although this is not important for discussing this topic. Further more. We agreed to the point that Svetik125 decided to leave the forum. Marinka made a confession that shocked me personally. It turns out that most of the women and men registered here are Marinka!
I won’t talk about the seduction of heterosexuals by gays, because the heterosexuals registered here may well be gay and vice versa.
Ladies under the nicknames of men and men under the nicknames of ladies, let’s not turn the forum into a garbage dump for hermaphrodites. Otherwise, many will follow the example of Svetik125, no matter who she really is.

[Let’s]

I don’t think it’s a good idea to go straight to him, much less immediately to the registry office. I read a similar topic on Woman Ru. Many people speak wonderfully about a marriage with a difference of more than 10 years with a man, when this marriage is a year old, three years old, 5 years old.. But everything changes when such a marriage is 10 years old.. When you are young and beautiful, you are 27, he is 44.. Yes, everything is fine. . Then you are not even forty and he is already approaching 60. And this is where all the problems of the age difference come into play.

[Xenophon]

I don’t think it’s a good idea to go straight to him, much less immediately to the registry office. I read a similar topic on Woman Ru. Many people speak wonderfully about a marriage with a difference of more than 10 years with a man, when this marriage is a year old, three years old, 5 years old.. But everything changes when such a marriage is 10 years old.. When you are young and beautiful, you are 27, he is 44.. Yes, everything is fine. . Then you are not even forty and he is already approaching 60. And here all the problems of the age difference come out.

Yes, by the age of 60 problems can emerge. But the question is, what to do now? If men are standing in line, then the answer is clear. And if not, then I believe that we need to live here and now. If you like the man and treat the child well, you should take him. And what will happen in 20 years, only God knows, and even then this fact has not been confirmed. As for the registry office, it’s a matter of taste. For some women this is important.

[Hair shirt]

I already wrote here that I have several accounts. Now I’m thinking about which one to move to. This one has become too toxic.
I recently registered a male account. Another one, already the third on this forum, or probably the fourth. By the way, it’s easier to live in men’s rooms. No one writes in a personal message asking to see how he faps. No one bothers you with suspicion.
I’ll see how it goes. Maybe I’ll stay in men’s)))

Aren’t you tired of playing with these teenage rattles yet? I suppose your balls are already gray and everything is still there.
In general, I have long had suspicions that you are actually an old man who likes to fool those around him.

But in general, all this is already fucked up. All these numerous accounts, when someone is encrypted under someone else.
Isn’t it clear that this destroys communication? Because communication is based on trust. If you don’t trust your interlocutor and you have doubts about his adequacy, then you don’t communicate with him. And even more so on some topics other than the weather.

The only thing that saves on this forum is that there are no bans here. I think a long time ago a group of five or six regular visitors would have gathered here, one of whom would have been a moderator. And this bunch would ban everyone they don’t like. And then they would sit like owls and look at each other, waiting for some new, fresh visitor who urgently needs to be built, and if he is too fucked up, then ban him too.

And then the resource would die .

[Tamerlane]

Hello. I am 27 years old, height 182, weight 80 kg, my son is 4 years old. I have never been married, but I need a relationship, so I registered on a dating site. There I met a man with whom I crossed paths several times at work. He is 44 years old, he is also healthy. And he has a condition for the relationship: we immediately move to live with him. And you can immediately submit an application to the registry office, and in a month we will see. “We are adults, we will live and get to know each other better.”

So I’m wondering if this makes sense

Write here and ask for advice. This means we’re not sure it’s worth moving in together.
Meet and everything will become clear over time. A man may also want to have a strong, reliable family.
So watch how he behaves, what he says, his actions. And make a decision.

[The passage]

In general, I have long had suspicions that you are actually an old man who likes to fool others.

))) Oh, how long ago Are you suspicious? Since you have been following me in the winter, but nothing has worked out. It’s a shame? Yes?

But in general, all this is already fucked up

So Fucked up that you always wrote as unregistered, and now this option is not there and you had to register? Hunting is worse than captivity, isn’t it? Isn’t it so?

All these numerous accounts

Losing control over the situation? Yes? But it’s important for a man to control the situation? Am I right?
But you yourself didn’t always write here like Hair Shirt. How many nicknames have you used? Three pieces? I think more.
Ah, now you are writing about

Isn’t it clear that this destroys communication. Because communication is based on trust.

No one is forcing you to communicate with me

The only thing that saves this Forum this is what they don’t ban here. I think a long time ago a group of five or six regular visitors would have gathered here, one of whom would have been a moderator. And this bunch would ban everyone they don’t like. And then they would sit like owls and look at each other, waiting for some new, fresh visitor who urgently needs to be built, and if he is too fucked up, then ban him too.

And then the resource would die .

This resource is being developed and will continue to develop. Don’t worry.

[Fargal94]

For the first time I agree with Vlasyanitsa that they’ve already fucked up a lot of accounts

[The passage]

What, they’ve already fucked you up with a lot of accounts

And what did they fuck you with? Can you explain clearly and specifically?

[Fargal94]

what, they’ve already fucked you with a lot of accounts

And what have they fucked you with? Can you explain clearly and specifically?

you don’t even know who you’re communicating with anymore. I come here to relax, it’s nice to communicate on a given topic, and not to work as a detective (Marina, is that enough?

[The passage]

What, they’ve already fucked you up with a lot of accounts

And what did they fuck you with? Can you explain clearly and specifically?

you don’t even know who you’re communicating with anymore. I come here to relax, it’s nice to communicate on a given topic, and not work as a detective( Marina, is that enough?

And who is stopping you from communicating on a given topic and who forces you to work as a detective?

[Fargal94]

What did they fuck you with? Can you explain clearly and specifically?

you don’t even know who you’re communicating with anymore. I come here to relax, it’s nice to communicate on a given topic, and not work as a detective( Marina, is that enough?

And who is stopping you from communicating on a given topic and who forces you to work as a detective?

This is how I communicate, but sometimes it’s annoying (. And pay attention, I don’t quarrel or conflict with anyone here)

[The passage]

You don’t even know who you’re talking to anymore. I come here to relax, it’s nice to communicate on a given topic, and not work as a detective( Marina, is that enough?

And who is stopping you from communicating on a given topic and who forces you to work as a detective?

This is how I communicate, but sometimes it’s annoying (. And pay attention, I don’t quarrel or conflict with anyone here)

Why does this bother you? Can you explain clearly?

[Fargal94]

And who is stopping you from communicating on a given topic and who is forcing you to work as a detective?

So I and communicate, but sometimes it’s annoying (. And pay attention, I’m not quarreling or conflicting with anyone here)

How does this bother you? Can you explain clearly?

so that you would try to insult me ​​again??? I wrote everything I wanted

[Hair shirt]

So fucked up that you always wrote as unregistered, and now this option is not there and you had to register? Hunting is worse than captivity, isn’t it? Isn’t that right?

I already said above that I just like this forum not because of the topic, but because there are no bans here and because there are There are no restrictions on the use of obscene language. Which is part of any language and within reasonable limits, and if there is a sense of proportion, then communication is simply impossible without it.

And as a result, there are no distortions with moderation when one of the most active users becomes a moderator. Who, having received unlimited power, simply loses his edge from impunity. I would even say that this is some kind of sadism. When a person, almost on a physical level, gets pleasure when in a particular dispute he can simply ban his opponent without leaving him any choice.

Actually, this is what several nicknames on the forum are for. Several nicknames of a regular user and one nickname of a moderator. And if you somehow offend or accidentally step on the foot of the moderator’s usual nickname, after some time you receive a warning for a far-fetched reason. And the next post, no matter what, is immediately banned for a week. Then two.
And then mocking comments from one of the accounts saying that the person went on vacation for a week.

In general, I can say with all confidence that it was on this basis that social networks sprouted. If anyone remembers before social networks, everyone communicated on thematic forums. And it was precisely this chaos in moderation that gave birth to a new format of communication - VKontakte, Odnoklassniki, LiveJournal, and something else. If anyone has paid attention, the essence of these social networks is that each account
is essentially a full-fledged forum. Where each user is also a moderator of their account.

Although so-called thematic communities with their own moderators soon appeared there too. But this did not interfere with communication with each other. It’s just that these communities were very highly specialized. For example, for the sale of photographic equipment, no one ever communicated there and it was impossible to create topics there.

Losing control over the situation? Yes? But it’s important for a man to control the situation? Am I right?
But you yourself didn’t always write here like Hair Shirt. How many nicknames have you used? Three pieces? I think more.

Never bothered with it. The nickname that I have now was automatically assigned to me as an anonymous user. That nickname that was once registered after registration, I asked the administration to delete it. Admin can confirm. It’s not there.
The nickname under which I registered now is the same one that the system gave me as an anonymous user.

You all finally understand that these numerous nicknames and incomprehensible gender belonging when you don’t know exactly who you are communicating with right now - a girl, a guy, a grandmother, a grandfather, a gay or a trans...
This all kills the very essence of communication with anyone. This is about the same as pretending to be disabled and asking passers-by for money. Once they realize that in front of you is not a disabled person but a charlatan, people stop being compassionate and stop helping real disabled people.

They pass by a man in a wheelchair who cannot climb the steps. And they pass by not because they don’t give a fuck, but because they think that this is a type of fraud when they trick you into helping you. You rush to help, and while you are fussing and puffing with the stroller, they pull something out of your pockets - a mobile phone, a wallet, some documents.
And the next time the person just passes by. And then they say about the residents of big cities that they are heartless motherfuckers.
Or maybe there is simply no need to kill mercy in people in this way. Or maybe it is necessary to introduce aggravating articles into the Criminal Code for such manipulation of human trust?

And with all this crap on the forums, I think it’s the same. In my opinion, trolling those with whom you communicate from different accounts is about the same as shitting in the bed right where you sleep - like - fuck it! What are you going to do to me!?

[The passage]

You all finally understand that with these numerous nicknames and incomprehensible gender, when you don’t know exactly who you are communicating with right now - a girl, a guy, a grandmother, a grandfather, a gay or a trans...

And when there is only one account, do you understand who you are communicating with? This is an anonymous forum. How a person introduces himself is how we introduce him. Personally, this has always been enough for me.

[Hair shirt]

And when there is only one account, do you understand who you are communicating with? This is an anonymous forum. How a person introduces himself is how we introduce him. Personally, this has always been enough for me.

Right now, let’s say three or four write to me that they don’t like something. But in fact, it was all written down by one person. And you need to keep this in mind that in fact, not three people are communicating with you, but one. And besides, this may not be a woman as stated, and not even an adult man, but just a teenager who is simply bothered by the fact that he is trolling the peers of his father or stepfather.
And all this must be allowed when communicating here. And it’s this whole crap that’s fucked up.

And communication on certain topics in itself loses all meaning.
Although I admit that this is exactly the format of communication that takes place among teenagers. That they live and communicate all the time in an atmosphere of teasing and banter, and that you always need to keep your eyes open and never relax. Because at any moment they can fuck you up, catch you on some kind of your weakness.

But why do we need all this crap here?
And if there is some teenager here and he’s pissing people off here, either we or all the adults present here, why do we need all this crap?
Does everyone really like this and everyone came here for this?

[Fargal94]

And when there is only one account, do you understand who you are communicating with? This is an anonymous forum. How a person introduces himself is how we introduce him. Personally, this has always been enough for me.

Right now, let’s say three or four write to me that they don’t like something. But in fact, it was all written down by one person. And you need to keep this in mind that in fact, not three people are communicating with you, but one. And besides, this may not be a woman as stated, and not even an adult man, but just a teenager who is simply bothered by the fact that he is trolling the peers of his father or stepfather.
And all this must be allowed when communicating here. And it’s this whole crap that’s fucked up.

And communication on certain topics in itself loses all meaning.
Although I admit that this is exactly the format of communication that takes place among teenagers. That they live and communicate all the time in an atmosphere of teasing and banter, and that you always need to keep your eyes open and never relax. Because at any moment they can fuck you up, catch you on some kind of your weakness.

But why do we need all this crap here?
And if there is some teenager here and he’s pissing people off here, either we or all the adults present here, why do we need all this crap?
Does everyone really like this and everyone came here for this?

Thank you for your detailed answer to Marinka, otherwise I myself can barely access the buttons on the phone). And I don’t like to write a lot. The Chukchi is not a writer, the Chukchi is a reader)